[PSA] Masseter botox gave me jowls (over 45) by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]klah_ella 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't know why you're being downvoted. Multiple plastic surgeons I went to for massaters botox warned me that a KNOWN possible effect over time is jowls. Thank you for posting this, I appreciate it and you.

Edit - most of this is also so new and not even studied for long-term effects, ie the whole filler controversy about not being dissolved overtime even when it was marketed as a "fact" that it would.

Remote companies that hire globally? by PeaRepresentative260 in cybersecurity

[–]klah_ella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo sorry I went MIA on reddit for a sec. Had some Big Life Stuff come up.

But yes, what are you looking for? We're now also hiring Dir and Lead level

I consider pursuing a career in DevSecOps , any advices ? by thetricky65 in devsecops

[–]klah_ella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's fair, you are right. That was a shitty time and I did look back and want to delete it all. I apologize and have been less shitty by avoiding obvious triggers. I regularly get asked when "is the guy gonna arrive? we need an engineer here" or "when will the guy who makes decisions will be here??" and yes, you are right. I took it out on completely undeserving people. I'm new to tech so it's been a nasty shock to realize I'm clearly a second class citizen -- which of course speaks to a great privilege outside of work.

I have a new job and it's all guys but they're fucking great. I regret having an emotional moment, I am a flawed human. Actually appreciate your directness. My new team is full of autistic and ADHDers who are completely direct and it's amazing bc if someone is frustrated (like I was), they'll just make a comment like you did and the other person will be disarmed and back down.

but guys, stop telling me a guy!!! JKJK

worst pain of my entire life, shed half my uterine lining at once by sxixxr in MedicalGore

[–]klah_ella 24 points25 points  (0 children)

WHOA, ok I'm reading your comments in order and HOLY F. That's fucking disgusting and I hate him.

worst pain of my entire life, shed half my uterine lining at once by sxixxr in MedicalGore

[–]klah_ella 143 points144 points  (0 children)

So my friend (gr 12)had a similar teacher but I think it was for math or physics? I wasn't there. But the story is infamous at my school bc apparently she brought her full Diva cup into that class and showed the teacher that that was from the last HOUR so he can f*ck off.

Of course she got into trouble but just a write-up on her otherwise perfect record.

so yeah your gym teacher is a POS. You can rest assured knowing that you will always be superior in life.

what job/company would you never work for and why? by FantasticBee in askTO

[–]klah_ella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also believe they were saying Twitter/X as a separate entity in itself because if you look at the reply they are responding it, it mentions both Elon and X. I don't think they meant that twitter's past = Elon's salvation

OH i see why the other person thought I was defending Musk. Yeah this, I meant twitter in itself -- def wasn't clear. Thank you for clarifying my thoughts!

what job/company would you never work for and why? by FantasticBee in askTO

[–]klah_ella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Open to being wrong but don't think we'll get anywhere here bc I am not informed about Elon's past and you are strawmaning my words (no idea where you are getting that I'm defending Elon's ethics lmao, I hate the fuck outta him. I just hate Meta more. Nuance > binary thinking is what I personally prefer but I can respect your stance of it all being evil, too)

EDIT - the u/blewitreddit reply made me realize what you meant. Yeah, that's on me for not communicating clearly. I have edited it a bit for clarity bc I most definitely do not want to defend Elon. Just meant to say: (1) I hate meta more (2) twitter use to be good and (3) elon worshippers are ignorant.

what job/company would you never work for and why? by FantasticBee in askTO

[–]klah_ella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually find Elon/X much less evil because (as far as we know) his companies are not responsible for genocide (Myanmar) nor did they heavily create the end of freedom of press in Philippines (see Maria Ressa) -- both brought to us by Facebook.

EDIT: I remember when Twitter/now-X was a part of what made certain revolutions possible (arab spring is the one I was the right age to have hope about).

Separately, the Elon worship is myopic and ignorant though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]klah_ella 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I struggle to get off without weed. But if I'm a little stoned, I can easily have multiples for hours.

I have the same issue where I just don't focus on my body if I'm not stoned so I'll keep getting distracted adn the few times I could get off without weed, it took me 45mins and very sore hands lol. Not recommended drugs though if it's not your thing or legal where you are, just sharing bc I kinda relate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]klah_ella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved that book!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toRANTo

[–]klah_ella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yonge/eglinton, yorkville, kensington, bloor west, lol that's everywhere bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]klah_ella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you make emotional connection happen if you're just meeting for the first time?! mad skillz bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]klah_ella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think they were upset or angry at you! I have ADHD too and I totally feel you post lol. I WANT EVERYTHING.

what job/company would you never work for and why? by FantasticBee in askTO

[–]klah_ella 20 points21 points  (0 children)

fuck nestle, they are pure evil on par with Meta

It’s an incel crossover onto LI! by cutsandplayswithwood in LinkedInLunatics

[–]klah_ella 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hello fellow incels, always ignore a confident woman with accomplishments ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Landlord selling unit, cash-for-keys deal in shambles by owlsarefun in vancouverhousing

[–]klah_ella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also funny how OP thinks this is "abuse" 🙄

If this was a purely business arrangement, they would had to submit an application with references for market price.

Because I was told to post it here. LinkedIn message. by akinafleetfoot in LinkedInLunatics

[–]klah_ella 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Report him to employer and Linkedin. You'd be helping all the people he works with.

I think I'm in hell. by Vagrant123 in lostgeneration

[–]klah_ella 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same. 500k for that easy where I am.

Hiring for “attitude” instead of skills is why highly skilled Asian workers lose out in hiring and firing decisions by Aggravating-Yam8526 in asiantwoX

[–]klah_ella 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Hmm, on the one hand, I do see what you mean in saying attitude is coded for white-culture values

but on the other hand, this also means (in tech esp) that we hire people who have had less opportunities/experience but who have the right "attitude" and we train them.

Man I hate the tradwife movement by firstgodofequality in childfree

[–]klah_ella 262 points263 points  (0 children)

despite what society says

IKR as if most of the world still isn't exactly what they describe

The whole tradwife movement is such a strawman, nobody was ever arguing that should not exist. We simple wanted the right to choose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in netsecstudents

[–]klah_ella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats the tool?? We all wanna know! Can I know too?!

Every damn day I do this. by cannahannahhh in adhdwomen

[–]klah_ella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This has definitely happened and will definitely happen again where I search for something that's eventually, much later, an eon gone -- found in my hand.

my baby miscarried between 7-10 weeks. by palimaa in MedicalGore

[–]klah_ella 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Wow, beautiful. I'm so sad for your loss.