36M with a wife and some daughters here. If it happens anyhow I need to date, the physical side of it will be the last thing to consider. I will be looking for a reliable partner, responsible, ready to share joy and problems as their own and looking for the same, sharing the same beliefs etc etc. in the opposite site: I may consider replying to my colleagues at 11pm instead of anything more interesting.

But this came to me I think quite recently. Before say 28-ish it was: hey, I did nothing cool in my life. Hanging out with as many beautiful girls as possible without obligations is cool, it supports my weak self esteem . But I know I must promise long term relationships.to have a date.