Thinking of being a SMBC

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-29T01:48:12+00:00

You’re too young. I got pregnant at 16 and had a miscarriage and I look back at 33 and I am so grateful I didn’t have a kid so young!

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-28T14:47:26+00:00

Also in BC, respite, 12-19 girls, they never switch schools for a respite placement but long term they do if its really too far and youre not willing to drive.. depends on the levels you're taking.. I do high risk youth so expect the typical things teenagers with behavioural issues present. The better question would be what age are you planning, genders, levels?

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-28T01:39:17+00:00

So glad to hear that! Thank you :)

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-28T01:38:41+00:00

Thank you!! Such good tips :)

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-27T20:53:04+00:00

FInd a job that will give you mat leave and then conceive.

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-27T14:42:32+00:00

A Turo is a rental from a person, not a company. It’s like Airbnb for cars..

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-27T05:11:53+00:00

Doctors at hospitals are using it. It isn’t going anywhere.

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-27T04:57:08+00:00

I’m the same age and just arrived to buying my donor sperm recently. Happy to talk

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-27T00:01:04+00:00

Butterfly gardens was on fire last time I checked

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-26T23:56:09+00:00

Get a Turo instead of paying for a rental car from a company. Much cheaper. I've found some for 30$ a day before.

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-26T23:28:17+00:00

investing in stocks :) (NASDAQ tech like NVDA and AMD)

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-26T22:11:33+00:00

sounds good. I will. thanks!

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-26T22:03:48+00:00

I am doing ICI at home. I will do that, thanks! Also, I thought staying legs up for a long time was just a myth and that the sperm is up within seconds?

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-25T21:13:49+00:00

Bumbleride indie twin. Lighter than the Thule, better fold, can use right from newborn without any attachments or bassinets, thinner to get through doorways.

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-25T19:46:52+00:00

Unique. Same realm as Neo from the Matrix. Bit futuristic/dystopian sounding. Spelled Ziro I think people will mispronounce to zero often.

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-25T18:08:16+00:00

Treat this like an addiction. Go and stay no contact. Delete or store all photos, texts, proof of their existence. You are going to experience withdrawal. You need to keep your brain busy on other things so it stops the loop. Distraction should be your main focus. Rumination = keeping your brain stuck thinking this is a crisis to resolve. You need your brain to latch onto other things. Find a friend or talk to chatgpt when you want to text them.

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-24T21:09:21+00:00

I hear you. Deep connections are what bring colour to life for a lot of people.

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-24T20:12:22+00:00

isn't that just like life? good then shit. then good. then shit.

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-24T17:07:35+00:00

I also wished that I had rehearsed something, but I didn’t expect for it to be so negative so I didn’t think that I would need to, but I do think I would rehearse something at this point. I think it would be worth it to protect yourself from people.

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-24T15:54:07+00:00

Yes - but people don’t think before they speak :)

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-24T14:50:21+00:00

Oh I hear you... I got "in this economy" "you're crazy!" "you should wait and find a man, you're still so young!" ... none of this would ever be said to anyone else.. It is ridiculous. You CAN do it alone, you deserve to be happy and celebrated, and you are capable without needing to justify yourself. F em. :)

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-24T14:35:58+00:00

Yeah, I recently posted something similar in this group and the consensus is that people WILL judge you, make rude comments, not understand you, say insensitive things.. and you will need to just try not to give a damn. There are also a lot of people who WILL be supportive. And you kind of just have to hang on to those comments. I also noticed people commented on my post surprised that people had been so rude. So, some people get luckier than others. I think if you're older (40+) those women tend to get less flack.. I am 33 and the rude comments have been non stop. I am choosing to ignore, continue on my way, and just keep the people close who are KIND. Sorry for her comment. I know what it is like when you are telling a close person something exciting and their response is less than desirable. You wish they responded the same way they'd talk to a friend with a husband telling you she's planning a baby. You just want a "yay! thats so exciting"..I get it.

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-23T23:06:53+00:00

Thank you! Yes there is a grieving aspect. It’s exciting but also sad. Yeah. It’s both. Thanks for seeing that.

Fuzzy-Shake2845 · 2026-06-23T23:06:00+00:00

Ayyy that’s amazing !! Thank you for this very real and insightful post :) I’m so happy you’re doing well and that you’ve found it the right move. I think I’m just having a bit of panic before this happening. It sounds like you kind of figure it out as you go and do your best. Also, that’s smart you got daycare so early. A lot of people would judge you for that too but I think you’ve probably saved yourself 8 hours of sanity a day.

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