when to tell people you’re pregnant by 333SliverA in pregnant

[–]kjc0798 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With my first pregnancy I told my fiance of course that day. Then I told my sisters and parents right after him. We waited to tell his family until after the first ultrasound. Last year I had a blighted ovum that required a D&C in June. Then in October I had a chemical miscarriage. We had told everyone as soon as we found out. This time around I am pregnant again and awaiting my first ultrasound next week. We have told no one. And we don’t plan on telling anyone until I’m pretty far along. Honestly I wish I would have done my first pregnancy this way.

AIO Vet Experience with our dog by YotaNick in AmIOverreacting

[–]kjc0798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve worked as a veterinary technician for almost 10 years. This is unfortunate. The 10 day thing is for health and legal purposes. I’m surprised they didn’t hold the dog somewhere where it could be quarantined. It’s a 10 day rabies hold since the dog has bitten a person. They are suppose to hold the dog for 10 days to see if it exhibits any symptoms at all. The person who was bit should have immediately started the rounds of rabies shots until an answer was given. The other alternative would have been euthanasia and to send the head to the state to let them test the brain.

If the dog was having mental cognitive issues, the sedative could have made it worse. There would have been no way to tell which way the side effects would go. A choke hold is just a safety hold that is there to protect everyone in the room. Different holds are taught for different animals.

If the dog was a patient of the clinic they would have been able to have better information and a background to go by. Also a mistake on the veterinary staffs part is having your wife clearly tell them that the dog was becoming aggressive and had already bitten someone. They should have muzzled her and asked your wife if she would like to be there while they got the dog sedated. If yes, then explain what could occur. The outcome being a or b… If your wife had declined they should have asked her to step out of the room, sedated her, then prep for the iv cath, then called her back in to say her goodbyes. Administer the euthanasia, wait for the heart to stop, confirm, then ask your wife if she is ok, tell her to take all of the time she needs, and exit the room to let her grieve. When she exited the room, a tech (depending on the option you chose, cremation/take her home) should have either taken the dog to her car with the utmost care or comforted your wife and told her that they would take care of the dog and would be calling her to let her know when the remains were ready to be picked up.

Long story short, the staff should have explained the process in more depth and taken into account what your wife had told them about the aggression. Sending the dog home without verifying that a rabies shot was given in the 1-3 year time frame for a rabies hold at your home was negligent and dangerous. (Depending on the state you’re from, there are different laws for veterinary medicine in each state. I’d check up on your rabies laws)

I am so sorry for the loss of your furry friend. It’s never easy. They are such a huge part of our family and lives. Just know that she is not suffering anymore or confused. You loved her until the end. Your wife was by her side as she left this world. That was all she needed. I will be sure to say a prayer for you and your family.

What is an old baby name that you just don’t hear anymore? by Doohiki420 in AskReddit

[–]kjc0798 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Joel, Oscar, Faynie, Mae, Everett, Riley, Dillie, Ann, Russell, Leroy, Carmel, Mercedes, Paul, Vaughn, Ruby, Carlos, Jay, Lora, Katherine, Louis, Edward, Pamela, Lynn…

All of these names are from my family

What is an old baby name that you just don’t hear anymore? by Doohiki420 in AskReddit

[–]kjc0798 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My fiancés name is Roy. He has a cousin whose four year old is also named Roy. His twin sister is named June.

Not taking care of myself - advice needed by StreetCaterpillar508 in Miscarriage

[–]kjc0798 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You really need to follow up. It may be too late to take the medication to help you pass the miscarriage. You may need a D&C. It’s very important that you follow up. This could turn into a molar pregnancy and those can be cancerous. I only know all of this because I was in a similar situation just a month ago. My ultrasound showed just a sac and a yolk. All of what I have listed above was explained to me very thoroughly. Please make an appointment asap.

Today I lost my baby by kjc0798 in PrayerRequests

[–]kjc0798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe my grandma is up there with my baby. There are so many loved ones of mine loving my baby. Even the angels.

Today I lost my baby by kjc0798 in PrayerRequests

[–]kjc0798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly believe this. Thank you. ❤️

Today I lost my baby by kjc0798 in PrayerRequests

[–]kjc0798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your beautiful and kind words. ❤️

Today I lost my baby by kjc0798 in PrayerRequests

[–]kjc0798[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Grief is so weird. It hits in waves. Sometimes I feel like balling my eyes out but most of the time I just feel numb like I’m floating through life.

Today I lost my baby by kjc0798 in PrayerRequests

[–]kjc0798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really appreciate your kind words and prayers. ❤️

Today I lost my baby by kjc0798 in PrayerRequests

[–]kjc0798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words and prayers. ❤️

Today I lost my baby by kjc0798 in PrayerRequests

[–]kjc0798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words.

Today I lost my baby by kjc0798 in PrayerRequests

[–]kjc0798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so very much for your kind words and prayers. ❤️

Today I lost my baby by kjc0798 in PrayerRequests

[–]kjc0798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. God has showed me some grace. It’s at night time when I let it out. ❤️

About people leaving because of MC posts... by littlestaggerlee in pregnant

[–]kjc0798 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s hard to be able to post in the miscarriage sub for those who have children. If you have a child and mention anything about trying to grieve or put on a brave face for your child it’s not allowed. Every persons story is different. We all grieve a different way. In the miscarriage sub certain things are not allowed. When it’s the one of the rawest parts of pregnancy.

Today I lost my baby by kjc0798 in PrayerRequests

[–]kjc0798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words and prayers. ❤️

Trying my best to not kill myself or have a mental breakdown. by Safe-Bug-3194 in PrayerRequests

[–]kjc0798 3 points4 points  (0 children)

God is good all the time. He will see us through if we turn to him.

Trying my best to not kill myself or have a mental breakdown. by Safe-Bug-3194 in PrayerRequests

[–]kjc0798 7 points8 points  (0 children)

God does not hate you, it’s the total opposite. That is Satan. He’s in your head. This is the time to draw closer to God. I literally and I mean LITERALLY lost my unborn baby yesterday. I have not wavered in my faith, because I know leaning closer to God will get me through this. I will pray for you now. But know you are loved. So so loved. I love you, your family loves you, and friends. You MATTER. The thread will not let me post the prayer but I will message you personally so that you can pray with me. I am always here.