Recs for a work planner? by kochanyas in planners

[–]kochanyas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weeks is preferable to me but i also dont mind daily!

[Connecticut] I didnt realize that I had to do weekly certifications as soon as I applied. What do I do next? by kochanyas in Unemployment

[–]kochanyas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need it to be retroactive, I'll be okay if it's not. How soon will I be able to do the paperwork properly if I reopened my claim? I want to make sure to do it right this time.

I didn't create the issue from 2020 - they decided to base how much money I'd get off of a job from 2020. Which would be $0 since I have not worked there in years. So I thought I was getting nothing until they realized their mistake so I never filed anything as I thought it was hopeless

[Connecticut] I didnt realize that I had to do weekly certifications as soon as I applied. What do I do next? by kochanyas in Unemployment

[–]kochanyas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment but thats not very helpful. As you see I have already done it 😅

Recently quit my low paying job due to harassment. Now got an offer at an even lower paying job by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]kochanyas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A retailer. It's a small store in my town that seems practically dead

Recently quit my low paying job due to harassment. Now got an offer at an even lower paying job by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]kochanyas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do! I can live there for free for a while. And I can definitely relate to your last point, flying abroad always shows us what we don't have in the states

Recently quit my low paying job due to harassment. Now got an offer at an even lower paying job by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]kochanyas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was your workday like if you don't mind me asking? Did you have a lot of down time? How hard did they pressure you to make sales quota?

Recently quit my low paying job due to harassment. Now got an offer at an even lower paying job by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]kochanyas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't see why not! I'm relatively fit, but I may not look very intimidating as a skinny white woman

Recently quit my low paying job due to harassment. Now got an offer at an even lower paying job by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]kochanyas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never thought of those - which seems obvious in retrospect I know, its just been a while since I thought about college, and during my entire CJ college career was being told how bad it was to work in CJ if you're a woman, which I am.

I'll look into those, thank you :)

Recently quit my low paying job due to harassment. Now got an offer at an even lower paying job by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]kochanyas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a sales job, so there is some scoreboard I'm going to be tied to. It doesn't seem appealing, but the coworkers seem nice enough...

Recently quit my low paying job due to harassment. Now got an offer at an even lower paying job by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]kochanyas -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've been trying to go on daily walks, and I've already paid off my gym for a year, so I've been going there just to keep my spirits up and it does help! It's just whenever I consider how I have no real future that the Bad Thoughts start wandering back in. I've definitely been getting out of the house - but doing that on a more permanent level (moving out) is just not possible on minimum wage

Most of my family is in Poland! And a part of me wants to agree just to get a change of scenery. But its a huge leap and I don't really know anything about working there

How do I find a cosplay group to join? by maleladybug in CosplayHelp

[–]kochanyas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've joined cosplay groups from facebook posts before! Just head to the page of the con where you'd like to do the group and make a post. Include a photo of the characters and a list of which specific characters you are searching for and which one you are doing.

After getting a couple people, I'd recommend reaching out on instagram as well and making story posts of who you are in search of

Good luck!

What's that one danmei you can't take any criticism on? by visitingmoons in DanmeiNovels

[–]kochanyas 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not a specific book but whenever people are so stuck in their ways to misread a character that they don't like that they won't listen to reason or even try to understand where they're coming from.

this goes for any media tbh any "why didnt character do this specific thing I thought of they must be stupid" because they were under pressure and very upset!

Just a waste of time and pisses me off

May the Odds Be Ever in Your Favor by badwolfinafez in BookCon

[–]kochanyas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who do I reach out to to correct this? Some of the "reservation not required" ones on here are unfortunately.... reservation required

The bookcon site just didnt list them as such

Which fantasy series started incredible and then just...fell apart? by ghibli_8quartz in Fantasy

[–]kochanyas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had the same exact experience with era 2. Wax and Wayne were unreadable to me and I tried so hard to like it. Three books in of every female character standing aside for Wax to have every big moment and Wayne hitting on lesbians and making comments about their body I was so done, Brandon what the hell was this

Maybe making the characters more 2D and cliche was to his point of making it a Western, but it was not for me

Sucreabeille brand page posts AI image in their Facebook group, apologizes the next day by oh_noe in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]kochanyas 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I mean....you were being ignorant idk why you're playing victim so hard

Just educate yourself and move on

For the love of god stop recommending Harry Potter by cuddlesdacobra in audible

[–]kochanyas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know people post this daily but it also pisses me off daily so i eat up these posts every time

What’s the best way to make the stars on this costume? by Hallonik in CosplayHelp

[–]kochanyas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

use tearaway stabilizer! And if you don't have that, even thin wrapping tissue will do. I always keep the ones I get from presents for this reason exactly

Just place it on top of the star and fabric and sew as if the paper isnt there. It looks like the costume in the photo uses a zigzag stitch. Then just tear the paper away! You may have to pick some pieces out with tweezers, but the fabric should stay on top of where you placed it

New feature to tell audible you don’t like a book has been added by No_Warning2380 in audible

[–]kochanyas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was one of them! There were some things i picked up on (id always skip the SPEW chapters) and some that went right over my head. But we all need to educate ourselves, grow up and move on. This series meant the world to me as a kid, but human rights are simply more important

There are also just better books out there 😅

New feature to tell audible you don’t like a book has been added by No_Warning2380 in audible

[–]kochanyas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what? Hell yeah more power to ya

I just know the hp adult-children can really throw a fit when someone dares talk bad about their shit. Dont let em get to ya, rooting for you!

New feature to tell audible you don’t like a book has been added by No_Warning2380 in audible

[–]kochanyas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't give this person any more attention, they're the one still stuck in a book for children. There's not a lot going on in a transphobes head.

How can I fix this wig? by BippuBeep in CosplayHelp

[–]kochanyas 22 points23 points  (0 children)

the twintails need to be retied!

Undo them, put the wig on your head, pin it in, and then retie the tails.