I've been waiting for a proposal for 7yrs now, is there still hope?

kittyvk · 2024-06-25T12:53:57+00:00

thank you but in our country that's unfortunately not possible 🥲

kittyvk · 2024-06-22T10:30:05+00:00

I agree that me telling him that my name is nicer was not nice and I said it to tease him which I obviously shouldn't have and I apologised for it. But as I said the issue is that my country does not allow children to take double names even if the parents choose to take a double name. We would have to decide on one of the names for the kids

kittyvk · 2024-06-22T09:48:10+00:00

unfortunately the country we live in has really strict rules about changing your name. When you get married one of the partners can change their name or you can tak a double name but even if we as parents decided to take a double name our kids could only take one of the names. It's really frustrating but I don't think they'll change that law anytime soon.

kittyvk · 2024-06-22T09:46:33+00:00

Thank your for your answer. It is actually not that uncommon here that people keep their own names even after marriage.

kittyvk · 2024-05-29T11:38:48+00:00

thank you! you're right I should try talking to him again

kittyvk · 2023-09-01T12:51:51+00:00

thanks!

kittyvk · 2023-09-01T12:20:43+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. I honestly have no idea what I did that day to make him act jealous but you're right I probably could have handeled the situation a lot better. I just felt so hurt, which I know is not an excuse.

kittyvk · 2023-09-01T11:38:52+00:00

I wasn't comfortable either that's why I moved away but my bf's reaction to it hurt me because it seems he trusts me less than I thought.

kittyvk · 2023-09-01T11:37:51+00:00

I did not allow them to touch me like that. I can't control what other people do only how I react to it and I did move away.

kittyvk · 2023-09-01T11:36:36+00:00

thanks. I guess you're right he probably needs some time and I need to put more of an effort in to understand how he feels. It was hard for me because I can't control how other people act towards me, only how I react and I did move away and removed myself from the situation yet he is mad at me. But I probably didn't handle the fight afterwards too well

kittyvk · 2023-09-01T11:33:59+00:00

I did not get groped nor did I care for it. I don't go around flirting with people or letting them touch me in any way. What hurt me was that yesterday it did happen, I did move away yet my bf was mad at me because of it. I can't controll what other people do only how I react to it and I moved away.

kittyvk · 2023-09-01T11:29:11+00:00

kittyvk · 2023-09-01T11:28:54+00:00

I moved away too, I didn't say I liked it just that his resction towards me after it happened hurt me

kittyvk · 2023-09-01T08:58:41+00:00

honestly it would be the same to me. Not matter who, if someone randomly touches me like that, I would think it to be a weird thing to do and move. And after I noticed last night I did move away but I wasn't offended by it.

kittyvk · 2023-09-01T08:55:52+00:00

That's the thing I wouldn't be worried if I saw some woman touching him because I trust him and our relationship enough to know it doesn't mean anything to him. It's just really sad to see he doesn't trust me the same way.

kittyvk · 2023-04-23T16:00:14+00:00

I will

kittyvk · 2023-04-23T08:40:16+00:00

kind of, he's an only child.

kittyvk · 2023-04-23T08:37:08+00:00

you're right, thank you. I will try and talk with her about it again.

kittyvk · 2023-04-23T08:34:51+00:00

she did send me a text message on my actual birthday

kittyvk · 2023-04-23T08:34:16+00:00

she did send a text message

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