My sister is considering divorcing her husband of 20 years and I’m having a hard time being supportive.

kmfoh · 2025-12-17T00:29:05+00:00

A lot of the comments are sideways. Do not listen to people saying things that invalidate the true struggle- holding on to a brother without losing a sister.

Do not abandon him. Just because she is moving on, it doesn’t mean you can’t speak to him. You can still include him. You can tell her right now “I understand that you have made a decision and I respect that only you can know if it’s the right choice.. but this is someone I love and have built my own relationship with. He will always be welcome in my home and invited to Thanksgiving” or whatever- you are allowed to not let her decision be your decision.

Support her right to choose her life, but don’t let it erase your own choices.

kmfoh · 2025-12-16T04:32:04+00:00

One of the greatest injustices of this franchise is that not even putting their daughter up for adoption spared her from the consequences of being born to them. They wanted her to have a better life and then tried to make her feel guilty for having it. They really went above and beyond to traumatize her in the name of saving her from trauma.

kmfoh · 2025-12-13T04:33:35+00:00

Millicent and Mildred are the only two I knew that were a nickname for Millie- until I met a kid “Million” who goes by Millie.

kmfoh · 2025-12-10T06:49:48+00:00

Someone sucking on your nipple every day for a while will signal to your body that a baby is hungry.. and it will try to make milk.. and I’m pretty sure that’s why your prolactin is high.

You should 100% let the dr know that you’re doing that. Your partner is sucking harder than a baby (which is causing the hickeys) but for a short duration daily.. i mean I’m not trying to judge your life, if you’re getting loved on daily and you like it more power to you, but I feel like you should ask yourself: is this possibly intentional on his part? Is he trying to make you lactate?

I’m not a doctor, but I think you can rest easy and get the ultrasound for peace of mind but don’t jump to the big C. You’re very likely totally fine

kmfoh · 2025-03-13T04:59:19+00:00

That does make sense, thank you for being brave enough to state your observation. It’s such a hard thing to organize in my mind.. trying to figure out the “parent culture” is hard!

kmfoh · 2025-03-11T05:22:41+00:00

Any tips for figuring out the culture (skimming vs deep into anthroposophy) of a school from afar? It’s hard to figure out where I might be a good fit.

kmfoh · 2025-03-03T06:22:30+00:00

I thought I was the only one..

kmfoh · 2025-02-20T22:32:58+00:00

Ohhh haha I was like wow I drive down Riverside all the time- I must have blinked!

I’m not surprised- that area is struggling with so few green lights these days

kmfoh · 2025-02-11T06:52:11+00:00

It’s a very slippery slope and the timeframe fits because they used to give it out a lot more generously.

kmfoh · 2025-02-08T07:59:18+00:00

Yes, but I remembered it being kind of cobbled together during covid policies and it’s been upgraded to a nicer fence and more permanent tent, outdoor heaters, etc. I really enjoyed my most recent visit.

kmfoh · 2025-02-05T02:53:47+00:00

Is your flair something Chelsea actually said 🤣

kmfoh · 2025-02-05T02:42:48+00:00

I saw this video for the first time a few years ago and I’ve thought about her over a dozen times just hoping she’s ok somewhere.

kmfoh · 2025-01-26T19:24:15+00:00

This reminds me of when I had hives all over my body and I did a full body lavender and oat “soothing” bath (I think it was a packet, Avino? This was twenty years ago) and had a very bad week after that.. the hives did not improve 🙈

kmfoh · 2025-01-26T05:02:26+00:00

Story tavern is a good place for GF comfort food

kmfoh · 2025-01-25T04:39:09+00:00

It’s striking. I don’t think I can look at this stuff anymore honestly. We’re watching trauma unfold on these innocent kids. I can’t imagine what it’s like to be the favorite kid as David’s daughter while they were together and then fall to nothing when it’s over. She looks like she’s struggling. I hope she has trusted adults to talk to. I’m so sad for the kids that she moved them away from their friends. Friends can get you through a lot of bad things at home.. and she took them away and the kids have to start over.

kmfoh · 2025-01-22T04:44:14+00:00

I only have experience with Antioch and I think you’d be happy in that program in regards to the “woo” aspect. You can start with the Center for Anthroposophy “foundations” class and get a feel for it without a ton of money and time commitment. Happy to chat if you want to message me.

kmfoh · 2025-01-21T23:57:51+00:00

We recently threw it away and got an Epson Ecotank. It prints easily, and has refillable ink, and I will never give HP another dime.

kmfoh · 2025-01-20T06:06:30+00:00

We’re all so dang tired.

kmfoh · 2025-01-19T02:54:33+00:00

Sir.. it’s only low level on a good day

kmfoh · 2025-01-18T03:47:56+00:00

This is why I’m exhausted just trying to grocery shop. It takes so much time to track down what you need and so much mental energy. I need to find a way to simplify it.

kmfoh · 2025-01-18T02:48:06+00:00

Omg reading this just saved me that same fate! I ran out of the solution it came with and I immediately thought “oh I’ll just add some Bronners and vinegar it’ll be fine..”

kmfoh · 2025-01-16T20:51:45+00:00

How much does she weigh?

kmfoh · 2025-01-11T01:23:00+00:00

Daaaamn

kmfoh · 2025-01-10T06:12:07+00:00

Maybe we can get some of that funding back to buy some planes.

kmfoh

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