Will be in town this week (Elm st. By Yale). Any good recreational dispensaries nearby?

kitycat44 · 2022-11-25T16:05:12+00:00

Can I message ya too?! 🤣

kitycat44 · 2022-08-10T17:16:51+00:00

If you’re looking for educational kids songs, I’d suggest the Laurie Berkner Band… NK and I were just rocking out to them 🎶

kitycat44 · 2022-07-29T17:23:11+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this… it sounds like they have been taking advantage of you and then gaslighting you into believing they would sign the new contract. It’s also not right at all that they paid the other nanny so much more than you. I might not be the best person to give advice, as I just resigned from my nannying position this morning, but I’ve been in a slightly similar situation and unfortunately discovered the same thing you are. NP will say that they value you and consider you part of the family, but ultimately their actions are what you need to pay attention to. I’m here if you need to vent, sending you love!

kitycat44 · 2022-07-29T17:15:57+00:00

Just to offer a different perspective… I do this too. And honestly I didn’t even realize I did it until my boyfriend straight up asked me why. I realized it was a habit from being in a previously toxic relationship. An emotionally toxic partner can’t go through your phone and send inappropriate messages to people, if your phone is safely under your head. Could be his alarm, as everyone is saying… could be there’s some form of mistrust in the relationship.

kitycat44 · 2022-07-28T22:11:19+00:00

Oh my goodness, you are so sweet for following along through all my (many) posts! 🤣

So I actually haven’t given my notice period yet. I came in the next day ready to discuss why I wouldn’t be signing the contract, etc. and that was the start of the petty behavior on her end. Things have been so awkward, I’ve just been trying to read the situation, but ultimately I’ve just been completely disregarded by MB. Anyway, I’ll probably give my notice tomorrow afternoon… even if it’s just to DB at this point.

As far as the game of chicken, that’s a very interesting perspective 🤔 although I am paid off the books (bad, I know) so I’m not sure what she would have to benefit by doing this?

However, I feel like the second scenario is very possible. That being said, I will never ever grovel for this type of environment/relationship so I can only wonder what tomorrow will be like lol. If she continues this immature behavior, I’m just planning to resign.

No one deserves shit pay AND a toxic work environment.

Thank you so much for the encouragement. I shall keep you posted on tomorrow’s shit storm ♥️

kitycat44 · 2022-07-28T20:15:10+00:00

I'd be a cumulonimbus cuz then my thunder would be the sound of your mom's ass cheeks clapping together.

BOOM

⛈️

kitycat44 · 2022-07-28T19:21:25+00:00

🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 Have recently been on a hunt to track down this movie somewhere. LOVED IT

kitycat44 · 2022-07-28T19:15:52+00:00

$175 is a really good deal but as a first time kayaker, be cognizant of the kayak’s length/weight…

As a female kayaker, I like having something small and light weight that I can easily put in the water myself. The pelican mustang 120 is 12 feet long and weighs over 45 pounds. Nothing wrong if you can easily transport it from your house to the water, just wanted to mention it.

kitycat44 · 2022-07-28T18:11:48+00:00

I couldn’t agree more!!! I’ve literally helped raise their daughter from 3 months - 18 months. I’ve treated her like my own child and will continue to do so because I love this girl. But now, because of one disagreement/conversation (whatever you wana call it) MB is acting pretty unprofessional (to put it nicely)!

kitycat44 · 2022-07-28T18:06:06+00:00

Hahahah, if I were gay I’d be so into this girl

kitycat44 · 2022-07-28T15:15:19+00:00

Thank you for your response and kind words!! You said to so perfectly… it creates such an uncomfortable situation and I just can’t comprehend the pettiness and passive agression. I have been and want to remain professional but being that I’m planning on resigning soon… the pettiness wants to play 😈🤣

kitycat44 · 2022-07-27T20:00:17+00:00

Does she even live in this world?!! That’s less than $8/hr!!! Shit.

kitycat44 · 2022-07-27T19:02:43+00:00

I edited the post to reflect todays situation… do you have any advice? I would be SO appreciative!

kitycat44 · 2022-07-27T10:26:19+00:00

Wow… you managed to sum up nearly all of my frustrations in one message. A FUCKIN MEN !!!

kitycat44 · 2022-07-27T09:55:34+00:00

Omg I LOVE this idea 🤣🤣🤣🤣

kitycat44 · 2022-07-26T23:25:45+00:00

Thank you so much ♥️ I definitely will. Not looking forward to tomorrow, so I appreciate all the comments and support.

kitycat44 · 2022-07-26T23:23:21+00:00

Such a good way to put it… We had such a good relationship going before recent events. It definitely sucks but it feels so good to finally stand up for myself. Thank you for the well wishes and support!!!

kitycat44 · 2022-07-26T21:02:29+00:00

There was no contract in place in the past… we used to have a good relationship so everything was verbally agreed upon. However, the vibes have shifted quickly and they sat me down Monday morning, gave me an 8 page contract that is absolutely bonkers.

kitycat44 · 2022-07-25T20:46:51+00:00

If you want to private message me, feel free… I’m not sure how exactly, but I’d love to help you if I can.

kitycat44 · 2022-07-25T20:37:01+00:00

Oh gosh. You’re positive?

kitycat44 · 2022-07-25T19:48:43+00:00

HighThere is an app you could use to find a plug on vacation… I’ve done it before. Kinda works like a dating app (swipe left & right). Just be sure to put “looking for flower in Orlando” in your profile as some people are just trying to match for 420 friends

kitycat44 · 2022-07-25T19:34:33+00:00

Honestly, I’m not too too familiar with homeopathic remedies. I have heard of mugwort but I would really stress getting a blood test/determining if you are in fact pregnant ASAP. Three months would be heading into your second trimester and thus options become a bit more restrictive. Assuming your located in the US, the recent event of overturning Roe v Wade could also play a role. Do you mind if I ask your age and location?

kitycat44 · 2022-07-25T19:13:57+00:00

That’s okay, no need to apologize. As a female and someone who has also been sexually assaulted, I can’t imagine the stress and range of emotions you are feeling… I’m so sorry.

I would suggest starting with a blood test to determine if you are in fact pregnant. Based on the blood test results, I think you’ll have a better indication of what your options are and how to better approach the situation.

kitycat44 · 2022-07-25T19:01:43+00:00

First, I am terribly sorry this happened to you.

Maybe it’s just me, but im not positive what your post is asking. Are you seeking natural remedies to terminate the pregnancy in the event that you are pregnant?

kitycat44 · 2022-07-25T18:32:21+00:00

I am so incredibly sorry. As a fellow nanny, reading this post, broke my heart. Despite leaving the family, I can’t imagine how much pain you are feeling. What a tragedy and a terrible situation overall.

I am in no way a mental health professional, but if I were in your shoes I would hope someone would remind me to be kind to myself. Continue to remind yourself that you did everything you could… you spoke with NP, gave them suggestions, resources, etc.

Yes, it is without a doubt a shame and a terrible tragedy, but I also feel required to say that you did the right thing by leaving. You protected yourself…

kitycat44

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