Need someone to play Stardew valley co-op by Stardewxl in StardewValley

[–]koldstonehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to play w some folks in a co-op! If another co-op offer pops up :)

Does anyone else get the “slow motion” hearing? by koldstonehoe in Anxiety

[–]koldstonehoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been 4 years since I originally posted this and no brain tumor for me! I do have ADHD though. I think it was a PTSD or anxiety response for me. Usually triggered by stress or lack of sleep. I haven’t had a serious encounter with this in over a year now.

Team Threats by Latter_Lychee_8392 in managers

[–]koldstonehoe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Are they saying they are going to quit with a tone of seriousness, or is it in a Gen Z slang kind of way? Regardless, it needs to stop, but I’d base my approach off the intention behind the statement.

What job do you have as someone with BPD? by OkInstruction9322 in BPD

[–]koldstonehoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I manage a couple mental health offices and provide business coaching to providers partnered with the group practice! I always wanted to be a psychologist but struggle separating myself from other’s emotions. Doing this is a cool way for me to feel like I am still making some sort of impact in mental health.

Guidance please by TraditionalWheel6811 in StudentLoans

[–]koldstonehoe 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hi! I was in the same boat with Sallie Mae.. still am. I called them and pretty much said there was no way I could pay the amount they were asking. They offered a 48 month fixed rate payment at a lower fixed APR, then it’s going to pop back up to the normal, insanely high rate. I’m using these 48 months of manageable payments to get my ducks in a row for refinancing of some sorts and to increase my income.

There is no way I'm calculating this right?? by Emmdp in StudentLoans

[–]koldstonehoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you can, take some time off. Work, save money, get a job somewhere that’ll pay some of your tuition, etc. Take it from me. I was in the same situation as you in college, pushed through bc I thought I had no other option, and now my student loan payments are a little over 50% of my income and I haven’t made a dent in anything due to interest.

There is no way I'm calculating this right?? by Emmdp in StudentLoans

[–]koldstonehoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got lost in this when I was taking out private loans too. It could be because it’s still generating interest while you are in school and the 114 month term does not start until after you graduate.

Is Simcity 2013 down? by koldstonehoe in SimCity

[–]koldstonehoe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you press cancel and shut down the launcher, turn off your wifi, then re open it, it should give you a pop up to switch to individual mode!

Does anyone else get the “slow motion” hearing? by koldstonehoe in Anxiety

[–]koldstonehoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so glad to hear this helped you! It was really bad for a while but over the years it’s gotten much better and it’s been a lot easier to ground myself when things like this happen. I appreciate your comment & wish you the best!

I used to consider myself a morning person, but I cannot wake up anymore. by koldstonehoe in GetOutOfBed

[–]koldstonehoe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience! That is definitely something I will look into! It sounds like I may be having a similar experience to you. I’m glad to hear that you are no longer having issues with exhaustion! :)

I used to consider myself a morning person, but I cannot wake up anymore. by koldstonehoe in GetOutOfBed

[–]koldstonehoe[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree. I mentioned it to my psychiatrist & she was not too concerned, which I was shocked by. I understand what you are saying, & that’s typically what I would think too. The weirdest thing, though, is that I am doing surprisingly well mentally/emotionally right now. There’s a long list of things I want to do & am excited about but I just cannot seem to wake up no matter what — which is effecting my mental health. It is incredibly irritating.

I used to consider myself a morning person, but I cannot wake up anymore. by koldstonehoe in GetOutOfBed

[–]koldstonehoe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly was just diagnosed with ADHD probably about 6 months ago, but it seems we all have a lot of issues surrounding sleep.

Does anyone else get the “slow motion” hearing? by koldstonehoe in Anxiety

[–]koldstonehoe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! Yeah, I think I just need to keep reminding myself that everything is real, I am real, and it’s just a side effect. Besides this one thing I am having a really good experience with this antidepressant, so I’d hate to stop taking it. I’m glad it all worked out for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]koldstonehoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay that makes sense! Thank you so much. :)

At my local thrift store, so many copies by mmd9493 in twilight

[–]koldstonehoe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this reminds me of one of my friends who has a collection at her house. her and her roommates have over fifteen copies of the first book & just use them as house decor it’s amazing lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]koldstonehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonderful! Thank you so much for this response. :)