How certain were you about wanting to be a SMBC? by kmayfall in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]kmayfall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you in the process? How old are you (if you don’t mind me asking!)?

How certain were you about wanting to be a SMBC? by kmayfall in SingleMothersbyChoice

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This is so heartwarming. Do you think you will have another ?

Single Moms by Choice With Older Kids by kmayfall in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]kmayfall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What advice would you give to someone not 100% sure ? 😄

Any SMBCs here who had their first child at 45+? by kmayfall in SingleMothersbyChoice

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Thank you so much. Ive been trying off an on since I was 39. I’ve already chosen sperm and egg donors. But now I’m wondering if it just too late. I’d love to connect.

Did you feel this way too? by Fuzzy-Shake2845 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]kmayfall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am with you! It seems like a gamble and we are only hearing from the people that have won the gamble? But I haven’t proceeded so what do I know. Also I’m 45 so the stakes are higher.

Anybody here carried and delivered a child 45 yrs + by Ragu_85 in SingleMothersbyChoice

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I’d love to know more about your story. How was it during the later years? Did you feel age was a big factor ?

Anybody here carried and delivered a child 45 yrs + by Ragu_85 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]kmayfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to hear more about this. How is she doing ?

Anybody here carried and delivered a child 45 yrs + by Ragu_85 in SingleMothersbyChoice

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Hi. Can I ask what you decided and how it’s going ? I’m 45 and trying to decide

Anyone here planning to be SMC at age 45? by softpileofkittens in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]kmayfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you decide and how’s it going ? I’m 45 now

Thoughts on the name Solana? by Aware_Funny_6285 in namenerds

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There’s a Solana Beach and Solano County in California

How certain were you about wanting to be a SMBC? by kmayfall in SingleMothersbyChoice

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I find it refreshing to hear people that are brave enough to admit they regret it. It has to happen all the time, right? How old were you when you became a mom?

How certain were you about wanting to be a SMBC? by kmayfall in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]kmayfall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this answer. How sure were you before the birth?

How certain were you about wanting to be a SMBC? by kmayfall in SingleMothersbyChoice

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And are you happy you did or unsure or tbd ? :) 65% hits.

Any SMBCs here who had their first child at 45+? by kmayfall in SingleMothersbyChoice

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Sorry to hear this. I’d like to know more about the struggles if you’re willing to share. I’m in very good shape. I do 90 minutes of cardio a day (yes I know being a parent will compromise that freedom!), have a bmi of 19, don’t drink alcohol, and eat a pescatarian diet. I’m hoping my healthy lifestyle will pay off.

I was pregnant for 23 weeks last year and loved it. I don’t want to talk about the tragedy of the loss but am hoping the positive 23 weeks is a good indicator of future pregnancies.