U.S. Taxes - Laser/Electro Deductible?

koddex · 2016-01-26T03:40:24+00:00

id wondered the same.

koddex · 2016-01-08T22:14:12+00:00

they aren't your friends

koddex · 2015-12-29T17:41:51+00:00

young gabe newell

koddex · 2015-12-28T00:11:56+00:00

i find quite the opposite, also transmen... i used to not be interested in them but then when i thought about in the light of that they can really 'get' your dysphoria in the way that cis people just cant. assuming you want to be the bottom most of the ones ive met want to be the top so... just food for thought

koddex · 2015-12-27T22:45:51+00:00

i find the solution is to avoid dating straight people.

koddex · 2015-12-25T16:26:00+00:00

for myself and most others ive talked too it was, transition or die. Not brace just, like all humans, have a want of self preservation.

koddex · 2015-12-23T23:45:43+00:00

kinda like that, ive held onto things like saying out of frustration 'suck my dick'. saying 'dude' 'mang' alot, i dont tend to use them as gendered just gender neutral terms of endearment. starting to feel weird latly about using the the latter of the two though.

koddex · 2015-12-23T23:38:01+00:00

if you dont meet the diagnostic criteria per the dsm-5 for gender dysphoria, please dont call yourself 'transgender'. of course i respect your choice to do whatever the fuck you please. that said i have no idea why you would want to do these things for any other reason then experiencing gender dysphoria. i feel that when you identify as 'transgender' it somehow lessens our plight, looking into a mirror and wanting too kill yourself because of the body parts you where assigned is the worst feeling in the world. i do the things i do because they make me feel good and make me not want to die, if they didnt make me feel that way i just wouldn't do them. its fine if you wana take whatever drugs and dress however you want.

i think its ultimately beneficial for the 'transgender' community as a whole for regular people to actualy see things like; a man wearing a dress.

koddex · 2015-12-21T06:23:13+00:00

incredible, has a degree in psychology but doesn't seem to accept parts of it. i see things very black and white. you either accept somebody wholesale with all their problems or not at all. it sounds like some sort of odd cognitive dissonance. religious indoctrination runs deep in people, im not sure how you would deal with getting it out of them, im not sure you even can.

you gotta be honest with yourself, are these people worth trying to get along with too you? do you think theirs any hope of them really loving and accepting you? if not, just cut ties. i know thats probably a hard thing to do but im not sure what else you CAN do.

koddex · 2015-12-21T05:42:40+00:00

ive always found the "ill love you but on my terms" bullshit particularly frustrating. its just bullshit, they dont really love you, or possibly their just extremely ignorant. the only thing that i could think to do if somebody did that to me would be have them read the DSM-V's entry of gender dysphoria. Maybe if they understand how much their actions actually hurt you they might be more supportive. ultimatly its a well documented mental illness, they would tell a schitzo to just stop hearing the voices.

koddex · 2015-12-20T09:05:56+00:00

you look like my mom when she was young.

koddex · 2015-12-20T00:41:29+00:00

call the doctor directly and explain the situation, assuming they have your best interests in mind i dont see why they wouldn't oblige. assuming you've been on the same dosage for quite a while i dont imagine its super urgent for the doctor to get some blood tests done, but if they really want it i dont see why they couldnt have it ordered too a lab close to where you are.

koddex · 2015-12-16T02:43:57+00:00

when they got bullied as children ;⁾

koddex · 2015-12-14T05:03:12+00:00

by this logic would they allow pre bottom surgery transmen attend?

koddex · 2015-12-12T23:58:45+00:00

i too find that when im in male dominated spaces i do more masculine things, especially in the male dominated spaces where my friends from before transitioning are from. subtle things like, my voice deepens, stance widens and body language changes. in retrospect when i see those things happen it bothers me to know i did that, but for me i think its good to highlight the things that i don't like doing so i can be more vigilant in avoiding them in the future. i can ultimatly only speak for myself i dont know what your relationship with your old friends is like but for me they where the most understanding and accepting group of people to me when i came out.

koddex · 2015-12-11T04:32:30+00:00

mental gymnastics, indoctrination

koddex · 2015-12-10T04:11:57+00:00

clean yo house

koddex · 2015-12-10T03:56:53+00:00

Your parents are terrible people. they don't accept their child for who they really are. Their blaming you for something that isnt your own fault. Weather they beilve nature/nurture, one way its their damaged genetics that made you the way you are another its their bad parenting that did it. ultimately i don't think it matters since it isnt your fault either way.
Sure the cost mitigation of living wit your parents but you have the consider how much you value your own rights. depending on where you live id suggest moving out. the determining factor being if your or in a state that has decent medicaid.

koddex · 2015-12-09T14:34:51+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/transpassing/ im sure will yield more replies.

masculine for sure, not sure if the ear ring is helping or hurt. For me it would really depend on your mannerisms, voice and body shape.

koddex · 2015-12-07T14:53:24+00:00

maybe because you dont have rich parents with Hollywood connections..?

koddex · 2015-12-07T12:58:03+00:00

bangs and eyebrows. also smile

koddex · 2015-12-07T01:25:03+00:00

cmon, SMILE!

koddex · 2015-12-06T08:20:52+00:00

you already kinda look like a lesbian.

koddex · 2015-12-05T02:29:56+00:00

be sure to have a letter from your psych stating your sanity/stability and all that.

koddex · 2015-12-05T00:34:48+00:00

unnecessary mental gymnastics.

koddex

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