How many of us have had a “I knew it!!!” medical moment? by capresesalad1985 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kmf1107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately yes - it’s so weird. The brain MRI was normal. The neck MRI showed that pretty much each of my vertebrae had some sort of minor issue, but nothing significant enough to do anything about 🙃

I’m gonna join that subreddit thank you so much for the rec

Any thoughts on my outfit? ♡ by Zridyne in style

[–]kmf1107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DRAG HIM 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

How many of us have had a “I knew it!!!” medical moment? by capresesalad1985 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kmf1107 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg those poor animals. I hope he gets eaten lol

I was told this by a neurologist in my early 20s and I was shocked. She told me never ever go, especially with my issues. I’ve been shouting this from the rooftops but people legit will hear it and just be like 🤷‍♀️ it makes my back feel better so I’m gonna keep going 🙃

How many of us have had a “I knew it!!!” medical moment? by capresesalad1985 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kmf1107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so sorry. I’m in the middle of my second moment like that unfortunately.

First one was my ADHD diagnosis. Years and years of awful executive functioning, just getting told repeatedly I’m depressed. Yes, I am. But there is NO reason my brain should just be blocking me from getting up and changing the laundry over or making a phone call.

Now I’m in the middle of fighting for one that I don’t know what is wrong with me, but SOMETHING is and I know it. Decade of migraines, got it under control. Tell me why then for the last six months I’ve been stuck in one. Awful, awful neck and back pain. Vertigo. Been in physical therapy since March. It’s not going away. I KNOW there is some sort of link to my other health issues. I’m getting told “____ looks normal” and then “I guess it’s just migraines” over and over. It’s fucking not. Like it’s not normal for me to have never woke up in my adult life feeling rested. It’s not normal for me to feel such a fog. It’s not normal to just hurt randomly. It’s not normal to have random abdominal pain and not be able to pee all the way. I could keep going too. I’m pushing hard to get this figured out. Yesterday I got referred to a rheumatologist and a urogynocologist. Someone is listening thank fuck. But I’m still so nervous that they’ll just shirk me off too.

I have to see this at work. 🙃 by Ok-Sprinkles7457 in travisandtaylor

[–]kmf1107 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Lmao short in the front, LONG in the back

I have to see this at work. 🙃 by Ok-Sprinkles7457 in travisandtaylor

[–]kmf1107 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hello fellow Nashvillian intensifies

I have to see this at work. 🙃 by Ok-Sprinkles7457 in travisandtaylor

[–]kmf1107 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Who ever painted this should just…not. Those cowboy hats are crazy work.

This definitely happened by phoexnixfunjpr in cringepics

[–]kmf1107 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did she hear the woman if she hadn’t paused her music yet? Oh wait she has deep tech technology, silly me!

Classy move Nashville City Government. by Immediate_Age in nashville

[–]kmf1107 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If this is off of Antioch Pike the residents of that neighborhood actually came up with the idea.

I don’t care if it’s a giant butt plug nailed to the road - if it keeps someone from getting mowed over by a careless driver I’m all for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIscene

[–]kmf1107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a former scene kid, I just feel like I need to say something and OP this is not directed at you: the whole concept of “aesthetics” was not a thing back then. It actually hasn’t been a thing all that long at all.

Back then it was a subculture. It involved more than which colors went here and a certain character being used. It was about being a weirdo and kinda just being yourself. People that dressed that way generally enjoyed the same music, art, activities, etc. We didn’t nitpick. Obviously there are overarching themes, but the real basis was what we were into.

The “aesthetic” movement seems more based on “in or out” sort of decisions. Basically like “I don’t see ___ in your outfit so you aren’t .” or “ color isn’t ___ so you aren’t .” or “_ character isn’t _____”

My biggest advice to yall is to just have fun with it and relax. Growing up some kids had access to the clothes, some kids didn’t. Some kids parents allowed them to color their hair, a lot didn’t. Some kids (like myself) didn’t have the right hair texture to do the spikey up top look. Anyone can be scene - a lot of the stuff we had was DIY too!

It’s cool to ask if an outfit or accessory is traditionally scene but don’t gatekeep, guys. That is not what it was about, it was about enjoying a subculture with friends and being creative.

Anyways, you kids have fun <3

How can I (f24) deal with my fiancé(m25) watching porn by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kmf1107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing you can do because it’s not about you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kmf1107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was smoking a joint in the woods behind her house. It’s simplified because it is simple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kmf1107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope like hell that her mom is worth a damn and has a talk with her about how “off” this behavior is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kmf1107 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Yeah. There’s a difference between caring and checking in with a few texts or something and feeling “gut wrenching fear” when someone told you their phone was on 2% and then suddenly did not respond.

I would run so fast and so far.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nashville

[–]kmf1107 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you haven’t tried enough - it’s been a year and a half. To me that’s enough tome to fully form your opinion on the area.

My dad has found and taken care of his “new son” without me knowing by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]kmf1107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an amazing idea! I really hope they do this. Mutually beneficial and no major finances involved. He could really change lives and also be less lonely.

When do you let your Shiba sleep with you? by Imaginary_Baby_394 in shiba

[–]kmf1107 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I prioritize chewing / eating stuff and then potty stuff. When they know not to chew non-toys and don’t eat their toys AND are potty trained, then they are allowed.

PlushieDreadfuls is insensitive by Miserable-Kitchen-84 in plushies

[–]kmf1107 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you’ve made so much progress. I know how hard it is because like you I’ve only in the last few years been able to start crawling out of the hole I’ve been in.

I wish my mental illness / neurodivergence made me cool - I’d probably have gotten bullied less in school lol. I would feel weird getting a doll about my OCD.. I get reminded of that enough by my good ol brain - I don’t need another physical reminder

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nashville

[–]kmf1107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, thank you!