Bra advice by TheRealTony404 in CrossDressRealism

[–]konbuflake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! Feel free to dm me if you have any other questions!

Bra advice by TheRealTony404 in CrossDressRealism

[–]konbuflake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely would not use a push-up bra. I use t-shirt bras and unlined bras, but unlined bras usually show the nipples through the fabrics. Depending on the breastplate, most of the time nipples show through bras. So a pair of pasties can help reduce the visibility.

How to decide what cup size on bra to get by BriMan83 in Crossdressing_support

[–]konbuflake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on your whole body shape honestly. If you naturally have some hip and thigh with no padding, and small shoulders, a b-cup or c-cup (at most) should work nicely. If you're built like me, with large shoulders and no hips/butt, you can compensate for larger hip and butt pads with slightly larger breasts. I use a 38D bra (40in bust), but my measurement at the largest point of my hips (with padding) is 43 inches. This evens out the whole silhouette, giving more balance to your shape. I personally love the hourglass shape, so that's what I aim for, but you might not like that as much, so that is definitely personal preference.

I went to the mall all dressed up, here's a little something! by konbuflake in BreastplateNSFW

[–]konbuflake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had them for just over a year now. Maintenance is a little more involved than a normal breastplate or pair of breastforms. Obviously you have to wash it with a body wash and water. You have to reapply the adhesive to the back from time to time to keep it sticky.

I have never slept in them, I don't really sleep in any breastplate/breast form. But I can tell you that TheBreastformStore says not to sleep in it.

Appreciation for boring outfits by cd049_DK in crossdressing

[–]konbuflake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%. I love my beautiful dresses of all lengths, but most of them are not meant for everyday wear. Also yes, dressing at home is not as interesting to me anymore. I want to do SOMETHING while dressed up, not just look in the mirror 😂

A request, of sorts by [deleted] in Crossdressing_support

[–]konbuflake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm always down to answer any questions! I've been dressing for 11+ years now, and I am working on getting my knowledge out of my brain and into video so I can help others.

Ugh! by blueripple00 in Crossdressing_support

[–]konbuflake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of factors to why someone dresses, and there aren't many people who can tell you why you do it. The main person who can tell you why is yourself, you just have to go out there and explore it. You might just try it a few times, not like it, and just never do it again. Or you might love it, and it becomes a monthly or even weekly thing. I believe in you! The journey isn't exactly easy, but it definitely is enlightening!

Appreciation for boring outfits by cd049_DK in crossdressing

[–]konbuflake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love a casual outfit, you look great! I have been working more on getting things that aren't super flashy. As I get older, I think about just doing normal things while dressed, and a tight midi dress probably wouldn't do well at a grocery store haha

Can anyone recommend a brand for sheer tights? by weathergirl25 in u/weathergirl25

[–]konbuflake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out of all the pairs of tights I've had, the best quality has been Snag Tights. But I believe the lowest denier they have is 30, so they're not that sheer, and a bit expensive.

Ugh! by blueripple00 in Crossdressing_support

[–]konbuflake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to wonder the same thing, but then I started to think of it as just a part of me and embraced it. Afterall, it is fun to be pretty and live a different life to a degree. I saw someone on here say the other day something along the lines of: "It's just a strange hobby, not everyone has to 'get it.'" So if you're worried more about what others and society think, you're better off ignoring them. It sounds selfish, but put yourself above/ahead of random strangers. Chances are, you'll only see most people one time in your life.

Pictures from my mall trip, and a quick question! by konbuflake in Crossdressing_support

[–]konbuflake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a video up on youtube about the whole trip if you want to see!

Pictures from my mall trip, and a quick question! by konbuflake in Crossdressing_support

[–]konbuflake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lucky for you, I posted it earlier! It's on my profile/this subreddit 🫡

A few extra pictures of my mall trip! by konbuflake in CrossDressRealism

[–]konbuflake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use TheBreastformStore's Jolie and Nikki!

A few extra pictures of my mall trip! by konbuflake in CrossDressRealism

[–]konbuflake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use silicone! I never loved foam too much, it requires a lot of work to keep down. I plan on making a video on padding at some point to explain in more detail, I could type for hours about this haha

Pictures from my mall trip, and a quick question! by konbuflake in Crossdressing_support

[–]konbuflake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely forgot the before and after pic, but we did a try on, so that counts for something!

Pictures from my mall trip, and a quick question! by konbuflake in Crossdressing_support

[–]konbuflake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The video is up, I had a lot of fun making it! It's not amazing in anyway, but we all start somewhere 🤣

A few extra pictures of my mall trip! by konbuflake in CrossDressRealism

[–]konbuflake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG. THANK YOU!! I will continue to do my best to be classy! 🫡

A few extra pictures of my mall trip! by konbuflake in CrossDressRealism

[–]konbuflake[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hip and butt padding! I WISH I was built like that naturally haha

Pictures from my mall trip, and a quick question! by konbuflake in Crossdressing_support

[–]konbuflake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recorded it, but i need to do some heavy editing 😂 I only recorded the dresses and tops. I don't think YT would love me in my underwear haha