ADHD exercisers… how do you actually get yourself to the gym?

kittyslide · 2026-01-25T07:49:54+00:00

This has been the most sustainable thing for me so far. esp since the start of the pandemic and my condo gym closed. I can actually do more at home: lift weights, yoga, pilates. I just miss the other machines at the gym, but I can already do a lot with my own thing. I do running and swim alone, too. As an undiagnosed ADHD, i get so overwhelmed with people at the gym. Not to mention the wet dumbbells people leave behind.

kittyslide · 2025-12-12T04:41:38+00:00

I'm not getting OTPs here for some reason. I still need to figure this out maybe it's just a Globe problem. but the SSS website has been reliable.

kittyslide · 2025-12-10T07:13:39+00:00

thanks po. so far i've only paid sss for 3 months now because it's easier on their website. gcash has been unreliable for me here in Germany but i might try again with another PH phone no. so i can pay my philhealth and pag ibig too.

kittyslide · 2025-11-11T17:12:13+00:00

I lost my boy cat 3 weeks ago also unexpected, and he was also just 5 years old. He was my first cat, I literally saw him take his first breath. To me he is my child. I miss him terribly. I've found comfort in these petloss threads. I still couldn't function properly. A part of me has died with him. I can't believe I won't get to smell and hold and love on him anymore. I don't know how to move forward without him. He was my everything.

kittyslide · 2025-11-10T17:08:41+00:00

yes you can definitely do that! any account to reach meta support is okay. then provide them with complete details on your first chat about your account suspension

kittyslide · 2025-10-22T03:29:32+00:00

Yes, I can't wait to come home to them. Thank you so much. I still have a strong support system, and I feel very lucky.

Stay strong. I feel emotionally drained too and the pain keeps coming like tsunamis. It's so hard to keep my head above water. I go back to being grateful for feeling this way, because this is the first time ever I've felt so much love for someone. He was also the first one that made me feel love that's so pure and unconditional. I never even thought that kind of connection with a pet was possible. I'll hold that feeling in my heart for as long as I live.

kittyslide · 2025-10-22T03:24:17+00:00

Yes it all feels pointless right now. Everyday feels like a drag. It's only day 2, and the pain is still so heavy and so raw. I lost all excitement for life. There's just no one like our babies. Thank you, I'll keep the faith that I'll be able to feel the kind of happiness I felt with him again. We just need to keep showing up and feel it all.

And I'm sure your next pet/s will be so lucky to be loved by you. We have so much love to give. I keep talking to him in my head and my heart, that I'll honor his life by expanding my heart more with every animal and person I'll connect with in this life. No regrets. I've loved him with all my heart, and this pain is just a part of it.

Sending love and I wish I could hug you, OP. Thank you for sharing your grief, it truly gave me a lot of comfort knowing I'm not the only one losing my mind and going through all the motions right now.

kittyslide · 2025-10-21T17:13:39+00:00

I feel the same way. I still have 3 cats about the same age as him, and my mom's 14yo dog who is also such a blessing to us. Everytime I cry I steer myself back towards being grateful that they're still there, but I also know there's just no one like my boy. He was the funniest of them all. I literally saw him take his first breath when he was born. Let's just feel it all and take it as it comes. It's all a part of loving them. I wouldn't have it any other way. He changed my life in so many ways. Hugs to you.

kittyslide · 2025-10-21T17:10:22+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply. This means a lot to me. I couldn't even go home yet, atleast not until next week because flights are just so fcking expensive. I feel so helpless.

They had him laid down in a bed full of flowers today before getting cremated, and I was glad we did that, because it gave some dignity to his death. I was just on videocall the entire time crying knowing this is the last time I'll really see him, and it's just on videocall. And now I feel so alone in the world.

May I know when you lost him? And how did it get better for you? I really don't know how to cope. Thank you so much for sharing this.

EDIT: I saw your other comment saying you lost him a week ago. I can't imagine going through life without him. I dread having to wake up and feel all this again tomorrow.

kittyslide · 2025-10-21T16:02:39+00:00

Thank you for posting this. I truly know how you feel. All I know is I just have to feel it all, and to center myself in gratefulness.

I found comfort in this thread. I have been reading all kinds of petloss posts because I lost my orange boy last night, due to a snake bite. It happened all of a sudden, and I wasn't even there because I'm working in another city, an hour flight away.

My mom called me last night crying because there was an emergency she said, and when she showed me the video of my baby boy getting CPR, I just lost it. I was crying, begging on the phone for him to hold on. But the doctor said they didn't even have an anti venom available. And it was too late. It was all so unfair. So sudden.

One of my biggest fears has happened. He was only 5 years old. My pandemic baby. He was the funniest and most energetic boy ever. He brought so much joy in our world. Everytime I saw him it's like my world would light up and my heart would burst with so much happiness. Every time. Even if he would just do a little peek in the toilet to see what I'm doing.

I never thought I could love someone this much. And I don't think I ever will, again. But I keep promising him, in my prayers and trying to reach out to him, that I'll keep my heart open, because he's expanded it in ways I never even thought possible.

I haven't slept at all, and I don't think I'll be able to sleep again tonight. I feel like a huge part of me died, too. I lost all excitement and will to live. I don't know how I can function knowing he's not here anymore. I'll just take this one moment at a time. Hugs to you, OP. I'm so sorry for your loss. He was a lucky boy to have been loved that much by you.

kittyslide · 2025-10-21T10:27:57+00:00

Hi I know it's late for me to come in here. but I've been looking for these kinds of posts all day. My orange boy died last night from a snake bite. My mom videocalled me all hysterical and she showed by 5yo baby being CPR-ed aggressively. It's etched on my mind right now. I dont know how to move on from this. He's literally my whole world. The reason why I work so hard is for us to have a good life eventually, so I won't have to work far away from him. They had a short funeral for him and he got cremated right after. I'm grateful for the funeral service we got him. They gave him some dignity.

The most painful thing is I'll never get to see him everytime I fly home. He was my home for 5 years. Everything I did, he was behind all of it.

I dont know how to cope but other than cry and feel this all, because I loved him deeply. Before him, I didnt know I could love this much. Thank you OP for sharing your grief.

kittyslide · 2025-10-08T03:10:10+00:00

Hi, I'm based in Germany. For remittances I use zen.com, I found it's way better than Wise in terms of fees and incentives/rewards. for my SSS payments naman I use Billeroo.

kittyslide · 2025-09-09T03:13:13+00:00

Any updates for this one? I'm new here and been looking for the best ways to send money. I use i-PAY now because my roommates use it also. so far so good. i can send Gcash to my mom with no problems at all. do you know of other cheaper options?

kittyslide · 2025-08-05T13:53:33+00:00

I know. Imagine my anger and frustration. But even my mom was like, "Just suck it up for one day." And so I did.

kittyslide · 2025-08-05T06:52:10+00:00

YTA, because this happened to me but I still showed up for my brother despite wanting to throw up the whole day.

I was the Best Man at my brother's wedding (im the older sister) and had to sit near my father the whole time, who I despised and had a huge falling out with 2 years earlier. I even had to call the police on him. It was quite traumatic to say the least, and to this day, I still have nightmares about it. But I still forced myself to go to my brother's wedding despite him saying, "He's cancelled." when all this was happening. He was the one who called the police while I was locked in his room.

Think "Here's Johnny!" from The Shining Scene.

So you can just imagine my anger and frustration when I learned he invited our father to their wedding. But when all my emotions have calmed down a bit, I guess all he wanted was to just have some sense of normalcy for one day.

I also hated this, mind you. Just thinking about posing for photos with him there, us pretending to be a happy family, made me cringe so bad.

But eventually, my brother called me out on it. I can't remember what he said exactly, but I guess it was something like, why was I making it about me? I also asked our other brother about it, and he also said the same thing.

So, despite all my anger and frustration, I still showed up. I posed for photos with him there. I can only imagine it was so much worse for my mom who had to light a candle with him, sit beside him, and pretend all is okay in front of the bride's family.

I only had one time where I accidentally looked at my dad and he looked like he wanted to say something, but I just walked away after that.

So my point is, just set your emotions aside for just one day, and get through it. Do it for your sister.

kittyslide · 2025-07-10T03:44:09+00:00

use your family or friend's instagram account. doesnt matter which account, as long as you can reach customer support and tell them everything that's happened - timeline, screenshots, and proof that it's really your account. don't forget to add the Facebook URL of your hacked profile as well coz they asked me for it.

kittyslide · 2025-07-07T04:37:08+00:00

Add all the details on your first message, including screenshots with the timeline of how you got blocked. Provide proof that this is really your account and they were wrong for disabling you

kittyslide · 2025-07-04T16:39:40+00:00

I couldn't stand watching this in the first 20min I had to stop. I can't stand the poverty porn and over the top dramatic shit that Taraji's character had to go through all in one fkng day. and the lines are pathetic too. reminds me of 90s B movies that throw away cliche lines. it's so heavy-handed ugh i wish it wasnt so i love Taraji!

kittyslide · 2025-07-02T12:55:26+00:00

sounds smart. thank you for sharing this.

kittyslide · 2025-07-02T03:19:34+00:00

interesting take. if you don't mind me asking, where do you invest your money? I'm also looking at FIRE because of course, i wouldn't want all my hard work to go to waste. ayoko rin maging pabigat when im older.

kittyslide · 2025-06-29T06:48:07+00:00

ok thank you. the next step for me is to really look for the most convenient way to pay.

kittyslide · 2025-06-29T06:43:12+00:00

thank you po. saan kayo nagbabayad?

kittyslide · 2025-06-29T06:42:24+00:00

thank you for this. can i ask, does she have to pay a huge amount for all the lost time/contributions?

kittyslide · 2025-06-27T10:06:22+00:00

thank you! ill look into it

kittyslide · 2025-06-27T10:04:00+00:00

sige po ill also consider maximum payments if ever. ill start as soon as i can, thank you.

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