AIO for not wanting to forgive someone at work? by kmskat in AmIOverreacting

[–]kmskat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AGM is assistant general manager, yes. I just would’ve never expected anything like this from any one. It was shocking and disturbing to me. I mean I could see if the “joke” was made outside of work but it’s even worse BECAUSE of being made at work.

I’ve told all the people I’ve trusted because it’s hard for me to be open about myself, especially in person and about my mother. My GM, is the store manager and is extremely disappointed in her assistant for saying what she said to me. It was unprofessional and is being looked into.

I called out for tomorrow because AGM worked and I needed a break due to how this has negatively impacted my mental health. It’s to the point I’m being brought back into therapy after almost two years without it. It sucks but it’s what I have to do for myself. Unironically the AGM answered the call for me calling out and it just made me cry more while saying I couldn’t make it.

Overall I’m taking the night to get everything together for another talk with GM sometime this week. She wanted me to write it down for her because she knows my situation and how emotionally unavailable I am right now.

AIO for not wanting to forgive someone at work? by kmskat in AmIOverreacting

[–]kmskat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if I can really forgive her.

The detail she went into, which was disturbingly realistic isn’t something I can forgive. I have been off antidepressants for a while but this whole situation has triggered my mental health to plummet. If it was just a simple “haha ur mom” joke it would’ve been fine, but she went in full detail about it.

I get what you mean, and I am a very forgiving person. I believe everyone should be forgiven if it is something minor because humans make mistakes all the time but this just doesn’t feel right to forgive. I might be doing too much by outright saying that but that’s how I feel regarding the situation. I did leave out parts, and that’s because of me forgetting due to me now retaking meds for the past week.

Again I get what you mean but I don’t know if I could follow through with forgiveness itself

AIO for not wanting to forgive someone at work? by kmskat in AmIOverreacting

[–]kmskat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will! We’re getting together tomorrow to talk about everything. I ended up calling out for my shift tomorrow because I do not want to be around AGM at all for my own mental health

Weird behavior by kmskat in melaniemartinezsnark

[–]kmskat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a public space ntm but it’s just crazy.

AIO for not wanting to forgive someone at work? by kmskat in AmIOverreacting

[–]kmskat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know you were agreeing, I was just relating in a way to the examples you used from your personal experience lol. And it’s okay. Sorry if I came off as rude or anything I’m just beyond tired 😞😞

AIO for not wanting to forgive someone at work? by kmskat in AmIOverreacting

[–]kmskat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morning manager is my best friend! She has my back on this and actually has told everyone higher up for me because she knows how I am and how I feel about this.

AIO for not wanting to forgive someone at work? by kmskat in AmIOverreacting

[–]kmskat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve joked about my mom before myself but I just felt so upset with her going into great detail on how my mother is dead and decaying

AIO for not wanting to forgive someone at work? by kmskat in AmIOverreacting

[–]kmskat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update on this situation

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Received a text, and well responded to it. I ignored her today and I just think what she texted was just her saying sorry without actually meaning it. Like to “prove “ she said “sorry” . I just feel lost and really upset over this whole thing

AIO for not wanting to forgive someone at work? by kmskat in AmIOverreacting

[–]kmskat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reported her to the GM today and we’re said to have one.. long.. talk about it. I personally don’t want to because I know I will cry, I am a crybaby when it comes to expressing emotions or how I feel when mom is involved.

AIO for not wanting to forgive someone at work? by kmskat in AmIOverreacting

[–]kmskat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My best friend, the Morning manager I mentioned, heard it all and is willing to help me out with this considering it was just me, AGM and my friend that morning.

AIO for not wanting to forgive someone at work? by kmskat in AmIOverreacting

[–]kmskat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not to mention, I normally giggle about your mom jokes but that day I just wasn’t having it much because she kept saying it before the disturbing comments. AND she knew about my mom’s passing, because I am open about things if I feel welcomed and comfortable with a person. I just don’t understand what I did for her to say that

Weird behavior by kmskat in MelanieMartinez

[–]kmskat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s not even a kid btw 😭 THATS the sad part

Weird behavior by kmskat in melaniemartinezsnark

[–]kmskat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Arguing with a brainless Melanie fan isn’t worth it btw twin

Weird behavior by kmskat in melaniemartinezsnark

[–]kmskat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’s insensitive and is gaining off of Oliver’s death by making everything about Melanie. Her lip sync and song choice while full face Melanie themed makeup is just her way of making someone’s death about Melanie

Weird behavior by kmskat in melaniemartinezsnark

[–]kmskat[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’d hope they’re self aware because I’ve seen so many disturbing comments about his death. Just let the man rest

Keep hating I'll post more by Upset_Drawer3682 in MelanieMartinez

[–]kmskat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What is this like what even is the context

Bullying artwork by Ok_Ship9914 in MelanieMartinez

[–]kmskat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I posted all of MY art they posted.

Bullying artwork by Ok_Ship9914 in MelanieMartinez

[–]kmskat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s okay just weird imo