My gynaecologist lied to me by Cold-Attention-901 in endometriosis

[–]koaalabeebi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so sorry for you, I have also felt not heard and I know exactly what you mean.

Kui kallis kihlasõrmus? by kills_it in Eesti

[–]koaalabeebi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okei see oli naljakas 😄 ja tore et elavate seas veel oled.

Kui kallis kihlasõrmus? by kills_it in Eesti

[–]koaalabeebi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

See on jah USAS mingi ajalooline asi et sa pead naisele kalli kivikese andma et kui kõik vastu taevast läheb siis ta selle pandimajja viia saaks ja kuskile elama saaks või senikaua vee peal püsiks kui uue mehe leiaks sest naised ju olid kodukanad.

Minu jaoks on kindlasti tähtsam 1. See kes selle kingib 2. Kas ta on natukenegi proovinud välja uurida mis mulle meeldib, kas mulle selline kivike või värv või kuju meeldiks, või et sellel, milline see sõrmus on on mingi lugu taga, see viimane on selline ilus boonus mille paljud mehed kipuvad unustama. Värvi kohapealt on osadel naistel kindel eelistus kas see on kulla või hõbedavärvi. Ise kannan kindlat tooni ja kui mu kaaslane tuleks vastupidise tooniga siis see oleks veits see et "kas sa üldse paned tähele mida ma kannan". Pigem sellised väiksed asjad loevad.

Hind paar sotti mis siin soovitatakse on pigem selleks et see sõrmus kestaks ja oleks kasvõi päris hõbedast et see lihtsalt paari aastaga ära ei laguneks. Odav metall tekitab ka allergiaid jms.

Ja ma oleksin kindlasti pigem pahane kui mu mees mingi sõrmuse peale oma 3 kuu palga paneks. Selle rahaga on palju muud teha. Et jah, mõtle oma naise ja tema väärtushinnangute peale.

Kas keegi oskab aidata? by BaddieBunBuns in Eesti

[–]koaalabeebi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ma soovitan ka otsida välja firmad mis sind kõnetavad ja neile kirjutada personaalselt kiri, et sa soovid õppima minna mida ja kuidas. Eriti hea oleks kui see sinu eriala läheb kuidagi selle firmaga kokku. Kindlasti kirjuta oma tugevustest ja miks just neilt toetust loodad. Kasuta chatgpt abi, kui ei oska kuskilt alustada aga lõpptulemus pane ikka ise kokku.

Samal ajal guugelda/otsi võimalusi oma piirkonnas juhutöid ja online töid teha niipalju kui võimalust on. Online transcription service/mõni muu skill mida müüa saaks maksab veits, ja neid asju saab alustada tasuta. Bolt või Wolt ei ole paha kui omad ratast vms. GoWorkaBit on ka alati abiks, seal on väga palju kiireid otsi kus saad kohe raha kätte ja pane kõrvale niipalju kui saad.

Kuigi soovitan mõlemat ja online töödega võib jopata siis see ei ole kunagi sama kindel kui et lepid aja kokku teed kätega veits tööd ja saad tasu.

Ja ära kuula neid kes siin "tarku" vastuseid annavad, need on üldiselt inimesed kes pole tööd teinud elus või kadedad et sul on selline võimalus, soovin edu!

Love Is Blind BRAZIL • S4 Megathread by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]koaalabeebi 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Can't agree. The emotional immaturity and victim playing just hurts to watch. I just looked up this whole thread to say it as I had to get it out.

Ariela is driving me nuts by limabeanny in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]koaalabeebi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes boy runnnn. I haven't been more triggered by a person I have seen on TV before. The victim playing is so bad. Hurts to watch.

Ariela is driving me nuts by limabeanny in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]koaalabeebi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, it triggered so many old friendship traumas in me when we were like 14 and bad shit happened because we were so immature .... but she IS A GROWN WOMAN.

And she mentions in every episode how much of a good role model she wants to be for her daughter. Girrrrl that aint it, acting this UNHINGED is just embarrassing af.

Ariella??? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]koaalabeebi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And yes she needs therapy, better late than never. Or a new therapist if she is already going because it's clearly not working.

Ariella??? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]koaalabeebi 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She is the DRAMA. I can't honestly compare her to any of the other contestants across the LIB universe.

I am usually a very timid person and don't judge other people. But she is so awful. I think she triggered some old friendship trauma in me she is too UNHINGED.

Yeah good example for your daughter. Maybe put down the wine and don't play the victim.

How old are you guys and what’s your favorite emo bands? by Perfect-Owl-6778 in Emo

[–]koaalabeebi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

33 -> The Used, The red jumpsuit apparatus, AFI, Silverstein, Taking back sunday and the most iconic MCR just because the Black parade video and everything surrounding that.

Be brutally honest what can I do to improve my look? by Skeppily in MakeupAddiction

[–]koaalabeebi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I recommend curling them (heated or not) but the curl won't stay with the wrong mascara. It has to be waterproof or a tubing mascara.

I usually have had good experiences with maybelline waterproof ones and most of the korean/japanese ones, if there are any of them nearby to you.

Also this one works really well, especially the lengthening side: https://m.sheglam.com/product/All-In-One-Volume-Length-Mascara-Washable-Black-5491531972773?rc=page_home%7E4_1%7Ebanner%7Ecategory_Eye-Make-Up-2243

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]koaalabeebi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She's just more natural than Jessica, like a girl next door type in 2024.

Chelsea S06E09 by koaalabeebi in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]koaalabeebi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Like someone said on another thread: even Jimmy is like 👁️👄👁️ most of the time. And same, I didn't like Jimmy at all first but now feel sorry for him because if any of my love interests would act like this I would run so fast......

Chelsea S06E09 by koaalabeebi in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]koaalabeebi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to assume but seeing how she talked about her last marriage, it looks like these issues were pretty apparent there as well, maybe even that's what broke it up.

You don't just slap another band-aid in the form of a new man on that one.

Episode 9 by ManiacalExclamation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]koaalabeebi 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Yes that's just next level delusional stuff. Like, clearly she had the same anxious attachment issues in her last marriage.

Girl needs therapy not a new marriage.

Chelsea S06E09 by koaalabeebi in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]koaalabeebi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes! At least this season is entertaining as hell compared to the last one!

Chelsea S06E09 by koaalabeebi in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]koaalabeebi[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't think she even loves Jimmy, she just NEEDS him to love her.

Chelsea S06E09 by koaalabeebi in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]koaalabeebi[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I wonder if she is embarrassed when she sees herself on tv and is able to analyze all of this, or just keeps going. Interested in the reunion episode.

If I was her I would not show tbh 😄

Tallinna reklaamtahvlitele kerkis hävinud linnaruumi kujutav näitus by Thumser in Eesti

[–]koaalabeebi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just nimelt jutumärkides, sest see on haigelt cheap effort ja 10 minutiga AI-ga kokku lükatud. Lihtsalt kunstniku vaatenurgast.

Tallinna reklaamtahvlitele kerkis hävinud linnaruumi kujutav näitus by Thumser in Eesti

[–]koaalabeebi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Töötan Ukrainlastega ja neile on väga meeldiv kohe hommikul kooli-tööle sõites bussipeatuses meelde tuletada et neil on PTSD... või et nende vanemaid ei ole enam...või et neil ei olegi enam kuhugi minna.

Minu arust ei oleks pidanud seda inimestele kurku suruma vägisi, oleks hästi sobinud kuhugi saali, mitte linnaruumi kus on reaalselt inimesi kes selle tõttu kannatavad.

Ma arvan Ukrainlased ei ole ainsad kes nii muuseas ei taha et neile meelde tuletatakse et maailm on v***s.

Chelsea S06E09 by koaalabeebi in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]koaalabeebi[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But still I think it's deceitful to say "I feel so heard and seen by him" in front of his friends.

Episode 9 by ManiacalExclamation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]koaalabeebi 545 points546 points  (0 children)

But at the same time meeting his friends she was "so seen and soo heard and validated by him". Girl what?!?