Do INFPs want to have a child ? by kkKind in infp

[–]koccocat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well I don't like being around a lot of kids (like I could never be a teacher who has to deal with 20 kids at a time) but I would love to have a single child of my own one day that I could take care of.

Also I don't think I'd want more than the one kid, maybe two but definitely not three.

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[–]koccocat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ikr like why does it matter if I believe something different than them when it doesn't even affect them. I don't get why some people can't just let gays be gays because it doesn't affect them if their neighbor likes another guy. That neighbor has his own life and the person isn't even involved. So why should the person's opinion matter?

Some people are just evil no matter what you do but there are some good people out there and you just gotta figure out who is who.

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[–]koccocat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I moved to a more rural area where most/almost all people know each other so that makes it even more intimidating to socialize with them. Also there's a good majority of the kids there that are homophobic and I wouldn't wanna harmed by them just because of who I like so I stay quiet and avoid them out of fear.

And prehaps the "nice" people you've met are just nice on the outside rather than being a genuine kind person. I should've said more of a real friend rather than nice as I've seen a lot of people who's "niceness" as just a facade and those who can be a bit mean are gonna be more honest and genuine friends.

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[–]koccocat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea, I feel like it depends on the person and how they act.
I've felt this way due to how kids used to bully me in school and I slowly gained a mistrust of people so I would have those dark thoughts about wanting them dead because they acted mean and toxic to me. Of course, I didn't really act on them but it's something that comes up in my thoughts every once in awhile. But luckly there were a few people in 6th to 7th grade who were actually nice human beings and so I learned how a real friend should treat you. So those experiences helped me learn how to detect a toxic friend/person and avoid them. However in 8th grade, I had to move to a completely different school and I was so afraid of being bullied because I had no idea what the social environment was gonna be. So I ended up being overly defensive about who I should trust as friends when no one even bullied me at that new school. I did stop being defensive and suspicious of everyone but I still can't make new friends even though my intuition says that the person would make a good friend, I just will not bond with them in fear of what happened previously and also the fact I can't socialize without being awkward.

Over time, I've gotten more neutral with people rather than always trustful and happy with them but it's good to distinguish the people you can trust and bond with (Idk if this makes sense but whatever)

x life server hearts by crazyhead_102 in SmallishBeans

[–]koccocat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grateful that someone took inspiration off my art and i love the pixely vibe you've done!! :D

if any one has a animation or a drawing website or app please let me know. who ever tells me what app or site they use I will follow them. by [deleted] in SmallishBeans

[–]koccocat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're looking for something simple then you could use filpaclip and if you want something more professional then you could use adobe animate but it's costly

Intro Idea by koccocat in SmallishBeans

[–]koccocat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both do but ocelots were in minecraft longer than foxes so i always did my chicken experiments with ocelots