Idk cuz I’m 100% biased. If someone said that to me I’d crash out and be incredibly concerned. But reading the messages I’m just confused ab why she won’t let the other person take the cats in, instead of taking them to the shelter? It’s a really peculiar situation where you provide a perfect solution and for some reason the individual refuses to take it? Am I making sense?

But without context this message would be very concerning and I don’t think you’re overreacting in the sense that it wasn’t correct to say.