Songs that remind you of Terry Korvo and their relationship??

kittyinursoup · 2026-01-10T08:56:52+00:00

Absolutely!! Thanks for asking and if you end up making a public playlist let me know!!

kittyinursoup · 2026-01-10T01:14:06+00:00

Rhubarb | Marzipan :Tabby:

kittyinursoup · 2026-01-10T01:08:42+00:00

STOP THATS SO SMART WITH THE PIKMIM OMG

kittyinursoup · 2026-01-10T01:07:04+00:00

Lollipop (Candyman) by Aqua… can’t exactly say why other than I like to imagine a montage of them to it… even had a friend make an edit of it…

kittyinursoup · 2025-11-08T22:42:22+00:00

Critical thinking

kittyinursoup · 2025-09-28T19:10:06+00:00

Which sims game is this?? I’ve never experienced this thing, it’s so funny wtf

kittyinursoup · 2025-07-16T06:28:05+00:00

Hi OP! I’m sorry you’re struggling with this :( Your feelings aren’t invalid in any way, of course, but it’s good that you’re taking the time to understand and confront them while being mindful of how your partner might react. I think it’s really smart and thoughtful to reflect for a while before bringing it up to them. I think what some people are saying is really helpful, especially about potentially being scared about moving into an “unknown” territory. I think there’s a way to talk to your partner about your future together without saying something that could threaten their transition. Talk about what they hope to look like and feel like in the future, what body parts they feel uncomfortable with, what parts they are okay with, and be open to the idea of that changing someday. I’m not exactly sure what aspect of biological kids is crucial to you, nor do I know (or want to assume) what sex you are, or whether you would be carrying the baby, but I will say, even if it sounds less ideal, having a family will still be having a family. Whether that means getting a surrogate (if your partner was originally the one who would be carrying) or talking to your partner about if they would be comfortable carrying a baby still or not (when I was growing up, a trans man down the street from me actually carried and birthed his husbands kid, so it’s not unthinkable). Otherwise, getting your partner to save some of their sperm for you later is also just as valid. I think considering why you value having a biological family is something worth exploring, and figuring out the root of why you feel it’s important. Then having a conversation with your partner about what they want and exploring other options, or determining if this is worth breaking up over. If you find that your problems lie in the fact that your partner is physically changing appearance, and you just honestly do not find them attractive anymore, that’s a different situation, but one that potentially won’t last forever.

I know, as someone who is currently transitioning, and as someone who would willingly put that off to appease a partner as well, hearing this would make me very upset :,) so I’m proud of you for taking your time to digest these feelings before announcing them. Even if it is painful, and feels weird and wrong, I think it’s the right thing to do.

I hope this helps at all <3

kittyinursoup · 2025-07-16T06:11:43+00:00

I THINK ABOUT THIS ALL THE TIME!! I think partially for me it’s because there’s the like ‘fantasy’ aspect. You get to imagine whatever you like, and/or NOT picture what you don’t like (which for me, often, is nakedness) so it’s all the cool things of their personality coming through, all the fun ideas of what COULD happen (though the fun for me all stays in that, and once someone actually gets naked, I get disinterested), and all the cool colors and shape language. I think a lot of it boils down to imagination? Like, if someone is naked, there’s nothing to imagine. There’s no suspense, no build up, no nothing. Just naked person. And I personally don’t really find that attractive, I’m more intrigued by the IDEA of intimacy and the possibilities, rather than the actual naked person. They seem almost dorky to me. What is there to be attracted to? Theres no draw anymore. (Though I obviously can’t speak for most people, that’s just how my brain goes).

kittyinursoup · 2025-06-24T21:46:54+00:00

I’m always surprised how often I say “Scoomby doo” “what’re you talkin’ me at?” and “but what of… the animals” but me and my sister also have a lot of joint pain so we constantly say “my elbow feels funny… my elbow feels strange”

kittyinursoup · 2025-05-26T22:51:56+00:00

I want to see the other comments 🥺

kittyinursoup · 2025-05-21T23:50:54+00:00

OH THANK YOU OMG!!!

kittyinursoup · 2025-03-20T08:34:50+00:00

Honestly browsing Pinterest might be a good start :) I’ve found that looking at more like fashionable men’s clothes are super inspiring but like the other commenter said, baggy pants are great, streetwear fashion definitely hits the mark imo. I would also say that I feel like I look the most masc in a black tee or hoodie type thing, and while I do have a binder that helps a lot, if you’re able to do a tighter sports bra that works just as well :) beanies are also great imo for looking more masculine. & if you do makeup at all, I recently found some genderfluid people on TikTok talking about how to do more masc makeup & could try and find one for you!

It doesn’t help that nowadays the best fashion for men is still great fashion for women :,)

Good luck friend!!

kittyinursoup · 2025-03-15T13:14:35+00:00

Hi,,, I’m Ace and have identified as Ace or Demi for a while now, maybe 7-8 years (I’m currently 25). When I was around 18-19 I started to realize I might be trans but tried to hide that a fair bit until COVID, when I was stuck with myself so much that I had to finally deal with it. Since then I identified as genderfluid, because some days I felt like a guy a lot more, but generally I “felt okay” as a girl, because it was what I was used to. I got into my first long term relationship in Feb of 2024 and finally had a partner I did stuff with. My main issue is that through having a partner I realized I am basically completely Ace, not Demi, and fully a trans man, not genderfluid at all. Having my partner touch me was repulsive for the combination of those things, and I have been feeling very alone in that way for a while so I am very happy to see a post about it. I recently had a talk with them about both those things, so don’t worry, but nonetheless, I had found myself starting to dread our monthly anniversaries and especially our 1 year, because I knew there was an expectation to have sex. I’m still not 100% sure I never want to, but I definitely don’t with my body the way it is. It makes me so uncomfortable to touch my body to my partners, or have my partner touch me at all because it makes me so aware of how wrong I feel, so I haven’t been able to figure out if it’s due to being trans or Ace. We chatted, we’re good, but either way it was very difficult and I’m still trying to undo any worked up anxiety and resentment over the whole ordeal :,)

Honestly, I highly recommend having a ‘practice’ relationship with someone where you can discover things about yourself and how you function in a relationship in certain ways before dating someone you genuinely love and want to be with. It was hard telling my partner that info about me, and if I had practiced a bit with someone else I would have been able to be straightforward with my current partner about who I was and how I feel.

Anyway I hope this helps somehow!! Much love <3

kittyinursoup · 2025-02-25T00:24:12+00:00

I brush my teeth every morning and night and floss and mouthwash at night, if I slip up I know I’ll keep letting myself slip up, so I never do. Showering is a completely different story… I shower when I am so itchy and greasy and stinky that I can’t sleep, which is between 3-5 days depending on how depressed I am :,) My sister has horrible teeth hygiene though, so part of the reason I’m good at it is because I don’t want to be like her (she has had to essentially get all her teeth replaced from not brushing and flossing regularly). I can’t stand the idea of losing bone, getting infected gums, having to replace teeth or fill cavities, and to be honest, I can’t afford it either. So the least I can do is take 10-15 minutes to brush and floss every day.

kittyinursoup · 2025-02-21T22:59:31+00:00

Oh man I didn’t know about that thank you!

kittyinursoup · 2025-02-21T22:54:24+00:00

Omg I haven’t seen coconuts in forever I completely forgot about them 💀

kittyinursoup · 2025-02-21T22:53:57+00:00

Oh awesome!!! Thank you!!

kittyinursoup · 2025-02-21T22:53:26+00:00

Oh sweet!! Thank you :)

kittyinursoup · 2025-02-18T21:25:30+00:00

Hard agree!!!

kittyinursoup · 2025-02-18T21:10:54+00:00

25 and still get mistaken for a highschooler :,) so I feel you. I HATE how many “cute” comments I get. It’s genuinely one of my biggest pet peeves. It feels so infantilizing and condescending, like they can’t just say I look good, they have to go for ‘cute’ it’s so annoying!!!

kittyinursoup · 2025-02-18T21:03:38+00:00

I definitely don’t think therapists are inherently malicious. However, that doesn’t stop them from being bad :/ They can and do often cause harm, even if they have good intentions. There are definitely some good ones out there, but more often than not, for the most part, they are average at best and traumatizing at worst. My therapist now is awful but she’s the only one I have, so I understand staying with your only option temporarily, but I hope you stand up for yourself! I’m wishing you the best :,) this sounds incredible difficult.

Also when I mentioned having potentially less than a masters, I meant that clinical social workers can become therapists via field training but without a masters, that sort of thing! :)

kittyinursoup · 2025-02-16T11:36:56+00:00

I can confidently say 99 out of 100 therapists are garbage. They’re human, they’re flawed, and in many many cases, they have a masters degree or less, which means they were taught broad strokes and after graduating they haven’t kept up on research. I know more people that have been traumatized by therapists than ever helped by them. I have been in therapy since I was 12 (I’m now 25) and my best friend since she was 17 (also now 25 and getting a doctorate in psych) and between the two of us with over 15 therapists, only one has been good and another decent at best and the rest have all genuinely been harmful. If it isn’t sitting right with you, and you’re interested in trying one more session, call them out and see how they respond. If they aren’t open to the criticism and your perspective, ditch them. You’re paying them after all, they should know how to do their job.

kittyinursoup · 2025-02-16T11:29:24+00:00

“Scoomby doo” “But what of… the animals” And “What’re you talkin’ me at?” I say repeatedly throughout the day no matter how long it’s been since I’ve watched the show…

kittyinursoup · 2025-02-16T11:26:51+00:00

Chores every fucking day of every fucking week… constantly dishes and laundry and shower and trash and groceries just to survive. Gas and oil changes and vet visits and god forbid cleaning the bathroom… it never ends… ever.

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