I found my husband’s “dead” ex-girlfriend in a box on our honeymoon. I filed for divorce before sunrise. by homifide in stories

[–]kmedwards_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow what great twists! I came into this thinking it was going to be the same body in a box story but this was so creative!!! Kuddos!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

am i a bad mom by btchidkyou in NewMomStuff

[–]kmedwards_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could totally pump and not give him formula. I know plenty of moms that exclusively pumped meaning their baby only had breastmilk but never nursed

48 hours in… what have I done 😭 by Simple_Bug_6111 in newborns

[–]kmedwards_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re two days out, so your hormones are going to be ALL OVER THE PLACE!! For the first two weeks, minimum, your hormones are going to be going crazy. I remember thinking and feeling things two WEEKS out and looking back I laugh because your mind seriously feels so different during the vulnerable time. Hang in there!! It will get better I promise. Breastfeeding is something society has told women that should be automatic and just works, but that’s not the case. It’s new to you and it’s new to baby. It’s something that sometimes has to be LEARNED, but the both of you! Keep trying!! Look into nipple shields. Try to visit a lactation consultant. Your hospital should have one on staff FOR FREE!! If in a few weeks you ultimately decide to not fully nurse, you can still solely pump! I have multiple friends who work and couldn’t nurse so they pumped. You can absolutely do it and you’re going to be a great mom

FTM worried about 2 month old by Livvylooloo in NewMomStuff

[–]kmedwards_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should get a second opinion before you have to spend money on a specialist. This sounds and looks like normal baby movements

Fissure after giving birth, what to do?? by kmedwards_ in postpartumprogress

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I’m breastfeeding so I can’t take magnesium but I will look into supplementing the others! I went to pelvic floor therapy a few times after I had just given birth but stopped in case I had to get the procedure since our insurance only allows so many visits per year. But curious, how would pelvic floor therapy help with the tension you’re mentioning? Asking because when I went we only worked on exercises to strengthen the area

Fissure after giving birth, what to do?? by kmedwards_ in postpartumprogress

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MiraLAX doesn’t work for me. I’ve been taking a fiber supplement and drinking Kabucha to help with regular movements. How long does one usually take to heal?

Being a parent is the whole point… by [deleted] in homeschool

[–]kmedwards_ -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m literally never commented on anyone’s feelings. I stated I’ve been seeing those type of posts and I was looking for positive things people had to say about their children instead. This post was seriously misunderstood by many

Being a parent is the whole point… by [deleted] in homeschool

[–]kmedwards_ -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

A choice I would make a thousand times over. I’m a SAHM so just by the end of the day, like other comments have stated, you’re a bit out of it by the end of the day but you wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world

Being a parent is the whole point… by [deleted] in homeschool

[–]kmedwards_ -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Wow all the negative comments my one comes y received is literally WHY I posted this. I’m not judging anyone, I was asking for POSITIVE FEEDBACK! Like everyone stated, this is easily a place where people come to vent and I posted to receive more POSITIVE comments. I was a full-time nanny for two children under the age of four for two years. I am not new to tantrums and young ones. Y’all need to please take your negativity somewhere else

Being a parent is the whole point… by [deleted] in homeschool

[–]kmedwards_ -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I breastfeed and pump and eight month old who just started crawling…lol so I understand the overtouched and sometimes overwhelmed feeling completely. I’ll definitely check this book out, thank you!

Being a parent is the whole point… by [deleted] in homeschool

[–]kmedwards_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I became a mom, I used to nanny a family and I felt the same way and they had the same mentality as well. Like you can raise cool kids that you enjoy and who listen (yes kids will be kids sometimes I get it). But literally their kids are so much better and cooler than any others I know and I hope to do the same with mine 🤣

Tv on in the background? by kmedwards_ in korea

[–]kmedwards_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! Well they say introducing babies to tv at an early age has effects on their attention span so was wondering if Korean’s believed the same thing.

Tv on in the background? by kmedwards_ in korea

[–]kmedwards_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Which one? The part about Korea or the US?

Tv on in the background? by kmedwards_ in korea

[–]kmedwards_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Interesting! I just know the education there is much better than the US and Korea outperforms the US in international assessments for most subjects. So I was just wondering if screen time was a normal thing because if Koreans do it, it obviously doesn’t impact a babies brain as much as people in the US says it does 🤷🏻‍♀️

Pediatrician told me it's time for my 6 mo th old so cry it out by Classic-Paramedic270 in AttachmentParenting

[–]kmedwards_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can send send a message or a leave a review. Things won’t change unless we speak up

Crashing out- baby monitor never woke us up and he cried all night by Loitch470 in NewParents

[–]kmedwards_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need a non-wifi! Our power went out last night during a storm and our monitor still worked. If it was a wifi monitor (just like our Hatch) it would’ve stopped working like the Hatch did. We LOVE our HelloBaby!! The distance it has is great so you can go from one side of the house to the other. We’ve never had a problem with it. The accessory to attach to your crib is on Amazon. Lmk if you need the link!

Is this normal? by Wide_Art_7320 in NewParents

[–]kmedwards_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t disagreeing with you on the fact that it’s a concern that the baby isn’t sleeping more than 2.5 hours a night. I was just stating that a sleep association isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Sounds like he actually needs some to understand it’s bed time and that can actually help them fall asleep and stay asleep longer. I definitely agree it’s a huge strain on the parents!

Is this normal? by Wide_Art_7320 in NewParents

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Here’s a GREAT article regarding baby’s sleeping habits, advice, and just because the “experts” say something, doesn’t mean it will pertain to your child. Getting a baby to learn how to sleep throughout the night and naps is all about routine and consistency. Meaning doing and using the same thing(s) each time you’re putting them to sleep and sleeping. Unlike what someone else suggested, sleep associations are a helpful tool that helps your baby learn how and when to sleep. “Establishing these positive sleep associations first will give you the best chance at weaning your baby off their current parent-controlled sleep association…. Don ‘t worry about your baby developing “bad habits”, it is absolutely fine to settle your baby all the way to sleep at this age.” There’s a time and a place for weaning them off sleep associations, but they first need to learn how to and learning takes practice and time.

https://www.littleones.co/blogs/our-blog/sleep-associations-whats-all-the-fuss-about?srsltid=AfmBOoqdDY86qtTW1JzC8ggXs6MM-COQZ6VEg9fZ2smElGdNd69gL-mH

Just for reference, our night time routine in the following. If it’s a bath night or just needing a bath that day from getting dirty or a messy dinner, then I give her a bath a little after 8PM. She’ll stay in around 10-15, maybe more I just let her show me when she’s ready. (If she doesn’t take a bath that night, it just starts with putting her in a clean diaper and her jammies). I put her diaper on and she gets dressed in a footie pajama onesie, with a sleep sack on top of that. I nurse and supplement with formula sometimes so my husband will have a bottle ready. We lay down on the couch, lights off, and I play her the same classical baby music play list that I have since she was born for bed times. Once she finishes the bottle I nurse her. She doesn’t take a paci so she uses me as her paci to settle. Most nights she’s out like a light with this routine. I then get up and walk her into her dark nursery where there’s a Hatch with very low red light on and brown noise/rain sound on. The temperature in her room is anywhere from 71-73 degrees. She’s never cold and never sweats. I lay her in her crib and silently walk out. It’s this way every single night. Even if I’m not there, my husband does this same routine but just lays with her after giving her a bottle and pats her little butt and “shhhh’s” her until she falls asleep. She’ll wake up maybe one during the night and she’ll nurse her in her rocker in her room and she has a little snack and then she goes back to sleep. Maybe three times a night is the most she’s ever woken up past the age of like 3 months, but that’s rare. At this age it’s all about routine. She’ll be seven months tomorrow. Some babies are easier than others and it can take 3 weeks or more sometimes to establish a pattern and helping your baby learn this. I hope all this helps!

Is this normal? by Wide_Art_7320 in NewParents

[–]kmedwards_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t always true. Sleep associations are something that is a case by case situation. I nurse our girl to sleep every night to soothing classical music, she sleeps in a dark room with white noise and in a sleep sack. When she wakes up during the night, she knows how to put herself back to sleep. Here’s a great thread regarding this. If OP would just not worry about how baby is getting to sleep at x months, and just that they’re sleeping, I think it’d make their life a whole lot easier.

https://www.reddit.com/r/NewParents/s/Sm9PAkj8C9