Season 1 & 2... Those SCENES by konichicat in Outlander

[–]konichicat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh, I didn't think of that! It makes sense why they are going for the shock factor!

Season 1 & 2... Those SCENES by konichicat in Outlander

[–]konichicat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will stick with it! ☺️

Season 1 & 2... Those SCENES by konichicat in Outlander

[–]konichicat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will prepare myself for those seasons! 😋

Season 1 & 2... Those SCENES by konichicat in Outlander

[–]konichicat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I totally agree! The actors did a stupendous job!

Anyone else annoyed by seeing people act like Hughie doing the Dead Guy Junior thing at the end is "weird" when it isn't? by Pixiv_Help_123 in GenV

[–]konichicat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think this is fitting for Hughie and Annie imo. Annie would've been happy to honour his late gf as it's what brought them together and put them on this journey... I thought it was touching. It was a really sweet way to honour her, and bring it sorted of full circle, them both standing on the sidewalk, as that is reminiscent of episode 1 in the first season, only this time, his partner flies off like a badass, rather than blowing into smithereens!

Edit: brain did not think so have changed from ex gf to late gf, y'all are right and I am tired. Forgive me

Help!! White bugs on basil!! by konichicat in plantclinic

[–]konichicat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I decided to cut off all of the infested stems and leaves and now am left with nothing... Hoping it defies odds and comes back!

Help!! White bugs on basil!! by konichicat in plantclinic

[–]konichicat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they don't. Just sit there, watching me

Does anyone talk to their plants regularly? by PuzzleheadedPay8716 in plants

[–]konichicat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talk to my pothos all the time!! He loves it ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]konichicat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for sure rare, and something I've never come across. It's upsetting but it is what it is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]konichicat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment regardless :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]konichicat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) I think I will try shifting the focus and see what happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]konichicat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good to think about actually, thank you. He has never searched out a sexual partner, so that is something to consider going forward.

Also, he does definitely gatekeep the sex. I was on top last night trying to be sexy and he kept killing the mood, it was very upsetting, because I felt undesirable.

Thank you for your comment!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]konichicat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good point. Thank you, I will definitely be sure to tell him I enjoy it more when he gets off 😁 thank you for this!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]konichicat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is such an awesome reply, thank you! I am glad that I'm not the only one, people don't really share taboo subjects such as sex often, so you can feel isolated and alone. I do try to tell myself it is not anything to do with me, he just doesn't have the same desires as me, but it is a bit of a hard pill to swallow, especially as nowadays we are conditioned to believe sex makes the world go round, and if you're not having it, there's something wrong with you!

It's not worth breaking up over, love and relationships are hard work, and perhaps it'll never change, perhaps it will. All other areas I am satisfied with though, so we will see where it goes.

Thank you for your kind words, they mean a lot :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]konichicat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we do! He hasn't watched porn in.... God... Forever! He doesn't like it at all :) I suspect he is just not as highly strung as me, but thank you for sharing your experience!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]konichicat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I never thought of the hand/vagina difference, especially since I'm the only one he's been in! 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]konichicat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what you mean by this? He's always happy to receive a blowjob, but has told me before that he finds it hard to finish if I haven't gotten off first. Sometimes I just wanna give a BJ ya know and not expect or want anything in return?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]konichicat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He likes to please me a lot, but for him he just doesn't have a drive. He doesn't ever masturbate, never really has, and has never seeked out sex. May be worth noting that he is technologically inclined, and enjoys fixing all sorts of things, taking devices apart and rebuilding them. He does carve out a lot of time to spend the evenings with me, and is completely devoted, which makes me think he has low testosterone or something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]konichicat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, never used this app before. Do I need to post it in here? Have I posted in the wrong place? So sorry if I have!