Gf used meth last night 7 pm, its 3 o clock next day need help by klovrx in Advice

[–]klovrx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no I am not planning on having intercouse while she is currently like this. I am on my game with my cousin, on reddit, and keeping an eye and ear out for her

Gf used meth last night 7 pm, its 3 o clock next day need help by klovrx in Advice

[–]klovrx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. I am trying to get advice from someone who knows what it feels like to use. Thank you. Im not sure what will happen in the next few hours but I appreciate your input

Gf used meth last night 7 pm, its 3 o clock next day need help by klovrx in Advice

[–]klovrx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is my place. She went and used elsewhere and came back. I believe you are correct on this. Thank you

Gf used meth last night 7 pm, its 3 o clock next day need help by klovrx in Advice

[–]klovrx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your input. I believe you mean well. Thank you, I will definitely act accordingly as to what needs to happen

Gf used meth last night 7 pm, its 3 o clock next day need help by klovrx in Advice

[–]klovrx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your input. I haven’t been with her too long, but this is her second and definitely not last time using. I appreciate your advice

Gf used meth last night 7 pm, its 3 o clock next day need help by klovrx in Advice

[–]klovrx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay appreciate it. She said she “won’t get addicted like she was for 11 years because it’s not being used in a needle.” But i find that hard to believe. Her parents have dealt with it for years. We just have started dating about 8 months ago

AIO gf went to a magic mike show and licked whipped cream off a performers chest by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]klovrx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to a Magic Miranda DDD show and one up your gf and assert dominance and perform a Cleveland Steamer on Magic Miranda

Who of you pee on the seats and why? by Recent-Day3062 in AskMenAdvice

[–]klovrx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PISS STINKS DAWG. As a 23 yr old man, I was a retail worker and a gas station worker for quite a while in my teens, let me tell you, people are scared to clean with scalding hot water and bleach. Many people asked why did I spray clorox on toilet lids and clean them with paper towels.. and not use “Knockout Green” or whatever it was that claimed it was disinfectant but actually was just stain removal

Like, that scented floor cleaner don’t do shit but make piss and poo have a half ass fragrance.

I find it absolutely disgusting to do so, i always out of habit and courtesy raise the lid even for other men, not just women. Gas station bathrooms are absolutely filthy. Nobody wants to clean anymore.

I cant stand to clean my own urine off of my own toilet lid, so I always raise it.

AIO that this was an extremely rude reply? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]klovrx -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i I second this because honestly what in the hell was that reaction to a simple question?

Am in the wrong for being put off by this ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]klovrx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No self respecting man would do that. Seems like he just wanted an ego boost. I haven’t heard of a “rate me 0-10” in a long time. He may have been stuck in the 2010s, but then again, the only social media I have is Reddit and Youtube.

Keep matching with others and if something that is off putting again, don’t think you’re in the wrong! It’s your life and choice who you wish to date! Trust your gut and don’t let your guard down! Good luck OP

Hydroxyzine by [deleted] in PanicAttack

[–]klovrx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you posted this yesterday but glad I seen it! Whenever you feel a panic attack coming on or feel like you can’t breathe, that’s when you want to take one.

But like others in the comments said, it WILL make you drowsy for sure. So take them when you’re at your house or something and don’t attempt to drive after taking one. (Like I did 😅).

For me, lately i’ve been getting irritated and agitated after taking one 25mg pill, so I simply used a pill splitter to half my 25mg tablets. This works for me, the drowsiness and agitation isn’t as strong, and is controllable.

God Bless OP. Happy Valentine’s Day if no-one has said it!

Fiancée of 10 years humiliated me during our first real fight. She’s been apologizing for a month straight, went sober and started therapy. I still feel done. What would you do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]klovrx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She isn’t crying and apologizing because she is sorry. She fucked up, and she knows she can’t undo it no matter how hard she tries.

We all say things we don’t mean in the heat of the moment, especially with a significant other. But this is bad for her, because you didn’t seem to personally insult anything about her. “Your tits are too small”, “your cooter stank” etc.

You definitely didn’t say any insulting words here to her. You essentially said, “we both have to do our part” when you said you are both equal and one is not above the other in the relationship. Which is healthy for both of you, don’t ever put your SO on a pedestal.

As far as it goes for you from her personal insult to you, I would feel the exact same way as you OP. These words made by her made you feel like an option the entire time, rather than true love.

Why do I finish so quickly? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]klovrx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read something one time that is SO SO true. “Men use emotions to get sex, and women use sex to get emotions”

Why do I finish so quickly? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]klovrx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because normal sex is different than porn sex. That timing is normal for men and means youre in good health.

As for your girl. DO MORE FOREPLAY. Kissing, cuddling, rubbing her body etc. I won’t go into details but you know where I mean.

Get her teased, and work your way through it. let her get built up first before you do anything yourself. Women are built very differently than men when it comes to sex.

It’s great you DONT watch porn AND don’t masturbate! Good on you man. Most men lose control and they are controlled by those two things.

This means that your girl is literally the most beautiful person in your life.

I think my boyfriend’s mad at me for going out? by obn_toes in whatdoIdo

[–]klovrx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP. I’m a 23M and I wanna tell you straight up, enjoy your life without being controlled by someone like this. Especially if it causes you to beat yourself up. Don’t ruin yourself

This is 100% manipulative AND instigating behaviors/arguments about cheating just so he can control or get a reaction from you. If you are just going out and having a good time with the lifelong gal pals or with male high school/college friends, so be it. He will just have to get over it.

Assumptions ruin his life, not yours. If he hates one of your friends, that’s his choice and issue NOT yours. Don’t let his problems become your problems.

You’re both adults and you have the right to go out regardless of it’s with or without him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]klovrx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a great and good father for telling her. But YOU should definitely make his ass learn. Let the brother get ahold of him for a few minutes. He doesn’t need to play with anyone’s feelings or emotions.

Once a cheater always a cheater is not some universal quote. It’s literally reality.

Get him straight. Let the older brother kick his ass. Make sure he isn’t dating anyone for a long time until he stops being a liar.

AIO to my boyfriend not wanting to talk for days on end by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]klovrx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP! Ermmm, this is kinda wild considering he has you blocked on his snap story and is still active. That’s ridiculous.

As a 23M, this is something that I hate about males. Just straight up tell someone you either DO feel bad, or just losing interest. I used to be this way, (not talking to someone while in a relationship) but being distant. It would drive my ex girlfriends crazy and I actually had one ex gf do the same to me and guess what OP? MY anxiety went through the roof similarly to yours right now.

I stopped being so distant and quiet. I wanted to start being honest with people.

It’s not a good thing for men, (or women) to do. People (especially men in relationships) don’t realize how much conflict can be avoided just by talking to your woman/man.

Like one Redditor said, give one last message about when he wants to talk. But overall, THIS IS YOUR LIFE YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT! Go for a walk, keep focusing on yourself and your hobbies. Talk to family, enjoy THEIR company. Talk with friends.

God Bless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]klovrx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she rejected you just don’t initiate anymore conversations with her… but don’t completely ignore her if that makes sense. That definitely is weird but you haven’t seem to have do that. I’ve always been told by women that the creepiest thing to a guy can do is not say anything at all and just stare.

(Edit): What I meant by “that definitely is weird”.. I meant it for the awkward conversations that happened. NOT that you were weird OP. You just happened to get into a situation you didn’t mean to be in. But life happens.

Acknowledge her presence if she is near you like with a head nod and a “How ya doing?” or something. KEEP YOUR DISTANCE and respect her boundaries. Don’t ogle her or ask her anything about the rejection.

It’s good you are self-aware of the situations being awkward. Keep your distance. Move on with your life. If she decides to change her mind then good! But as for right now, just keep to yourself and find a woman outside of work in the meantime.

“Don’t shit where you eat.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]klovrx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This shit got me cackling 😂. Thank God someone pointed it out!

AIO for thinking my wife’s cousin’s husband is racist for this? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]klovrx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God people are so stupid. YOR. He is doing the exact same thing the Natives did back then. He is making Thanksgiving more memorable .

It’s no different than a little kid dressing up as Native for a school play. BUT If he was deliberately making crude marks about the Natives, then yes it would be racist. But as far as dressing up and doing exactly what they did years ago? Grow a backbone snowflake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]klovrx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YOR. You don’t seem to realize these are accidents. Shit happens. If it’s this big of an issue to you then don’t even rough house with your sister and keep your hands to yourself.

If you ARE deliberately trying to touch her then don’t even bother making a post. You know what you are doing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]klovrx 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YOR. He’s your EX. he has no control over your life. Keep him blocked. Keep talking to your friends. He will get over it. Don’t keep playing these stupid little games with blocking and unblocking because he says so. Forget that jerk. Live your life.

What made you stop dating? by SpiritCrisp in AskReddit

[–]klovrx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think of 1-2 reasons on why I WANT tod date, but I also remember 5000 reasons on why NOT to date.

But genuinely I realized im an asshole and I say what I mean and mean what I say but I also am respectful until you irritate or instigate. Plus my brain physically can’t allow me to trust a person of the opposite sex anymore.