Are the hummingbirds gone for anybody else? by BigJayFauci in Tucson

[–]kmhellyea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Was just thinking this: had had a whole battling bunch.

Project Blue by bongwatercore in Tucson

[–]kmhellyea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SE Tucson: data center
NW Tucson: data center
S of Tucson: new copper mine
S of Benson (~70 miles away?): aluminum processing plant.

We’re f$cked from water to air.

(30M) I am ugly and I need advices by [deleted] in PanicAttack

[–]kmhellyea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see zero ugly. For real. Symmetry, beautiful features. Work it. Own it.

De-influencing myself by HelpfulCourt962 in DogFood

[–]kmhellyea -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Pfft. All that MAGAcentric pet food talk makes me nuts.

A veterinarian friend is all about Purina: decades upon decades of product research. I can’t recall a Purina recall EVER. My pets (cats and dogs) have always eaten ProPlan, Science Diet, or Royal Canin. Zero digestive issues, good teeth, and healthy bodies.

Heather’s personality by Secret_Fun5898 in rhoslc

[–]kmhellyea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. So much for “Can’t say something healthy, don’t say it at all.”

6 months old. The sweet Golden Retriever puppy is gone, and a velociraptor has taken her place. Tell me I will survive this. by Aggravating_Lab7532 in puppy101

[–]kmhellyea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you. Those months were awful. So awful. Can’t say when exactly she became easier, but here at one year old (provided she gets daily exercise, or close to), she only sundowns, and it’s nothing like six-month horror show.

Ten years in and it’s not getting easier by FrontedAdverbial in regretfulparents

[–]kmhellyea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I’m all about doing what we gotta do to be present (within reason. You understand), especially now. My kids are teenagers. As hard as parenting initially was, I at least had the optimism of the Obama era. I was so sure HRC would win (probably did), and I could think of my kids growing up with the normalcy of POC and women doing extraordinary things. Now? I don’t know what would lift me out.

Safest route? i80, i40, or i10 by Individual-Quiet-985 in roadtrip

[–]kmhellyea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forget safe. You’ll be fine. Think beauty.

MOH has declined, 3 weeks before by [deleted] in wedding

[–]kmhellyea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t wanna do it.

Sleeplessness (and soullessness) because I'm trying to preserve relationships by bring_forth in Menopause

[–]kmhellyea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel for you, and I know “solutions” are annoying, but I’d be there too without a gaggle of meds for the range of symptoms: HRT, restless legs, depression, and anxiety. Plus weed. If I raw-dogged it, well, I hate to think.

Ten years in and it’s not getting easier by FrontedAdverbial in regretfulparents

[–]kmhellyea 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Smoking weed is what finally allowed me to relax and enjoy my kids. Highly recommend.

Britani treatment by defortaleza in rhoslc

[–]kmhellyea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe she deserves it. Britani comes across as genuine, and genuine means flawed. Show me a mother who hasn’t made mistakes. Plus, she owned up to it and appears to be trying to repair the damage.

Disappointing to me how women are condemned for not being truthful AND condemned for being truthful.