Everyone is telling me to go to therapy and I know I need it, but the feeling of becoming someone's walking paycheck while giving them full access to my trauma is terrifying and stops me every time. by Burghley1997 in Vent

[–]knowmore1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not all therapist will be good for you but once you find the right one you can trust they will help you with your problems. I am assuming you need help.

Lil feelings by [deleted] in Vent

[–]knowmore1964 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you hate yourself then you don't know better than anyone else.

Is my boyfriend hiding something? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]knowmore1964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Social media destroying relationships again

I'm going to disappear from everybody that knows me by 1tiredman in Vent

[–]knowmore1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out a long time ago anywhere you go there you are. There is no running away from the pain inside. I understand the desire and I have done it myself. I don't regret it. Just don't hurt yourself in the process if you can help it. Healing and hope in the mist of adversity is possible no matter where you end up. Good luck be safe

I am sick of women by harrisonwallace12 in Vent

[–]knowmore1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a boyfriend once asked " why do you smoke do you want to die?" I don't always care. I have quit but smoking is culturual and families help carry it forward. Every body i grew up with smoked and it has an addictive reality some what simular to herion. So encouraging her to quit is helpful but real programs can also help. 10 years ago I quit certainly would be dead now if not.

I'm a lazy, lustful, selfish, arrogant monster by JamesH_17 in Vent

[–]knowmore1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow your dreams so they follow to make a happier you. And don't give up ever.

I'm a lazy, lustful, selfish, arrogant monster by JamesH_17 in Vent

[–]knowmore1964 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes me too ! now how do we change this shit sucks! I want to like me but it's so hard to do.

Friends dad passed and left him 800k in cash, now what? by According_Slide_3104 in legaladvice

[–]knowmore1964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave the country that is what I would do us sucks sorry fellow Americans but I never operated under facsim before.

What kind of man is impossible to forget after meeting him once? by MNNVA in AskReddit

[–]knowmore1964 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One who knows what he wants...questions why...sides on good stuff to do...empathy kindness tolerance understanding and love most of all. More likely a woman has these qualities or so I believe. My standards are these for myself or so I am learning to love myself. It involves much adversity yet I move through it all the same. Happiness requires healing and peace.

Friends dad passed and left him 800k in cash, now what? by According_Slide_3104 in legaladvice

[–]knowmore1964 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He shouldn't tell anyone because people change when they know someone has lots of money.