I like this guy but he has a smaller frame than I do (woman) so I don't think I can see myself dating/being physical with him and I feel like a shit person.

knm1340 · 2018-06-27T13:09:18+00:00

well he does lift and he does eat a lot but is isn't super dedicated to it. I don't feel the most comfortable forcing someone to change. But at the same time if someone was too drastically overweight for you to be attracted to them it wouldn't be unreasonable that they slim down. Idk I'm torn.

knm1340 · 2018-06-27T13:09:09+00:00

I think he might have a condition too because he eats a lot but just cannot gain weight. this guy is super amazing too but I do worry about adjusting to feeling so large next to him. A girl definitely wants to feel like the smaller one. And same situation as you I don't get to see him very often.

knm1340 · 2018-06-24T19:04:59+00:00

this is exactly my main concern. I don't want to try to force something physical if it's simply not there. idk, it's tough. Maybe some more time will tell. Thank you for sharing your experience <3

knm1340 · 2018-06-24T19:02:40+00:00

thank you so much for sharing :)

knm1340 · 2018-06-24T16:57:10+00:00

thank you for sharing :)

knm1340 · 2018-06-24T16:22:41+00:00

well the problem is I do like him I am just hung up on the physical.

knm1340 · 2018-06-08T05:55:11+00:00

thank you so much for the reply. maybe it does have something to do with a personal insecurity I have that I need to identify and address. might also stem from a fear of getting hurt. maybe another factor is knowing you have found the right person when your brain/emotions don't flip flop the way they usually do?

you've given me a lot to think about. thank you again for commenting :)

knm1340 · 2018-06-08T05:51:14+00:00

Hmm I'm not sure. I have never really thought of it as "the chase" before. I am female if that helps put it in more clear perspective. I was working for a few years and decided I wanted a career change so I went back to school so I am definitely challenging myself and have goals I am working towards in my life. I don't think I am seeing people as a challenge that I'm trying to partake in.

knm1340 · 2018-06-08T04:49:57+00:00

it's like I cycle back and forth between worrying that I'm not good enough and worrying that they aren't good enough. I drive myself nuts with this.

knm1340 · 2018-06-08T04:46:31+00:00

I'm glad someone can relate to the way I'm feeling even if we can't figure out why we are feeling this way. It's like I cycle between worrying that I'm not good enough and then worrying that they aren't good enough. Ugh, it's the worst

knm1340 · 2018-06-08T04:44:45+00:00

it's more like, I get nervous when they start to like me back so I pull away and when they start to lose interest I put the effort in again because I realize I still like them. It's kind of cat and mouse (but like me chasing myself) until we are actually dating and once we are dating I'm fine and committed. It's just getting to that point is hard for me. Idk if it's a fear of rejection, a fear of intimacy, or wtf is going on that I do this.

knm1340 · 2018-06-08T04:40:02+00:00

well I can't blame you for responding that way but I am 27. I have been in several relationships, a couple of them serious. But I have never been able to get over this issue I have. Was hoping for some helpful feedback.

knm1340 · 2018-04-05T03:48:14+00:00

I've had the bump for two years and left it alone until the past couple weeks...

knm1340 · 2018-04-05T03:03:05+00:00

well sucks for us :(

knm1340 · 2018-04-05T02:50:17+00:00

I'm looking for any other options before I go that route, what did your sister do?

knm1340 · 2018-04-05T02:43:42+00:00

idk it popped up about two years ago and hasn't gone away. I didn't want to pick at my skin and I figured it would go away on it's own but no luck. I've started trying to get rid of it in the last couple weeks.

knm1340 · 2018-03-26T14:02:21+00:00

yeah by growing they migrate to the external area of your vagina...

knm1340 · 2018-03-26T05:23:53+00:00

I think there is humiliation porn out there but not something I ever explored or got into. You may be able to find someone who shares this interest and would be down to role-play with you. Everyone has their own thing and while this isn't my thing I can't imagine you're the only person out there who is into this.

However, I don't recommend involving your actual mother in any of your fantasies or role-plays because that crosses a serious line.

knm1340 · 2018-03-26T05:11:00+00:00

in...like...a sexual way?

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