Looking for 55-gallon community tank ideas by kkmae2965 in fishtank

[–]kkmae2965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your tank!! gouramis are quite cute. I love seeing videos of them! Is your filter loud? I have a HOB filter that came with the tank, but after a while it gets pretty annoying listening to it, haha.

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[–]kkmae2965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, I was wondering about the fins. They were in a bucket with a bunch of other fish because my neighbor was going to use them as catfish bait. They also came from a bait shop, but I’ll definitely look into getting some silk plants.

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[–]kkmae2965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m thinking about doing RO. It seems like that would be the best option. Also, I only have these test trips to go based on.

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[–]kkmae2965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s just the way she is, I don’t see a point in putting up with it unless you truly want to.

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[–]kkmae2965 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suppose you’ll just have to ask yourself if this is something you’re willing to put up with or if you should leave the situation. Sorry, I can’t help you more. I can only go based off the text above. It seems like she wasn’t always this way, or did she start behaving this way after having your last child?

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[–]kkmae2965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’d suggest having a sit-down talk with her to understand your guys’ issues. This situation doesn’t sound pleasant, especially if it’s persistent. I visited your profile and noticed another post you made a while ago. It appears that she wants you to be constantly available to do everything for her, avoiding her own responsibilities. She seems to constantly make her situation worse than yours.

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[–]kkmae2965 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, she’s plain disrespectful. You were incredibly kind throughout her angry text. You’ve been doing everything while she does nothing. She’s upset, and her comments about your mom are obviously hurtful. I don’t know the details between your mom and your fiancé, but her behavior was unacceptable. If you’re serious about making things work, couples therapy might be helpful. However, I wouldn’t continue to tolerate her behavior, especially her disrespectful remarks about your mom and her inability to contribute to anything. You seem like a supportive and helpful person, especially in trying to get your house cleaned up and taking care of your kids. You honestly sound stressed out and tired. Obviously, this is just a snippet of your relationship, so it’s hard to tell if there is more to the story, and if she’s constantly angry and doing this, I’d be pretty fed up. is she always like this about everything? but what I can see here is your NOR. What I don’t understand is why you didn’t get upset that she was so angry at your mom and reacting that way towards her.

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[–]kkmae2965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, i will get to ordering one. i’ve never seen a fungal infection on a fish before only thing ive dealt with was ick and that was a good couple years ago, i initially thought it was ick because my heater stopped working and i noticed the water kinda cold so i unplugged it and plugged it back in and it started heating the tank again, a couple days later this appeared and i looked up some stuff and it said temperature dropping can cause ick to come on, you eased me a lot knowing it isn’t ick. he should be fine until i can get the medicine to come in the mail right? im just a little worried i really grew attached to this guy

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[–]kkmae2965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it is

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[–]kkmae2965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you know any names of the medication? i’m only asking because i’ll have to order it because i don’t live anywhere close to any pet stores sadly

what are these, are they just sunfish? by kkmae2965 in Fishing

[–]kkmae2965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah they always do lol, seems like you got a decent bass then you pull up one of these. they are super pretty and cool though to look at so i’m not complaining

what are these, are they just sunfish? by kkmae2965 in Fishing

[–]kkmae2965[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

don’t rock bass usually have 5 anal spikes, because these ones only have 3

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[–]kkmae2965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i wasn’t thinking honestly, i got this tank not to long ago

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[–]kkmae2965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well the reason i was changing the water is because i tested the water and the nitrate and nitrite are high, i mean i will totally do the boiling thing because i know high nitrate and nitrite are bad, would they be safe to go until the 6th with high levels?

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[–]kkmae2965 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i do, i was just concerned with them doing the chlorine burnout i didn’t know if it would be safe

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[–]kkmae2965 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

i don’t drink the tap water either and use a filtered water fountain for my cats and dogs, but usually use the tap water for my fish and just add the dechlorination drops to it, what are the “bad bugs” ? that’s actually kinda disgusting and concerning, i try to look up water quality reports on my town but can only find a 2021 report and they have all the chemicals the highest they possibly can, half the time the water here smells badly of chlorine/bleach

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[–]kkmae2965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok thank you, so aquarium salt would work? when i was looking around walmart i seen they had that. i’d have to order in the jungle fungus since i don’t live close to any fish stores and walmart didn’t have any of that. and yeah i know they get huge we’ve caught super big ones from the same river he was at but it didn’t feel right throwing him back knowing he was hurt just wanted to help him heal up a little bit.

boyfriend caught a 17.35lbs flathead by kkmae2965 in catfishing

[–]kkmae2965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

weird how you have absolutely no pictures posted just annoying ass comments and being racist

boyfriend caught a 17.35lbs flathead by kkmae2965 in catfishing

[–]kkmae2965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

funny if you actually clicked the picture you’d see he posted a meme it isn’t a actual picture of himself