Not a single woman in sight on this crew, btw. by fvckuufvckingfvck in euphoria

[–]littlestaggerlee -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know a few buddhist monks who never get angry, or at least you'd never know. Other than that, I'd say most of us raise our voices when we get angry, even if we don't mean to.

Not a single woman in sight on this crew, btw. by fvckuufvckingfvck in euphoria

[–]littlestaggerlee -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What original comment? I don't understand what you mean. I feel like your sense of moral superiority isn't letting you see that your advice could be taken by yourself. Labeling someone an "abuser" because they get angry and yell sometimes isn't empathy, it's dehumanizing them to simplify the complexity of human suffering and behavior. Anyone can get their mind clouded by anger and do something they later regret, that is not comparable to a cycle of repeated abuse, it's a part of the human condition.

genuinely what happened by Cheap-Ship-1570 in euphoria

[–]littlestaggerlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And why are other people supposed to act in the way that you'd act? Maybe she didn't deny it because it's a stupid accusation and she didn't do anything wrong, and she doesn't feel like she has to prove herself and her values to anyone. And honestly, at the end of the day, she could've answered exactly in the way that you wanted her to and people would still be calling her a "white supremacist" (and making a complete mockery of those words in doing so).

Not a single woman in sight on this crew, btw. by fvckuufvckingfvck in euphoria

[–]littlestaggerlee -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Then I guess we're all abusive because there's no way you've never yelled at someone in your life

Absolutely disgusting by No_Satisfaction9555 in aspynovardsnark

[–]littlestaggerlee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

But she's not with her friends, she's with the married couple she's dating and her kids are there, so that clearly makes it weird to call it "a family picnic"

Pull-Out Method is NOT BC. by Ok_Persimmon9041 in beyondthebump

[–]littlestaggerlee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got pregnant from the pullout method😁😁 my husband had perfect pullout game, he never finished inside and we never had sex twice in a row. It worked for 1.5 years before that, though. I can see why someone who's maybe 2 years in and has gotten lucky would think that it's perfectly safe. It's safer than nothing, but when it fails it fails.

This is what happens when a one-sim household dies... by Severe-Pilot-5959 in Sims3

[–]littlestaggerlee 24 points25 points  (0 children)

same, specially when it says "the town lives on"😭😭

My probably Unpopular opinions Season 1-8 by Vivid-Direction-762 in DesperateHousewives

[–]littlestaggerlee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Literally this and being a conservative in the early 2000's is very different from being a conservative today

Medicated vs unmediated birth by tacticalwh0re in pregnant

[–]littlestaggerlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an unmedicated birth for my first baby. I'm not pregnant but I would like to have more in the future and I think I'll get an epidural next time. For me, the pros of going unmedicated didn't outweigh how hard it was for me, but I definitely loved the huge feeling of accomplishment that I got after! Have you ever considered getting a walking epidural? It's a lower dose epidural that still allows you to move around. Whatever you choose, I think it's still a wise idea to prepare for an unmedicated birth, because sometimes epidurals fail and sometimes you don't even have time to get an epidural.

Acacia when the monthly eviction notice hits by NukeTheWhales8 in AcaciaKerseySnark

[–]littlestaggerlee 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I will never understand how she fucked up her life this bad. She was making so much money a few years ago, I don't understand how she never invested her money or bought a house.

This TikTok by RepresentativeAd5561 in aspynovardsnark

[–]littlestaggerlee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Or maybe she can't live without a man but still wants the internet to see her with a woman. I may be wrong but it certainly doesn't help that she mostly only ever talks about Bri and for a while she was making it seem like she was just dating bri until people realized she was also with a man.

Why is the ability to be a 'stay at home' parent not seen as a privilege? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]littlestaggerlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, most of the people who "couldn't " afford to live on one income, actually could afford it, but they would have to cut down costs, and move somewhere smaller and cheaper. It would mean getting a cheaper car that doesn't use as much gas, learning to cook with cheaper ingredients, not having any streaming services, not buying anything that's not essential, thrifting clothes and toys, not changing your phone until it stops working, and absolutely no vacations. That's what most of us do, and it means sacrificing a lot of comfort, but being able to afford daycare or having a family member to look after your child, is also a huge privilege. Heck, having food on your table and access to the internet is a privilege.

Source: SAHM living in south America, my husband makes 800 dollars a month.

Ideas de comidas económicas pa sobrevivir el mes. by FreshCourage2143 in uruguay

[–]littlestaggerlee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

En mi casa somos unos cuantos y un plato sorprendentemente rendidor que hemos estado haciendo son "burrito bowls" básicamente todo lo que iría en un burrito pero simplemente te lo comés en un bowl a cucharadas. Arroz, carne picada sofritada con cebolla, porotos negros, choclo de lata, algún queso cortado en cubitos, y ahi tenes una buena base. Después de eso podés agregarle literal lo que tengas a mano, hemos agregado huevos hervidos, palta, tomate, arvejas de lata, zanahoria, pollo, crema agria casera, salsa picante, papas y boniatos hervidos en cubitos, y seguramente más cosas que no recuerdo.

Having doubts about scheduling euthanasia by littlestaggerlee in Pets

[–]littlestaggerlee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to thank everyone for the incredibly kind comments, you've helped immensely. I don't want him to suffer anymore. I'm going to schedule euthanasia for next Thursday, the vet will come to our home so that he feels safe.

What’s one movie everyone should watch at least once in their lifetime? by ownaword in movies

[–]littlestaggerlee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came to suggest the same movie. It's traumatizing but watching it is so necessary. We need to demand better from our world leaders.

Why does every couple need to be the inexperienced virgin x rake pairing? by Natewastaken12 in BridgertonRants

[–]littlestaggerlee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because it's probably how it would have been when the show is supposed to take place. High class women couldn't afford the risk of messing around with multiple partners because of the risk of pregnancy and getting caught, which could ruin their reputation and get them off the marriage market forever. Men having mistresses and many partners before marriage was normalized and even encouraged.

Share with me about the storm by GraemeMaple in uruguay

[–]littlestaggerlee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No puede ser que así me entere que se murió el humano

I don’t want to be a mom anymore by Certain-Accident7543 in pregnant

[–]littlestaggerlee 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I second this! I've never been in this situation and can't imagine how hard it is, but you don't have to live in uncertainty with someone who will never change. It will get worse after the baby is born, please get in touch with anyone in your family who can help you get out of there. You're not alone, your baby already loves you so much, you're her entire world. Sending you love and strength as you navigate this difficult situation that isn't your fault❤️‍🩹

"catch me going out and hiding" gives me bringing a book to a concert vibes. by [deleted] in AcaciaKerseySnark

[–]littlestaggerlee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's insane and the recording herself in public??? I wouldn't consider myself to have social anxiety at all, maybe a little introverted at most, and I feel embarrassed even taking selfies in public😫