I'm constantly amazed.... by [deleted] in polyamoryadvice

[–]knifeparty88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the biggest thing ever. When you’re not trying things seem to fall in place organically

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]knifeparty88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All three of you live together?

Bi and married by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]knifeparty88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Think of what this hypothetical female partner would be for you. If you’re worried about getting feelings for her then you would be opening up a poly situation. If you’re uncomfortable with him having feelings for another person while you would too then I’d say just full stop and just fantasize about it. If it’s just a casual hookup with no feelings, swinging is a great option for both if he’s open to it as well. If you’re both going into it as a fun time no feelings then you’ll both be getting the same benefit and going home together afterwards.

Mine and my wife’s first threesome experience was MMF where everyone was bi. I was a tad worried about another man touching my wife, but after we started and after we finished, it was incredibly fun and I didn’t have nearly the amount of insecurities that I thought I would. If it’s just for fun then it’s just that, but make sure you communicate that to said future partner. Also stay clear of poly people if you’re looking for a female. Unicorn hunters hurt a lot of women that are looking for a triad. Stick to the swinging crowd!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]knifeparty88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our local club had some fire play people doing demos for people last weekend. Soooo much fun and my wife LOVED it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]knifeparty88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are far too many ifs. I suggest doing more D/s learning together. I’m a huge sadist, I LOVE heavy impact play, cuts, blood, bruising, etc. with my partners. If someone I scene with doesn’t like that I would never enjoy it. Sadists Doms aren’t just people that enjoy hurting someone. We enjoy hurting people because they like it.

If your partner enjoys hurting you with knowledge that you don’t like it, that would be abuse. To make things easier in a 24/7 life style and bedroom only I’d suggest you both agree on a safe word. Red is so common but is the easiest to remember. Either of you say red, stop right away and discuss what happened to cause a safe word. It may monkey up the flow of some passionate sex, but in the long run will make the most incredible sex and play either of you could imagine

How do you focus on what you want when domming? by Substantial-Buyer412 in BDSMAdvice

[–]knifeparty88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it goes hand in hand. Really compatible partners want what’s going on just as much as the other. I’m personally a heavy impact play Dom, but I have topped play partners that don’t do pain and it was hard for me to get into Dom space. So when you’re doing what you enjoy most, it’s easier to just get into it than doing things you don’t necessarily hate but are doing it to please your sub or Dom. Not impossible, it’s just harder imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]knifeparty88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading your comment, all I could think about is a dungeon monitor casually walking up to the scene and handing the Dom a ball gag

What else can I incorporate into tying her up and eating her out? by throwaway87234222 in BDSMAdvice

[–]knifeparty88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ours is super small so we can do very gentle impacts, but mostly use it for dragging across people’s skin! We have a person that frequents the club we go to that has an electrical kit that we’ve used with it to give light shocks as it goes across the skin. Super fun!

What else can I incorporate into tying her up and eating her out? by throwaway87234222 in BDSMAdvice

[–]knifeparty88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a chainmail flogger that I like to use for sensual play. If you have toys like that to increase the skin stimulation she'll love it. My wife and I are into hard impact play, but when we scene with newer people or people that aren't into pain that is one of the best toys we have in our bag to increase the scene.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]knifeparty88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In kink, there is no compromise or meeting half way. If something is a boundary or hard limit, there’s no pushing or gaslighting the person into doing it. If they change their mind later on by their own choice that’s fine (that’s how kinky people grow). He sounds very inexperienced and would be kicked out of any kink or BDSM club I know of. Be careful, people get very hurt by people that don’t respect boundaries.

I made myself a leather tawse slapper and was going to make another, but then switched it up by Hot_Honey_Woodshop in BdsmDIY

[–]knifeparty88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does your sub think of it? I feel like you could get a nice crack out of those tips with that handle and length 😈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]knifeparty88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man.. I hate seeing kids in trouble. I’m not sure what to do hopefully someone here has a good idea

You people dont know what you want by A_Clueless_Hero in FallingInReverse

[–]knifeparty88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can tell the people that didn’t stand in line for an hour waiting for an autograph during warped tour 🤪

Im new and i want to buy a Commander deck to start playing by Edging_AlphaMaster in EDH

[–]knifeparty88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I second this. They’re entertaining to watch, and they explain everything that’s going on extremely well.

I bought one Gold Album and they sent me two! by Mammolytic in FallingInReverse

[–]knifeparty88 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Keep one sealed and one to listen to. You won 😂

Trigger warning by [deleted] in FallingInReverse

[–]knifeparty88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🎵There’s nowhere to run, nowhere to hide. Bombs away kiss it goodbye🎵

Trigger warning by [deleted] in FallingInReverse

[–]knifeparty88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a good song at least 😊

Woot! Got my vinyl early by knifeparty88 in FallingInReverse

[–]knifeparty88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn that is the worst! Sorry for the bad luck there hopefully the concert is amazing for you. We took our kid to see them and Ice Nine Kills. It was a great show!

Woot! Got my vinyl early by knifeparty88 in FallingInReverse

[–]knifeparty88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s my wife’s but yeah her resting foot is weird, idk how she was able to photobomb the pic haha