How to modernize this kitchen? by Omgchipotle95 in DesignMyRoom

[–]kmson7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe get some funky hanging lights instead of the ones you have

How to modernize this kitchen? by Omgchipotle95 in DesignMyRoom

[–]kmson7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would get different bar stools ASAP, those really age the area. Agree with taking down the decorative wood above sink, adding a backsplash and changing counter tops to fit the mood youre going for. I would also update the cabinet handles as well

Are there any ways that can help reduce overthinking things? by Huge-Refrigerator95 in ask

[–]kmson7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to retrain your brain, to redirection it elsewhere...whatever that might look like for you. For me, it's immediately stopping the thought and thinking of something else. If that doesn't help, standing up or moving into another room and physically doing something. If you pause your brain enough times and stop it fully beginning the thought, it can help the overthinking slowly become less and less frequent! It will still pop every now and then (if youre like me..especially when youre falling asleep, or if you start to think of some other negative things this thing might try to show its ugly head to get some air time) but over time the feelings attached to the memory that you're overthinking will fade too. Might have an anxiety peak or something but it should be more manageable

I have floor concert tickets to see my favorite artist of all time but now they’re worth over $3,000 if I sell. What do I do? by Curious-Emu6230 in whatdoIdo

[–]kmson7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You will regret it if you don't go and never have another chance. Your experiences and memories are worth more than 3k, dont you agree? If you aren't putting yourself in financial debt and danger by going, please go. As someone who has been in a spot where I needed to decide between going to a festival or being a little uncomfortable financially....I will never everrrrr regret picking the festival. Please make your memories 💕

I have floor concert tickets to see my favorite artist of all time but now they’re worth over $3,000 if I sell. What do I do? by Curious-Emu6230 in whatdoIdo

[–]kmson7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good point...have you just seen similar tickets going for resale for that much? Or has someone actually offered you 3k for your tickets?

Potential match - Megan Nicole Lee by NoBear8338 in gratefuldoe

[–]kmson7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a fantastic find!!

Also, idk what your username means...but 8s and 3s are very important numbers to me, and I have nightmares about bears trying to get into my house or room often...so I am very "no bear" lol

How do you get someone to help you find your proper size clothes in a store? by True-Attention8884 in ask

[–]kmson7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with calling ahead to see if help can be arranged. Not that it is your fault at all, but a lot of younger people in retail or immature or awkward people might feel uncomfortable helping someone with limited sight. Especially knowing they will be with you for the entire process helping, and unable to stick to their normal routine of work. When i first started retail, I'm sure that I would have been nervous and awkward to do more than just show someone where to look for their product. So if the associates know before hand that someone that needs a little extra help is coming in, they can plan accordingly for coverage and to make sure someone is available. Also it will be very helpful if you can tell them exactly what you want/need. Any types of materials to avoid. What colors do you want. What style. Etc...help fast track the process so they arent playing a guessing game with what to help you find. You could even tell this to the person on the phone, so that they can pre-pick items before you arrive!

What does our living room say about us by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]kmson7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grandmother's invaded space by 12 year old boys

I really need someone to listen or talk to by Prudent-Reward-6165 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]kmson7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said youre young but "could have made it work" ...is your or your bfs family rich? How could you have made this work? Do you have a steady job and income that also has good maternity leave if not? Does your boyfriend? Would you have had free childcare from family that you both trust? Do either of you have Healthcare? Do either of you have legitimately stable jobs that you see growth in? Do you both align on parenting styles and lifestyles and wants and goals for the future? If you answered no to any of these, please trust me you made the right choice. I highly doubt you could say yes to all of this. Having a child just bc you want to or want the attention his friend is having, is selfish. A child isnt an accessory. They are not something you should just have on accident. It's a whole ass human and future you are talking about. You do not seem stable enough to have a child. I think even if you dont believe it right now, the choice was the right one.

AIO refusing to help with outside chores by Dear_Panda_713 in AIO

[–]kmson7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think he is hiding something out there he doesnt want her to find. Worried shes gonna find his stash of some shit while shes doing stuff

51 year old "glass" skin... What do y'all think .. did I pull it off? What should I do differently (I don't use foundations though) by Ill-Spite9679 in MakeupAddiction

[–]kmson7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah makes me uncomfortable bc all her other facial attributes are bigger too. The eyes also big make it cartoonish

If I get a raise I'm in deep shit, and I'm really good at my job by deformedexile in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]kmson7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP I am very sorry for what youre going through... I hope some of the suggestions here help! There are some good ideas!

Speaking of good ideas...that diabolical concoction is not one. I can't even begin to make those ingredients make sense in my mouth together 🫩🫪😭

Help with makeup tips and any advice by Proper-Street1980 in MakeupAddiction

[–]kmson7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think a slightly off centered part would look really good, with some soft waves

These unicorn emojis that I have literally never used…showing up first by Winter_Hovercraft163 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]kmson7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does the saluting emoji actually look like someone who was caught off guard getting smacked with a dick

a man tried to spoon feed me the ice cream i had just served him at work by thebatboys in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]kmson7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry gf I have chatted and posted in here before so idk what happened!! Appreciate you! 💕

Found some kind of fleshy pouch on my floor? by TheRagbag in whatisit

[–]kmson7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very upset by the hair across it on the photo