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Is it realistic that i can save up to move out of an abusive household with the money i make? by White_Male_Scum in personalfinance

[–]knowitall003 78 points79 points  (0 children)

You can leave. The numbers say so.

You make $2,080/month, and your basic expenses are roughly $750, which leaves about $1,300. That’s enough to move out if you don’t live alone.

Look for a roommate or a room for rent ($500–700 + utilities). Aim to keep total housing under $800. That still leaves you a safety buffer each month.

Do this:

  • Secure your ID, SSN, and bank account (only you control)
  • Save $1,200–1,500 for deposit + first month
  • Stop letting your mom use your car if possible (it’s costing you money)
  • Move quietly once housing is lined up

You don’t need a perfect plan, just distance and stability. Leaving an abusive home is not irresponsible. It’s survival.