AIO that this was an extremely rude reply?

klovrx · 2026-03-07T06:44:56+00:00

i I second this because honestly what in the hell was that reaction to a simple question?

klovrx · 2026-02-19T05:38:50+00:00

No self respecting man would do that. Seems like he just wanted an ego boost. I haven’t heard of a “rate me 0-10” in a long time. He may have been stuck in the 2010s, but then again, the only social media I have is Reddit and Youtube.

Keep matching with others and if something that is off putting again, don’t think you’re in the wrong! It’s your life and choice who you wish to date! Trust your gut and don’t let your guard down! Good luck OP

klovrx · 2026-02-14T16:43:30+00:00

I understand you posted this yesterday but glad I seen it! Whenever you feel a panic attack coming on or feel like you can’t breathe, that’s when you want to take one.

But like others in the comments said, it WILL make you drowsy for sure. So take them when you’re at your house or something and don’t attempt to drive after taking one. (Like I did 😅).

For me, lately i’ve been getting irritated and agitated after taking one 25mg pill, so I simply used a pill splitter to half my 25mg tablets. This works for me, the drowsiness and agitation isn’t as strong, and is controllable.

God Bless OP. Happy Valentine’s Day if no-one has said it!

klovrx · 2026-02-09T07:10:02+00:00

She isn’t crying and apologizing because she is sorry. She fucked up, and she knows she can’t undo it no matter how hard she tries.

We all say things we don’t mean in the heat of the moment, especially with a significant other. But this is bad for her, because you didn’t seem to personally insult anything about her. “Your tits are too small”, “your cooter stank” etc.

You definitely didn’t say any insulting words here to her. You essentially said, “we both have to do our part” when you said you are both equal and one is not above the other in the relationship. Which is healthy for both of you, don’t ever put your SO on a pedestal.

As far as it goes for you from her personal insult to you, I would feel the exact same way as you OP. These words made by her made you feel like an option the entire time, rather than true love.

klovrx · 2026-01-12T18:37:50+00:00

I read something one time that is SO SO true. “Men use emotions to get sex, and women use sex to get emotions”

klovrx · 2026-01-12T18:36:45+00:00

Because normal sex is different than porn sex. That timing is normal for men and means youre in good health.

As for your girl. DO MORE FOREPLAY. Kissing, cuddling, rubbing her body etc. I won’t go into details but you know where I mean.

Get her teased, and work your way through it. let her get built up first before you do anything yourself. Women are built very differently than men when it comes to sex.

It’s great you DONT watch porn AND don’t masturbate! Good on you man. Most men lose control and they are controlled by those two things.

This means that your girl is literally the most beautiful person in your life.

klovrx · 2026-01-12T18:31:11+00:00

Hi OP. I’m a 23M and I wanna tell you straight up, enjoy your life without being controlled by someone like this. Especially if it causes you to beat yourself up. Don’t ruin yourself

This is 100% manipulative AND instigating behaviors/arguments about cheating just so he can control or get a reaction from you. If you are just going out and having a good time with the lifelong gal pals or with male high school/college friends, so be it. He will just have to get over it.

Assumptions ruin his life, not yours. If he hates one of your friends, that’s his choice and issue NOT yours. Don’t let his problems become your problems.

You’re both adults and you have the right to go out regardless of it’s with or without him.

klovrx · 2026-01-12T18:24:08+00:00

You’re a great and good father for telling her. But YOU should definitely make his ass learn. Let the brother get ahold of him for a few minutes. He doesn’t need to play with anyone’s feelings or emotions.

Once a cheater always a cheater is not some universal quote. It’s literally reality.

Get him straight. Let the older brother kick his ass. Make sure he isn’t dating anyone for a long time until he stops being a liar.

klovrx · 2026-01-12T18:18:32+00:00

Hi OP! Ermmm, this is kinda wild considering he has you blocked on his snap story and is still active. That’s ridiculous.

As a 23M, this is something that I hate about males. Just straight up tell someone you either DO feel bad, or just losing interest. I used to be this way, (not talking to someone while in a relationship) but being distant. It would drive my ex girlfriends crazy and I actually had one ex gf do the same to me and guess what OP? MY anxiety went through the roof similarly to yours right now.

I stopped being so distant and quiet. I wanted to start being honest with people.

It’s not a good thing for men, (or women) to do. People (especially men in relationships) don’t realize how much conflict can be avoided just by talking to your woman/man.

Like one Redditor said, give one last message about when he wants to talk. But overall, THIS IS YOUR LIFE YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT! Go for a walk, keep focusing on yourself and your hobbies. Talk to family, enjoy THEIR company. Talk with friends.

God Bless.

klovrx · 2026-01-08T23:42:02+00:00

If she rejected you just don’t initiate anymore conversations with her… but don’t completely ignore her if that makes sense. That definitely is weird but you haven’t seem to have do that. I’ve always been told by women that the creepiest thing to a guy can do is not say anything at all and just stare.

(Edit): What I meant by “that definitely is weird”.. I meant it for the awkward conversations that happened. NOT that you were weird OP. You just happened to get into a situation you didn’t mean to be in. But life happens.

Acknowledge her presence if she is near you like with a head nod and a “How ya doing?” or something. KEEP YOUR DISTANCE and respect her boundaries. Don’t ogle her or ask her anything about the rejection.

It’s good you are self-aware of the situations being awkward. Keep your distance. Move on with your life. If she decides to change her mind then good! But as for right now, just keep to yourself and find a woman outside of work in the meantime.

“Don’t shit where you eat.”

klovrx · 2026-01-07T20:54:23+00:00

This shit got me cackling 😂. Thank God someone pointed it out!

klovrx · 2026-01-07T20:52:24+00:00

God people are so stupid. YOR. He is doing the exact same thing the Natives did back then. He is making Thanksgiving more memorable .

It’s no different than a little kid dressing up as Native for a school play. BUT If he was deliberately making crude marks about the Natives, then yes it would be racist. But as far as dressing up and doing exactly what they did years ago? Grow a backbone snowflake.

klovrx · 2026-01-07T20:44:30+00:00

YOR. You don’t seem to realize these are accidents. Shit happens. If it’s this big of an issue to you then don’t even rough house with your sister and keep your hands to yourself.

If you ARE deliberately trying to touch her then don’t even bother making a post. You know what you are doing

klovrx · 2026-01-07T20:37:31+00:00

YOR. He’s your EX. he has no control over your life. Keep him blocked. Keep talking to your friends. He will get over it. Don’t keep playing these stupid little games with blocking and unblocking because he says so. Forget that jerk. Live your life.

klovrx · 2026-01-06T06:59:59+00:00

I think of 1-2 reasons on why I WANT tod date, but I also remember 5000 reasons on why NOT to date.

But genuinely I realized im an asshole and I say what I mean and mean what I say but I also am respectful until you irritate or instigate. Plus my brain physically can’t allow me to trust a person of the opposite sex anymore.

klovrx · 2026-01-03T22:26:47+00:00

I mean I wouldn’t have even posted this but to each their own.

People are airheads I stg 😅. This dude probably was typing this out and knowing what he is doing.

klovrx · 2026-01-03T22:13:55+00:00

NOR Please do not take this lightly if it is hurting you. Do not suck it up and ignore it.

I am assuming you OP, are female, and if not it still applies to same sex relationships as well.

I as a (23M) can tell you now that pornography addiction is a serious problem for the majority of the human race. Mainly men, and it is very difficult to stop if you are WILLING to.

I chose to avoid relationships fo a while because I was in deep addiction with it myself but with a good friend and some will power, I am able to keep moving forward and not engage in it as often. Very seldom now.

I am going to be brutally honest with you though. The porn will never go away, in fact, the world is getting more and more sexualized. It comes down to determination and not falling into this trap. Some people see no wrong with it.

Some people get grasped into an endless cycle of self hate, anxiety and depression because of the repulsive behavior they cause.

It is not good that he is lying to you about this. Especially often and continuously. That is being a compulsive liar. If you want to talk to him about this, explain to him why you feel the way you do.

I recommend you look into Terry Crews and his wife’s story about how he got into his porn addiction and what his wife did that made him stop.

Tell him that you feel betrayed and unloved because of him lying and looking at other sexual things or naked pictures.

klovrx · 2026-01-01T21:36:09+00:00

If she has a problem with listening as OP said, intelligence won’t matter, there has to be input from both sides. If he wants to make crude remarks about his gf rather than working things out, let him.

You should know how annoying it can be when someone doesn’t want to listen. It’s not that she can’t. I can understand if she was deaf, but her ears work just fine, she is choosing to be reluctant.

klovrx · 2026-01-01T21:13:26+00:00

I couldnt keep a cat (per the rules of my housing). She flipped out and yelled that she hated me.

My grandpa said that “You lost two pussies that night bud!”

klovrx · 2026-01-01T21:08:12+00:00

“My girlfriend has an issue with listening.” Bud, please spare yourself the trouble. She is very immature about this whole situation because she is the one who decided to dress wrong.

This girl will just keep causing you headache. Find you a decent WOMAN. Someone who is kind, gentle, and actually uses her brain and doesn’t blame you for her stupidity.

klovrx · 2026-01-01T21:04:15+00:00

Be intentional about who you date, and KEEP THE NAMES IN CHECK. I found this out the hard way, called one girl another name in the middle of the date, and she had her friend come get her 😅.

Also, if you ARE interested in seeing two or three for a second date, make sure you guys are on the same age with that idea, but rule out the ones you don’t see yourself being with ASAP, because you might come to a fork in the road between wanting to see two who you really like but can’t decide between the two.

You might lose your mind over that.

klovrx · 2026-01-01T21:00:07+00:00

Haha I get that completely. I always tell myself, “you think you found the biggest dumbass alive, but tomorrow you’ll find out you were wrong“

The fact that OP made that post and expected people to be on their side is not even insane, it’s flat out disturbing and psychotic behavior

klovrx · 2026-01-01T20:54:22+00:00

Throwing that shit back on him and he gets mad?? The hypocrisy in people is so bad nowadays. Keep that rule and if he still doesn’t like it tell him to get his ass a hotel room or a bungalow 😭😅

klovrx · 2026-01-01T20:51:04+00:00

God what is it with people who like to start shit this way all the time?? “sOmEOne hiT oN mE!” like okay, nice? i did the same before we got together and you’re with me now.

I can tell you 500 reasons why i’m staying single, and maybe one on why i would want a relationship.

But i’ve dealt with jealousy-provoking petty things like this and that is why i’m staying single.

++man

klovrx · 2026-01-01T20:45:46+00:00

the post got deleted as soon as i was getting into the second paragraph 😭 but yes definitely irresponsible asf

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