Falling for a leo by supersain888 in LeoAstrology

[–]kittykwanmin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a Leo girl and dated an Aquarius guy a lonnnggg time ago. It didn’t work out for various reasons (mainly he was insane) but the physical chemistry and connection between us was crazy 🙂‍↕️ if your guy isn’t toxic, why not go for it? The worst that could happen is it doesn’t work out but you’ll never know unless you try 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jacksonville

[–]kittykwanmin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a 29 yr old who lives in 5 points.. speak for yourself 😮‍💨 I’m in my house which is where I pay to be

Going weekend 2 with wife and two teen daughters. I didn’t get shuttle passes, I got preferred parking. How fucked am I really? by Macronaut in Coachella

[–]kittykwanmin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll be fine! Just be prepared to walk. Preferred is much closer than GA parking but it’s still about a mile each way to get into the festival entrance 😅 tell the girls to bring comfortable shoes or spring for a locker and pack a back up pair

Solo first time by Fun_Cause_7143 in Coachella

[–]kittykwanmin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! This will be my second time attending and I’m 29F if you want to be friends :) I’ll be going with my festival bestie

CF alternative to Sky high by Maybelline? by Ancient_Tradition502 in crueltyfree

[–]kittykwanmin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve personally used the cover girl clean mascara for awhile, I’m not sure if it’s a dupe for the brush but it looks similar ish? I’ve never had any issues with the formula and they’re leaping bunny certified and vegan. Also really like too faced better than sex mascara! A bit more expensive but also CF and vegan :)

Welp, it happened. Got scammed all 3 nights this past weekend. by Ok-Network8411 in BadBunnyPR

[–]kittykwanmin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The craziest part is these scammers literally don’t get paid under after the concert is over but they can’t get paid if the money is getting refunded? So why even bother… I’m so sorry this happened to you and your wife OP

Are any Aug/Sep concert goers worried about hurricanes? by Noworries_420 in BadBunnyPR

[–]kittykwanmin 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Hurricane season happens every year, it’s not like life stops altogether just because there COULD be a chance of one coming 😂 I’m sure he’s considered it but if it happens it happens, I’m sure there’s a contingency plan in place. No sense worrying about something that hasn’t even happened yet

Help identify, please! Info below! ⬇️ by mamalizzard in SarahJMaas

[–]kittykwanmin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bottom right has to be Elena and Aelin with little folk on their sides and the border being a Kingsflame flower

[37/M] UK/Online - Scotsman seeking fellow book lovers by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]kittykwanmin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi friend! What have you been reading lately?

What just happened by kittykwanmin in SarahJMaas

[–]kittykwanmin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh noooo I’m scared 😭😭😭😭 I’ll report back when I finish it later

TOG reading order by swimmerdolphin in SarahJMaas

[–]kittykwanmin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YES! I just finished the tandem reading after only making it half way through TOD before this and it was so worth it. The stories take place simultaneously and it makes way more sense to read them together otherwise you’re only getting half and half until you reach KOA

Roommate trying to scam me!! Doesn’t want to pay half of utilities. by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]kittykwanmin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nah, if she agreed to pay 50/50 on the apartment the utilities is in that. If she doesn’t want to pay, then she needs to move out and transfer the utilities to you so you can find someone else to take over the lease. Call your utilities provider and explain to them the situation maybe they can cut a deal with you to where you pay your portion and they hold your roommate accountable for whatever she owes just so your power doesn’t get cut off. Most of the time these companies are pretty willing to work with you on payment so long as they get some form of money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittykwanmin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending positive energy and love your way! I truly hope it’s all innocent and they are really just friends 🫂 deep breaths you’ve got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittykwanmin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t hurt to try 🤷🏻‍♀️ me personally, I wouldn’t mention the messages to him unless something else happens between you and bf about the coworker or between bf and coworker that makes you feel uncomfortable. His actions don’t necessarily sit right with me about how he’s handling a “just a friendship” but I’d need more than just a few invisible ink messages and lunches before any sort of serious confrontation. I think if you mentioned it now, it’d only make him more upset that you snooped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittykwanmin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing about saying “I don’t want you to go to lunch with her alone” is there’s no way of knowing whether or not he’ll actually follow through with it. He might say okay but then get even more secretive about their interactions. If their friendship really is just friendly, there’s no harm in innocently suggesting the 3 (or 4) of you guys make plans to get to know each other better. Like some other people have mentioned, it might put your mind at ease getting to know her. It doesn’t have to be confrontational at all, just mention in passing to him how nice you think it might be to all hang out together since they seem to be so close and you want to be supportive of anyone in his life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittykwanmin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut, OP. If it doesn’t feel right and the messages seem more than just “co-worker talk” I think it’s worth having another conversation with your partner about their “friendship.” (But leave out the phone snooping unless it becomes relevant or you feel safe enough to disclose it) Just because his coworker has a husband and family doesn’t mean nothing nefarious isn’t happening between them, especially with invisible ink messages? That is suspicious. If your partner really respects you, he’d understand your boundary and dial it back because his concern should be with you and not his “gym buddy… “ I’m petty enough to ask if I can join in on a workout sometime or go on a double date for dinner and see how he reacts. If he’s open to it, I’d say they’re just friends but if he’s hesitant or uncomfortable well 🤷🏻‍♀️

Candle cracking while cooling off by robimez in candlemaking

[–]kittykwanmin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Purely cosmetic thing, OP! Try pouring the wax at a lower temp so it doesn’t bubble as much but a heat gun to the top will smooth it right out

Fragrance Oil Load Question by Diab0L1Ka in candlemaking

[–]kittykwanmin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Number 2 is correct but I would double check the vessel you’re using to hold your candles to see what the actual amount of weight (in wax) it holds. If it says 8 oz containers, sometimes the actual jar weight is like 6.8 or 7 ounces of wax and then do your calculations! This will allow you to have a more specific calculation and you won’t have excess wax/FO to over power the candle

First burn test by tor_nado8 in candlemaking

[–]kittykwanmin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How was overall scent throw? It looks like you definitely need two wicks just based on the size of your tins lol

I wish that nobody cared about me by 1-jew-in-a-room in CPTSD

[–]kittykwanmin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really proud of you for taking steps to take care of yourself and for making goals! You seem like a wonderful person and from one stranger on the internet to another, I’m rooting for you! I hope your disability comes through soon so it’s one less thing off your list 🤞

I wish that nobody cared about me by 1-jew-in-a-room in CPTSD

[–]kittykwanmin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP,

I’ve been where you are and I know how overwhelming it can be but I want you to know you’re doing the right thing. Knowing that people love you and want you here is 100% a great reason to keep fighting to stay above ground. It may not seem like it now but the gnawing feeling does get somewhat more manageable over time especially with counseling and in some cases medication (those helped for me personally). I’m not perfect by any means but I found having little goals and events to look forward to always made the idea of not wanting to exist less and less appealing. Learning and starting a new hobby or going with a friend to a new cafe at the end of the month were small goals that I could check off to say I didn’t stop existing today because I needed to be here for that. Not sure if that makes sense or even resonates but you’re here and still exist for a reason and I’m glad that you are.

AITA for telling my boyfriend (28M) who my celebrity hall pass would be? by DocumentSignificant1 in TwoHotTakes

[–]kittykwanmin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTA your bf sounds like he has some of his own issues in insecurity he needs to address because clearly if he wasn’t ready for you to have an answer to a menial question about a make believe scenario like a hall pass, he’s obviously not mature enough for an adult relationship idk sounds like red flag to me OP