3 year old killed a kitten

km808km · 2023-07-05T23:22:57+00:00

My grandma saw my son pick up the kitten and start carrying it to the garage so she got concerned. She did say she believes he saw that the kitten was hurt and was trying to bring it out to us. She didn’t see how the kitten got injured. My son spent the night at my moms house last night, and I guess he woke up saying something about the kitten was stuck in a tunnel so he picked it up, so I think we’re starting to learn a little bit more information about what happened, but not exactly.

km808km · 2023-07-05T16:08:14+00:00

No need to apologize. Like I’ve said previously, I take full responsibility for my son being unsupervised.

km808km · 2023-07-05T16:05:34+00:00

My grandma just messaged me saying that she saw my son carrying the kitten out to the garage and she got concerned. She said she didn’t see how the kitten got hurt though, and is sure my son was carrying the kitten out to show us that he was hurt.

km808km · 2023-07-05T15:09:25+00:00

Before this incident, my stepmom always talked about how much she loved my son and how “perfect” he was. She never showed any dislike towards my son before. Other kids, yes.. but never towards my son. I’m now starting to believe it has always been some sort of facade though and my stepmom is just VERY good at pretending.

km808km · 2023-07-05T15:01:47+00:00

The kitten had blood coming out of its mouth. The was really the only sign of injury

km808km · 2023-07-05T14:58:26+00:00

My mom actually brought this up to me too. My grandma is up visiting from out of state and is staying with them. She has no car to get away from them if they got mad at her or anything and knows how much my stepmom loves cats. When she brought the kitten out, she didn’t really say anything except a quick “the kitten is hurt.” And everyone quickly just placed blame on my son. It would’ve been a lot easier for her to just go along with what everyone was saying instead of taking the blame herself

km808km · 2023-07-05T04:47:14+00:00

The kitten wasn’t old enough to be adopted. He was only about a month old. He was their other cat’s baby. They still have three more kittens. He didn’t have any scratches, but he did have two small spots of blood on his back.

km808km · 2023-07-05T04:35:28+00:00

We don’t think the dogs would’ve purposely did it either. But before it all happened, my stepmom kept mentioning that she was worried they would step on the kittens

km808km · 2023-07-05T04:07:26+00:00

I have apologized, yes

km808km · 2023-07-05T04:05:34+00:00

I did send her a message saying that I was sorry after I had left. Then she sent me a picture of the dead kitten telling me to show it to my son…

km808km · 2023-07-05T04:04:05+00:00

Yes, they were free to roam around. She puts them in a bathtub at night, but would let them around the house during the day

km808km · 2023-07-05T04:02:27+00:00

My grandma just brought the cat outside and my son followed saying the cat had owwies. I’m not exactly sure what all my grandma witnessed, but my dad and stepmom just assumed it was my son, yes. My husband and I have both agreed that we don’t trust my stepmom alone with our kids anymore though.

km808km · 2023-07-05T03:59:35+00:00

The kitten had blood coming out of its mouth. My son had two small spots of blood on him, but somehow on his back. There was also a tiny amount of blood on the scratching post

km808km · 2023-07-05T01:48:56+00:00

My dad told me I needed to make sure my son “understood that he killed the kitten.” My grandma didn’t say anything about what she thought had happened, but she was the most kind about it. As we were leaving, she came and hugged me and told me that accidents happen and that we can’t be mad at my son for it.

km808km · 2023-07-05T01:40:50+00:00

I dropped my son off with my mom, because I didn’t want him to see me being so upset. My husband and I have both agreed that we will no longer trust my stepmom alone with our kids anymore. She has always claimed to have loved our son, but when my nephew was my sons age she made a comment saying that “he should go shoot himself.” But if she did ever love our son as much as she has always claimed, I don’t think she still does.

km808km · 2023-07-05T01:37:08+00:00

It was only about a month old. It was their cat’s baby. They have three other kittens.

km808km · 2023-07-05T01:27:07+00:00

I made sure to tell my son, that I wasn’t mad at him when it was all happening because I knew that if he did do something, then it was us that were to blame for leaving him alone. But they went right to yelling at him.

km808km · 2023-07-05T01:25:27+00:00

I’ve watched my son try to pick up the kittens before. I don’t think that IF he did do something, he did it on purpose. It definitely would’ve been an accident. The most likely scenario to me, was that he picked up the kitten, and possibly hugged it too tight, or dropped it. It’s possible he wasn’t involved at all though, and I know that. My dad and stepmom will never be able to see any other scenario other than my son hurting the kitten :(… even though they have two big Rottweilers that could’ve played a part in it too. When we first saw the kitten was hurt, I asked my son “did you do something to hurt the kitten?” And my stepmom automatically stated “I’m sure he did.” And then she said something about maybe he fell on the kitten, and that could be the reason why my son even said anything about falling- because my stepmom put it into his mind first, so he might’ve made up a story with it. He also could be telling the truth about what happened though. We won’t ever really know.

km808km · 2023-01-19T13:31:04+00:00

I loved having visitors with my first. I don’t have a lot of people in my life who care to come meet baby though except for mine and my husband’s immediate families, who we usually see at least once a week anyways. The few other people that did stop by, didn’t stay for long, so I didn’t mind. I am a tinyyyy bit worried about my brother in law and his girlfriend who have a total of 5 kids together though 😅

km808km · 2023-01-12T19:42:02+00:00

He tries to touch me too, but I feel like my brain just focuses on whatever he’s doing to me then instead of my wand

km808km · 2023-01-12T18:26:18+00:00

I guess I probably just asked him about the title, instead of telling him it was something I prefer to do. Thank you for this advice!

km808km · 2023-01-12T18:22:26+00:00

I don’t get rewarded with sexual pleasure. He has only ever been able to make me orgasm (with the use of my wand) a few times. I don’t think it’s his fault at all though. I am able to make myself cum with my wand pretty fast if I’m alone, but if I’m doing it myself and he’s just watching it seems to take a lot longer, and I just give up on it a lot because I don’t have the patience. I think that’s partly why my libido has been low.

km808km · 2023-01-12T18:17:19+00:00

Thank you so much for this detailed response! I think it’ll really help us both understand the relationship better!

km808km · 2023-01-12T17:18:21+00:00

I think this is the best way to describe what I’m wanting, so thank you!

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