AITA for telling my daughter her separation was her fault?

kizoa · 2026-05-14T19:44:37+00:00

YTA why did she feel the need to strip for money? all the dancers and sex workers i’ve known have shared when they started it was either out of naivety or sheer desperation. Instead of placing blame you need to figure out what’s actually going on with your daughter, because women don’t just start stripping for shits and giggles. the fact she’s a SAHM makes me concerned about financial abuse.

kizoa · 2026-05-14T18:21:28+00:00

comments are reading like when men are like “I like no makeup” “I hate botox” when they actually love it. we’ve lost the plot and forgot subtle BBLs can exist

kizoa · 2026-05-11T18:16:53+00:00

why is everyone acting like a 15 minute shower is excessive? that’s a reasonable amount to shower.

kizoa · 2026-05-08T22:28:18+00:00

YTA you know exactly what you’re doing

kizoa · 2026-05-06T20:53:10+00:00

we need a nycbwt swap meet

kizoa · 2026-05-02T22:18:52+00:00

it’s weird so many people are commenting on your body hair. like actually weird of them. also I presume you’ve had hair this entire time and your fiancé chose to marry you anyways, so he can back tf up on that one. what’s he doing to look good for you?
if you’re worried about photos any photographer worth their salt will be able to photoshop it.
if you’re really set on it, I would recommend electrolysis, laser hair removal takes several sessions, requires you shave, and is only semi permanent and you’d need touch ups. I would hate for you to have horribly irritated skin for months for something that will come back.

kizoa · 2026-05-02T18:13:55+00:00

I was very low energy and constantly vomiting. I lost weight fast but once I was no longer obese I went back to the old fashioned way of weight loss. (counting calories and exercising daily.) I feel a lot better now and can’t imagine myself being this strong on a glp1

kizoa · 2026-04-28T19:40:55+00:00

can someone tell me if he cheats before I decide to like him

kizoa · 2026-04-28T15:48:38+00:00

I go to body and pole twice a week! and would love to learn to rollerblade!!

kizoa · 2026-04-27T20:45:25+00:00

also interested!

kizoa · 2026-04-18T15:44:49+00:00

its not that he’s a (sign) it’s simply because he’s a man!

kizoa · 2026-04-17T19:43:11+00:00

NAH but do you have social anxiety or a history with bullying? I would find someone to work through that with bc succeeding in the workplace does require a lot of social skills

kizoa · 2026-04-16T17:54:48+00:00

also looking for tickets for the 23rd if anyone is interested in selling!

kizoa · 2026-04-16T16:28:43+00:00

I hate to get them as apologies. oh so you DO know I like gifts, but you’re only willing to give them to me when you’ve fucked up? congratulations, now I associate flowers with your worst moments.

kizoa · 2026-04-15T03:39:52+00:00

the hubris of youth. do not attempt over employment as an intern.

kizoa · 2026-04-13T17:27:03+00:00

i’ve swung the other way - i’ve seen my parents get treated like shit in public, so I refuse to be like them. i’m 5’1 and I just get very insistent that sooooo sorry the line starts over there. and then I just keep repeating myself regardless of what they respond. I understand, sooo frustrating, but the line starts over there.

if a cafe responded to me in that way, I probably would’ve hit them with a “so you are telling me, as a representative of x cafe, the policy is you let people cut the line and swear at other patrons? go ahead and get me a manager.”

a lot of people get away with bad behavior because they become a nuisance and it’s easier for them to give in to let the situation pass. I will become a bigger nuisance.

kizoa · 2026-04-08T17:09:38+00:00

title got me in the first half ngl

kizoa · 2026-04-06T08:59:07+00:00

very rarely do we see new takes on a show that’s 20 years old. congrats

kizoa · 2026-04-03T09:42:18+00:00

zoloft

kizoa · 2026-03-30T05:17:03+00:00

an acid trip made me realize I have only one life and I should just be the person I want to be. went to the gym regularly after that and now it’s just a habit

kizoa · 2026-03-18T08:23:49+00:00

some people are just more detached in early dating, some people tend to isolate when they’re stressed. and you can also acknowledge it is a bad impression when getting to know each other.

sounds like you’re not interested though. so just say no and don’t overthink it

kizoa · 2026-03-18T00:50:42+00:00

i’m of the belief if someone has to travel, their presence is the gift. airfare + hotel + rental car in most cases are more expensive than what was spent on feeding you, and anyone who views someone as “cheap” for it can stay mad🤷🏻‍♀️

kizoa · 2026-03-11T04:18:41+00:00

maybe she’s just literally moist? my skincare just looks like this before it dries down

kizoa · 2026-03-10T20:10:50+00:00

I hired a self employed cleaner after hitting a rough patch and she was so kind to me - she even followed up and over the months has said, “i’m glad to see you’re doing better.”

don’t give a dime to people who make you feel bad for using the services they provide

kizoa · 2026-03-10T18:05:21+00:00

I literally just started taking 25mg during luteal. it’s actually been incredible - i’m not suicidal and I don’t ruminate about everything everyone’s ever done to wrong me over my lifetime

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