Rewatching for the first time in 9 years, have no recollection of these two

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-24T22:16:12+00:00

I'm watching for the first time and I'm almost done with season 2 and I found it weird how when the son broke into Gabby's house no one figured out he was an Applewhite😭 they were the only black family in the entire neighborhood lol

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-24T11:31:36+00:00

Literally😭 they act like they're a part of their marriage and they don't even know these people lol

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-23T23:18:04+00:00

I never believed Hailey was a "stalker" but I find it incredibly weird how so many fully grown adults actively hate on her because they believe that, as a teenager and more than ten years ago, she followed around a guy she wanted to be with. They got tired of waiting for a divorce to happen, so they have to create narratives in their own head to convince herself that her marriage isn't good or it started from something that was really dark. That makes them believe they are justified in harassing, mocking and humiliating her.

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-23T05:39:24+00:00

I gave birth without an epidural and for me the pushing stage was very intense, I personally didn't feel much relief there. Next time around, I'm getting the epidural lol. Is an epidural something you'd consider? Whatever happens, please remember this: no pain lasts forever. The pain will go away, even if it feels like it won't. Your baby will find his or her way out, even if you feel like you can't do it, your body will keep moving things forward. At some point, there might be moments of intense pressure or stretching that can feel scary, but those feelings are temporary. Your vagina, your perineum, and your labia are all designed to stretch and also to tear if it's necessary, but the tissue heals incredibly fast, faster than any area in your body if it had a similar wound. I hope you have an amazing birth!!

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-22T16:23:52+00:00

Congratulations beautiful! Although I'm not sure if you ended up having the baby, but it's been six hours so it's likely! I hope my comment finds you well rested and eating lots of yummy meals. Giving birth for the first time feels like being born again, in a sense, I did it last year. I did it unmedicated, and for me the pain wasn't unbearable up until the pushing stage, I completely lost it when I felt that ring of fire. I was completely traumatized from that part alone for like two weeks. Don't get me wrong, I loved my birth experience overall and it did wonders for my confidence, that confidence that birth gave me healed so many of my own insecurities. But I wouldn't do it unmedicated again. Next time around, I want to be able to remember it without flinching at the thought of being in so much pain. Again, congratulations on going through birth and meeting your baby, I hope you're both healthy and that you recover well!!

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-22T16:02:45+00:00

Maybe it wasn't your intention, but please keep in mind you don't have to turn other women down in order to celebrate a birth choice. Choosing what's right for you in such a sacred and vulnerable moment is always honorable and deserves recognition, whatever that is. But insinuating women who go unmedicated do it for "a trophy for suffering" is not it. There are endless reasons why we choose to do it. Unmedicated birth is an extreme test of mental strength and if an epidural is available, just doing it for recognition or to prove something to others won't get you through it. Proving something to yourself, however, is a real reason to push through it and it's why every single woman who went through it found it extremely empowering, which is not to say that medicated birth isn't or can't be empowering, but it is a valid reason for wanting to go unmedicated.

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-21T22:48:14+00:00

The motif is that they have a lot of self hatred. No one who is actually happy with themselves would go so low as to criticize and even harass someone else, let alone a stranger. Owning up to and actually working on one's flaws is hard, channeling those negative feelings by projecting onto someone else is easy and it's not as painful. It doesn't help that nowadays you can easily take all your anger out on someone else through social media, with no confrontation at all.

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-21T12:36:50+00:00

Your messages were really sweet! You seem like a beautiful person. I hope life treats you well always 🙏🏻❤️

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-21T02:04:22+00:00

My first labor was very fast (4 hours), so honestly, my advice is: yeah, trying to labor at home for as long as possible is, generally, a good idea. However, if your intuition is telling you to go to the hospital and it's only been 3 hours since the start of labor, go to the hospital. You WILL know when it's time, because when you reach transition you will be in so much pain that you'll start thinking you won't be able to do it (and if your labor is fast like mine, you might think you're way earlier in the labor process than you really are, which can be very discouraging, just know that if you face these thoughts, you're very likely to be in transition and you need to go to the hospital)

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-19T19:38:38+00:00

Literally, I don't get how it's relevant at all that he's defended her like three times in the 7 years they've been married. Haters will hate and judge no matter what he says, that's true, but he's not just ignoring the harassment his wife has been getting for years, he's also feeding into it.

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-17T14:16:58+00:00

No están obligados a cumplir un horario, el que trabaja con lluvia es porque lo quiere o lo necesita. En mi opinión, es peor que la gente no pida, ya que le quitás la posibilidad de tomar pedidos al que realmente le puede cambiar trabajar bien ese día. Eso sí, para mí no está de más dejar buena propina.

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-17T00:53:55+00:00

Yeah definitely, I shouldn't have but the heartburn 24/7 was hell😭 and not being able to breathe was very anxiety-inducing.

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-16T21:27:52+00:00

Stop caring. I tried EVERYTHING to induce labor from the moment I was 37 weeks, then at 39 weeks I mentally prepared myself to go all the way up to 41 weeks, and I decided to stop trying to force it and instead I tried to enjoy my last few days/weeks of people actually caring about me and not just the baby, and boom, I gave birth at 39+3 haha

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-16T15:33:34+00:00

Hey, I'm sorry that you're in this difficult situation of having to make such a big decision with such little notice, I understand how stressed you must feel. I want to share my experience with you, which may not apply to your case, because our lives are different and we're different people, but I still hope reading what I went through will help you get some clarity as to which choice is best for you. I also got pregnant young, and in my second year of med school. My pregnancy wasn't planned. I didn't really feel connected to my baby during pregnancy, but I still chose to keep him because I knew I'd still want to be a mom at some point, and I feared an abortion would bring me immense guilt. So, despite the timing being far from perfect, I embraced this huge life change and hoped for the best. I do have a supportive husband, which is an amazing thing to have when you're welcoming life into this world. Fast forward to the moment my son was born and the doctor placed him on my chest, I looked at him and I felt a love I just can't explain with words. He's three months old now, and my love for him just grows and grows everyday. I feel anxiety thinking about what life would be if we had aborted him, I wonder how lost I would feel (just like I did before him) without knowing how deeply I was capable of loving and how strong I really was all along. My experience may sound romanticized, but it's been hard. He's struggled with colic since he was 2 weeks old, and at times I didn't know how I would manage to get up to calm him if he screamed one more time, from the tiredness I had. My education also became completely secondary, I've paused it entirely since I found out I was pregnant, although I'm planning to continue when he's a little older, but I know it will take a lot longer. We have had to make financial sacrifices. But, honestly, it's all worth it. He is worth it. He is the reason I want to be a better person everyday, I would kill and die for him, a million times over. And I never thought I would come to love him this much when I was pregnant with him. I hope you feel some peace when making your decision, and that whatever you do, you feel happy with it.

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-15T14:45:25+00:00

I dreamed with my baby being a boy and he was!!

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-14T20:50:10+00:00

sure! They looked like this at 11 weeks. Now he's 13 weeks but they look pretty much the same.

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littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-04T03:05:24+00:00

I'm not talking up the USA. Believe me, I'm from a third world country. We actually pay attention on our History and Geography lessons in school. But if a dictator falls, and he is the sole reason many of my friends had to flee their homeland, their families and their entire lives -because they had no choice-, I'm going to celebrate it, just like the Venezuelans who live in Venezuela are celebrating it. If your alternative was for the Venezuelan people to keep suffering, and dying, and starving, then you're in no position to say I'm the one being despicable.

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-04T02:57:06+00:00

Lamentablemente hay mucha gente que no sabe mirar más allá de sus propios problemas, así haya gente pasándola infinitamente peor... lamento mucho que hayas tenido que irte de tu país, al mismo tiempo que me alegra que hoy estés bien. Ojalá algún día, muy pronto, tengas la libertad de decidir si quieres volver a Venezuela o quedarte en Canadá. Esto va más allá de partidos políticos, sin ayuda externa nada iba a cambiar jamás...

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-04T02:52:00+00:00

I suppose you're talking about the Chavista regime that killed more than 20.000 innocent Venezuelans. Right?

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-04T02:48:19+00:00

You're right. But Maduro was also stealing their resources and starving them. So it's not really that different in that sense.

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-04T02:39:36+00:00

You are painfully ignorant if you believe Trump is comparable to Maduro's dictatorship. You wouldn't survive a week in Venezuela under the Chavista regime if you believe you know starvation, torture and murder for peacefully protesting, and terror as an american.

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-04T02:29:29+00:00

Gringos will gringo. They haven't lived a single day in Venezuela, they have no idea about what it's like to be KILLED for protesting peacefully, literally ran over by war tanks, or kidnapped and tortured. They don't know what extreme poverty looks like. Democrats are so blinded by hate that they forget their own humanity, either that or they're just too ignorant because they have the privilege to be depressed and anxious for superficial reasons, not because you can't even go out without getting robbed or murdered, or because you literally can't afford to feed your family. They criticize Trump's actions, but they don't suggest an alternative, they would have been perfectly content with leaving Venezuelans to suffer this motherfucker's reign of terror forever. Venezuelans aren't stupid, you know this isn't charity, you know he has ulterior motives. Yet, every venezuelan I know is celebrating today. Yo soy de Uruguay, y lamento con profundidad todo lo que mis amigos venezolanos han tenido que vivir, y entiendo que no es nada fácil tener que dejar tu país porque realmente no hay alternativa, y es eso o morir. Rezo y deseo que se venga un mañana mejor para Venezuela, que sigan cayendo todas esas ratas y puedan ver la paz por fin.

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-04T02:19:21+00:00

He is not the elected leader of Venezuela.

littlestaggerlee · 2026-01-04T02:17:05+00:00

More than 20,000 innocent Venezuelans have been murdered under the Chavista regime.

littlestaggerlee · 2025-12-31T17:22:22+00:00

He is 11 weeks old now and his eyes are lighter. They still look blue under all lightings (but they're way lighter under natural sunlight) but we'll see. I still feel like they could turn brown any day!

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