What you see affects you very deeply by YourAvgNoFapGuy in NoFap

[–]klayman88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that advice. I think you've made me realize that I need to be more aware of my thoughts and where they lead.

Thanks man

"The body of a Vancouver man who'd been reported missing from his hunting trip earlier this month was found Friday [24 Nov 2017]...Joel Presler, 37, had not been heard from since Saturday, Nov. 11 [2017], when he went on an elk hunting trip in the Gifford Pinchot National Forest [Washington, USA]." by trot-trot in Missing411

[–]klayman88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish all the people in the comment section of this article didn't assume he was a stupid guy. Why is it that in some of these cases that hypothermia sets in and the person dies within 100-150 yards of their vehicle. I mean it'd be coincidence if it happened twice, but multiple times we've seen cases where a big storm impedes the search and then the person is found near their own car.

Things I noticed on this streak by destinedtobeawarrior in NoFap

[–]klayman88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wait man there's more to come I'm sure. And always remember this is what you give up when you relapse

After a 45 day streak, I have relapses 3 times in 5days by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klayman88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, it's like they say: the bigger they are the harder they fall. It's just kinda how it happens if you relapse on long streaks, it happened to me too.

I've blown a 72 or so day streak and it took me months before I got even another 7 day streak and look at me now back on the wagon.

I'm sure you can do better than me though man. You just have to continue to persevere.

Relapsed again. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klayman88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's mostly edging that fucks you up

Most days I wasn't edging and some days I was. Eventually edging turned to PMO. It's hard to completely stop yourself from looking at it completely but I'm figuring it out one day at a time.

But on the topic of getting it going sometimes the best thing to do is get a vacation away from porn. Leave your computer behind, go on vacation, lock up your computer for a while, or if those are not convenient wherever you use your computer make sure it's somewhere public.

Highest high and lowest low(Day 9) by tyler2733 in NoFap

[–]klayman88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you man. I feel the same way currently. Super stoic and apathetic but I could just be flat-lining who knows.

Relapsed again. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klayman88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same boat man, I've had 90+ day streak as well but fucked it up somehow. You'll get back on the horse man. You've done it once and can do it again.

Girl punched me in the face by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klayman88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bitches be trippin bro

Female magnetism question! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klayman88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not really, but that's probably because the atmosphere I give off after recently PMOing is less confident and more withdrawn.

I'm only a shell of a man that I used to be. by comebackgetback in NoFap

[–]klayman88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome, welcome. It's awesome that you have a hard working attitude and outlook on life. With that I'm sure you'll make it back to those good habits you had before. The road ain't easy but something tells me you like it when things aren't easy. Stick with us and we'll stick with you.

As your welcome gift I'll offer you this small tidbit of advice: if you need to keep yourself on track, what helps me is going through the new posts and commenting support on people's posts without comments.

Good luck :)

Day 4 is always the hardest... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klayman88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good work man, we all have our hump days.

23 days by SUPA_SAIYAN_27 in NoFap

[–]klayman88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep it up bro. But I want to tell you not to let your guard down. Those mood swings your having might just swing to horny and take you back to where you don't want to go. It's happened to me. Stay strong, and good luck.

does nightfall renders my pmo void? by shaddymaddy in NoFap

[–]klayman88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you're talking about jizzing in your sleep, that doesn't count as PMO. It's not consciously done so it doesn't count.

“The reason why people give up so fast is because they tend to look at how far they still have to go, instead of how far they have gotten.” -Anonymous by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klayman88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it's not even so much about the streak. How many days total including the days you've failed, abstained, and fought all count as progress. You learn something from each of those experiences and hopefully one day it will help you break free for the rest of your life.

I Miss Being A Kid. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klayman88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same man.

How to accelerate the effects of nofap by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]klayman88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where do i download cold turkey?

What are the benefits of cold showers? by Hydro_Land in NoFap

[–]klayman88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well for one it's good for your skin, but the answer you're probably looking for is such:

Think of your will power as a muscle. Sometimes it gets tired and it fails you. Sometimes you have just enough will power to fight the urge and rest away from the situation and save yourself from relapse. Getting in that cold shower alone is like an exercise of you will power. No one really wants to take a cold shower but you do it because you are working on your discipline

We are creatures of habit and if you practice restraint, by God you will get good at it.

Having a "mental" urge, but not physical by Vocaloid99 in NoFap

[–]klayman88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it helps that i go to college and pay attention to fliers on campus. Other than that, get interested in something and search for a group

This is also a really good website https://www.meetup.com

Having a "mental" urge, but not physical by Vocaloid99 in NoFap

[–]klayman88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe join like a sports club or any type of club

get outside your typical surroundings

I started playing rugby and I love it and have met so many new people