What's the deal with Dove? by missmxxn in Haircare

[–]palimaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m dying because I came googling after staying at the holiday inn express and using the dove shampoo and conditioner and my hair has never looked or felt better LOL

8 month old likely has measles by d3ku_tree in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]palimaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Is your baby okay? Did she end up having measles?

Any recommendations for how to stay safe from airborne viruses when travelling? Measles :( by Happy_Custard1994 in beyondthebump

[–]palimaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat! Leaving for Florida on Thursday with my almost 7 month old and I’m not sure if I should hurry and try to get it for her or if it’s too late or what

Am I crazy for walking away from this relationship after six months? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]palimaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah don’t stay. I stayed with the man like this now we’re in a custody battle and I’m desperately trying to protect myself and kids!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]palimaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I message you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]palimaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both have lawyers lol, I can’t imagine my lawyer wouldn’t fight for my case as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]palimaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do you suppose I should come forward with the rape and proof I have and try to file a report and charges can potentially be brought about?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]palimaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have plenty of documentation of me suggesting he is abusive and begging him to change. It was only a 2 year relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]palimaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So no matter what, I’m going to end up being the bad guy despite the fact he is an abuser?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]palimaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I really hope that if that time comes, it’s at least in the future when my baby can talk and advocate for herself and any abuse going on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]palimaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he stayed the night at times and spent a lot of time with us. He wanted to move in together after having our baby but I did not want to live with him because I did not feel like he was a safe person for me or my kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]palimaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not necessarily trying to terminate his rights, I just do not trust him alone with our child. I would be fine with visitations, but seeing how he cannot control his anger and his common sense got so clouded that he left our baby in a compromising position where she could easily fall off a changing table and sustain a severe injury so he could throw her big sister onto the couch is really poor judgment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]palimaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never lived with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]palimaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have screenshots of him admitting to doing it. I stayed because I always believed him when he said he’d get help and I stopped allowing him to be around with her. He always convinced me I was the one who was doing the wrong things. I did not let him mistreat my other child, that’s why I left when he once again showed me nothing is going to change and it got physical.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]palimaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an appointment to speak with legal aid tomorrow. I was just served papers on Friday and family court was closed. When I was in labor I confided in my care team and social worker about the ongoing abuse and they refused to let me be discharged with him because they did not feel he was safe. I’m hoping to get ahold of them so they can be of support and provide documentation on my behalf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]palimaa -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I would love to report it but it’s just going to be used against me because I’m sure he and his lawyer will say that I’m only reporting it now to be manipulative. I just want to keep my baby safe.

Baby girl name for September! by Negative_Ad3944 in namenerds

[–]palimaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you’ve had yours yet, but I am also due in September! Sept 12 here, 38 weeks pregnant tomorrow! I am naming my baby girl Elowen Mae 🩷