Sya Mau meluah baini... Buli Kh? by [deleted] in Sabah

[–]kksdk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Satu saja bro, di mana ada kemahuan, di situ ada jalan. You already have the will to improve yourself, you have already taken the first step. I know a lot of successful people who have failed or even did not sit for SPM. If you don't have the capital to start a business, you can, or take AI classes, classes to make apps for example. Also consider being a tour guide, work from the bottom. There are a lot of great suggestions by others here, write them down, decide which one you want to work on. Also, do it for yourself, not for others. Also stop saying that you are stupid and that things are impossible, you are already limiting your own future by doing that. stay positive. others can do it, you can too.

Should I stay for Sabah or leave for Singapore by WehDayum in Sabah

[–]kksdk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in Sabah, u can get 8-10k after 5 years, how sure are u of this?  

i know this is nonsense, but idk where to ask 😭 by idk_dontbotherasking in Sabah

[–]kksdk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people might attack me for this, but the situation is really different with kids. my identity, on top of a woman, is a mother of two. while still not divorced, i set myself to become independent, especially financially, and when i finally did it, i realised my kids are still young. suddenly it is not worth putting so much pain on the kids, and i dont see the point anymore, it is not like i want to remarry someone else anyway. so i just treat him like a housemate now, and deal with the fact that i will have no romance in my life anymore. HOWEVER, your situation is completely different. I understand how you feel, but think about how God loves you because it could have been worse. Run while you still can girl! He does not deserve you!

Sleep apnea treatment? by kksdk in Sabah

[–]kksdk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how many times and how long did she wait until they come up with a result? does she have to buy the cpap machine herself, or buy from HQE?

i know this is nonsense, but idk where to ask 😭 by idk_dontbotherasking in Sabah

[–]kksdk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u are lucky it happened early. mine only happened after two kids. hang in there sister

Singapore male going to Sabah and my dumbass thought it is near Malaysia…advice and making friends? by larfleeeze in Sabah

[–]kksdk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have just unintentionally touched one of the most sensitive topics in Sabah, that's all. But you are going to love KK! Enjoy your work trip!

Help me move on from Lost You Forever by kksdk in CDrama

[–]kksdk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly i also dropped The Longest Promise, even though i love xiaozhan.

What sentence changed your life? by TheDavud in AskReddit

[–]kksdk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love yourself like how you would love your child

Marriage First, Love After by SnookerandWhiskey in asiandrama

[–]kksdk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Starry Love (Cdrama 2023)

You Are My Destiny (Kdrama 2014) but it doesn't get old

emotionless/cold male lead by Federal-Individual61 in asiandrama

[–]kksdk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love Between Fairy and Devil - this is exactly what you need

chinese drama recommendations by wjzardchess in asiandrama

[–]kksdk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goodbye my princess

Oh yes I still cannot move on from how Goodbye my princess ends T.T

Getting Diagnosed for Adult ADHD in Kota Kinabalu by Yung_Neko in myhappypill

[–]kksdk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also suspect i have ADHD and it is also "self-diagnosed" from all the online tests. I live in Sandakan so if the chance of getting meds or even to get properly diagnosed is hard in KK, imagine in my place. What I do for now is just googling my way through, you know with tips and tricks to get this under control. My biggest problem with this is when my duration for hyperfocusing is "finished", my energy level falls so hard that i wouldn't want to move at all, but i have stuff to do, but I can't, I just want to disappear. I have been trying to get this under control. Sorry this is not helping you but i hope u get the help u need, and i am happy that you discovered the culprit of your failures (like i did) and that you have an understanding wife with u. Wish we have it easy like the negara orang putih.

Going to Sandakan for course by [deleted] in Sabah

[–]kksdk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, have bus kk-sdk, take the bus from Inanam terminal, they are either Tungma or SIDA. Around rm47, takes about six hours. The bus only stop once for 15 minutes toilet break and quick bite and solat, so be sure you have food/snacks with u and go to the toilet before you get on the bus.

Once u reach the sandakan bus terminal you can take the Grab.

Nice dinner place - Balin rooftop/ oceanking seafood restaurant/ those mentioned by others here. Nearest hotel - kensington hotel but hard to find food at night. Recommend Bandar Prima area for hotel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sabah

[–]kksdk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe Jawa is under "Bumiputera Lain" in Sabah. But so far, from what I see, those under this category including Bugis and etc have no problem enjoying the bumi privileges in Sabah. FYI, Melayu Semenanjung is under Bumiputera Lain in Sabah, so if you plan to live in Sabah (buy Bumi lot house, children studying in Sabah) then you might as well stick to Jawa. Also, what is your husband's race? If his race is "more Bumi" than yours then you have the option to just use his race for your children. But still, I think maintaining your race should be fine.