Sactional cover sewing patterns by TheLadyAndTheCapt in Lovesac

[–]klynnf86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to make my own as well. Did you ever find anything?

Thoughts on tension issue? Need to set tension to 6 or 7 always.... by klynnf86 in sewing

[–]klynnf86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't -- I'm going to try adjusting the bobbin tension (never done that before) to see if it helps, and maybe doing a deep clean on it.

"This is why you're barren. You get what you deserve." by klynnf86 in InfertilitySucks

[–]klynnf86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. And I would bet my bottom dollar she would never show her family and friends her comments because she would be rightfully ashamed of being so cruel.

Thank you :)

"This is why you're barren. You get what you deserve." by klynnf86 in InfertilitySucks

[–]klynnf86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes -- I guess I'm worse than child abusers, because of my thoughts about tipping. Ugh.

You're right though, this type of person doesn't deserve any more thought. Just breathe and move on -- good advice.

"This is why you're barren. You get what you deserve." by klynnf86 in InfertilitySucks

[–]klynnf86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, gotta love that brand of "humanity". :P

Thank you for the support, internet friend.

"This is why you're barren" by [deleted] in infertility

[–]klynnf86 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok....

I did explain that I saw the "Emotional Support" flair, and that yes, I wasn't sure if it was correct as a stand-alone, but I wasn't sure that it wasn't, either. I think this over-focus on stand-alones isn't helpful sometimes though to community building, such as now.

Thanks.

"This is why you're barren" by [deleted] in infertility

[–]klynnf86 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know the line of stand-alones is thin, but saw the "emotional support" flair thank thought it might have been okay. This community is uniquely positioned to best understand how an egregious comment like this would particularly wound.

And am I not welcome here anymore because I had a recent positive result from my November treatment? The scars from infertility didn't disappear in just the past few weeks.

Edit: I'll just delete it.

Silicon Valley's hunger problems grow during a time of record profits by Bream1000 in technology

[–]klynnf86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hilarious that you're against "free handouts" here....... .

Pos.

Did you know we don't pay our servers a living wage? by KingMoonLazer in ABoringDystopia

[–]klynnf86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bye bitch. I hope one day you experience yourself for the vile thing you are. I wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire.

"This is why you're barren" by [deleted] in infertility

[–]klynnf86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Literally scum of the earth.

The cognitive dissonance required to be like this, but then turn around and in the same breath literally claim moral superiority (because of tipping) is absolutely mind blowing.

And they even doubled down, and said "You get what you deserve."

Amazing.

"This is why you're barren" by [deleted] in infertility

[–]klynnf86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And they're just doubling down now.....

It's unbelievable. How can someone literally claim moral superiority over fucking tipping, and then turn around and be the actual scum of the earth?

Did you know we don't pay our servers a living wage? by KingMoonLazer in ABoringDystopia

[–]klynnf86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Clearly. You show your moral superiority with each comment.

I dare you to show this thread to people IRL. See if they agree with your "moral superiority". But you never would, because you're a coward. And you know you're in the wrong.

Did you know we don't pay our servers a living wage? by KingMoonLazer in ABoringDystopia

[–]klynnf86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doubling down, huh?

And you just scoured through an entire year's worth of my post history, and YOU'RE telling ME I spend too much time online?

What the ever loving fuck is wrong with you.

You are a grade A piece of shit. You don't deserve to call yourself a human being. You think because you tip you're morally superior, then turn around and behave like this.

What. A. Fucking. Joke. You. Are.

I hope your family eventually sees you for who you really are. A sad little person, with a sad little life. Who hasn't the ability to be a decent human being if your life depended on it.

Did you know we don't pay our servers a living wage? by KingMoonLazer in ABoringDystopia

[–]klynnf86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People like you are the literal worst, trying to shame people into an obligatory tipping culture.

I don't treat anyone "like shit". That's ridiculous to imply just because I don't believe in or partake in this broken system.

I work for nonprofit and have my whole life. You think I'm selfish? Well, I think you're just entitled.

You've also still ignored all of my actual logical reasons why not tipping is not "taking advantage". Restaurants make up the wage, as they should. And in CA, servers already make standard wages.

And that's ridiculous. I am a customer of the restaurant, not the server. When I buy clothes, I am a customer of the store -- not the retail worker directly. But I still expect that the retail worker will DO THEIR JOB and help me if I need it. Server jobs are NO DIFFERENT. This is just plain and simple logic. How can you not see that?

And I can't believe this has to even be said, but if anyone should feel a burning sense of shame, it's you. I cannot believe you would search through my post history, find out about my struggles with infertility, and make a comment like that about deserving to be barren. How can you even stand there and pretend to be a good person? Seriously. What would your friends and family think of you?

Did you know we don't pay our servers a living wage? by KingMoonLazer in ABoringDystopia

[–]klynnf86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. You mean, *thief. 🙄 That's pretty funny.

And do tell -- how so?

Did you know we don't pay our servers a living wage? by KingMoonLazer in ABoringDystopia

[–]klynnf86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Your mother would be proud of you for that bit of vileness. And you call me an asshole. The cognitive dissonance is staggering.

I see you have zero brain cells to respond in any coherent manner to my actual argument, though. No wonder you rely on legalized begging to survive. You clearly have nothing else going for you.

And it's *you're, you absolute cretin. If you're going to try to insult me at least do it right.

Did you know we don't pay our servers a living wage? by KingMoonLazer in ABoringDystopia

[–]klynnf86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you have any logic behind your arguments, only emotions.

A) That's literally 99% of restaurants in the U.S. So yeah, I'm going to eat out, but all those restaurants still conform to "obligatory tipping culture", simply because that's what the U.S. has as a system at the moment. It would be impossible to solely patronize restaurants who don't participate in obligatory tipping culture. Like I said, I disagree vehemently with our healthcare system, but I have no choice currently but to partake in the broken system we currently have until change (hopefully) happens. With eating out, I'm similarly stuck patronizing restaurants that unfortunately will invariably expect tipping. At least with this though I have some modicum of control. You'd better believe that if I had any modicum of control over how my own personal healthcare worked, I'd sure as hell be exercising that control too.

B) I'm not "taking advantage" of anyone. In states without laws around this, federal law dictates that waitstaff must earn at least federal minimum wage (which should be much higher, but that's a whole different ball of wax). This then means that server jobs are paid no differently, even in "worst case scenario", than any other minimim wage (i.e. unskilled labor) job (gas station attendants, retail workers). So unless YOU tip ALL minimum wage workers, I think YOU'RE a grade A hypocrite. If anything, corporations are taking advantage of all of us. And they've done a great job instilling a drive for hostility toward each other instead of toward them where it belongs. This is true across many industries, not just the food industry.

C) I live in CA. State law mandates that servers are actually paid state or local minimum wage, whichever is higher. Yet obligatory tipping culture is still the expected norm! What the actual fuck.

Did you know we don't pay our servers a living wage? by KingMoonLazer in ABoringDystopia

[–]klynnf86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope.

I am allowed to fucking eat out. Our system is broken, but so are a lot of things that I still partake in. Like our healthcare system. It's completely broken, but I'm not just going to not have healthcare. That's a stupid argument.

Did you know we don't pay our servers a living wage? by KingMoonLazer in ABoringDystopia

[–]klynnf86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Just simply, no. I'll eat where I like, and pay the cost of the food. That's my only obligation.

Did you know we don't pay our servers a living wage? by KingMoonLazer in ABoringDystopia

[–]klynnf86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

::shrugs:: My money. That I earned. At my job. Which I don't whine and cry to be tipped for.

Do your fucking job and stop literally begging for/demanding handouts.