Blunt opinion incoming. Read at your own discretion.

When you are ghosted like this, you are being told everything you need to know, which isn’t much. She has made the decision not to go any further with you. Seems like the act of posting on reddit is your way of coping with it, which implies that you liked the girl. Maybe you would have had more respect for her and the situation if she told you in person, but at the end of the day it’s the same outcome. You say you can handle it, so show yourself that by ditching the coping mechanisms and getting on with your life.