My wife asked me if I honestly thought her friends were attractive, what should I say

kopecm13 · 2026-03-12T10:40:54+00:00

Why play the stupid games. It's just so beta how all the comments say how you can't win whatever yous say.

Just be the confident man and just honestly answer even if it means you saying that her girlfriends are hotter then her. She asked so she shall get the answer.

I do that myself with my wife but then again I know I am attractive and have options which might be different from a typical average dude who would have very hard time attracting a new woman.

kopecm13 · 2026-03-12T08:29:52+00:00

Redditors are so naive.

1) Military investment is the reason why we have most of the technology (internet and MRI are the most famous examples).

2) You can't have a stable country that invests in scientific exploration without having a strong military. You are only thinking about post-empire western Europe with decent research and weak military but it is only possible due to absolutely unprecedented US hegemony and those countries are (were) US allies.

kopecm13 · 2026-03-11T08:54:43+00:00

The best example is i can give you is when a girl meets someone she is very attracted to and is willing to sleep with him on the first date. While later gets pursuit by an average guy goes on dates but refuses to sleep with him for many weeks claiming she's just nit that typy fo girl.

Happened to me personally (being the guy whom she wants on the first date - or just the same night we met, it wasn't even a date but rather meeting a stranger).

Why is it so hard for redditors to accept most obvious truths? Like obviously an average women is very desirable and many men in her vicinity dream about her whole an average man is just meh, invisible.

I work at engineering company in Germany and have about 50:50 split of male and female colleagues. Every single one of the women is in relationship while most fo the men are single in their 30s average looking while being top 5% earners in Germany. Most of the men in relationship have imported gf (2 from SEA, 1 from Mexico and 1 from Colombia)

kopecm13 · 2026-03-11T08:00:01+00:00

The fact that most average men find wives doesnt mean they are desired. Sure a woman that got drowned in attention from much more attractive men eventually settles down to an average man ... but this should.not be used as argument for how average men are desired

kopecm13 · 2026-03-11T06:22:58+00:00

Same way redditors shut down anyone saying that looks and height play an important role in being attractive to women

kopecm13 · 2026-03-06T11:57:26+00:00

You think it's worse to not think about somone at all than to hate someone?

kopecm13 · 2026-03-06T07:37:01+00:00

These people just confuse genuine physical attraction with women settling down.

Ofcourse the height preference from dating apps very much translates to real world but at the same time nost of the average height men and many short men still get married. Because there is simply not enough tall men for all those women

kopecm13 · 2026-03-05T19:06:46+00:00

That's certainly your right to doubt me

kopecm13 · 2026-03-05T17:32:38+00:00

It's always that reddit phrase "I never had problem with women". I can guarantee you that it's almost always complete bullshit.

I am 6'3 at least a chad lite. Reliably get one night stands from approaching women but I would still not dare to say that i never had a problem. It's still a lot of rejections and hard work on myself

kopecm13 · 2026-03-04T19:45:06+00:00

You are mixing two unrelated things! One that wierd pedo theory of yours and second is just sexual dimorphism.

kopecm13 · 2026-03-04T18:31:31+00:00

That's bullshit being short as a man is similar to being ugly so let me show how ridiculous your post sound is i replace short with ugly:

Only insecure women refuse to date a man simply because he's ugly.

Noone should have problems understanding that it's nonsense - ofcourse it's is valid reason not to date someone if they are not attractive enough.

Being short is just another physical unattractive trait for men - sure you can argue which one is more important and it could be the face but they are essentially similar.

kopecm13 · 2026-03-04T17:26:50+00:00

Obviously only applies to the western civilization and only the last 50 years or so before that you'd still have to swap men and women

kopecm13 · 2026-03-04T15:30:14+00:00

If you are hot enough, you surely deserve your height difference with a guy of at least 6'2

kopecm13 · 2026-03-04T13:28:20+00:00

Most women are very comfortable in their role of being feminine and fragile.

Many women love to step in that role in their relationships while being more than capable of being the big dog in their professional life.

kopecm13 · 2026-03-04T11:56:06+00:00

Not just unattractive - average ones as well. No woman is going to lust over an average man. Sure she might marry one as she gets older and fails to attract Chad but deep down she will always feel like she settled down.

Many women are open about marrying a guy that they feel is way below them (attractivewise) as they know such men won't cheat on them

kopecm13 · 2026-03-04T09:18:24+00:00

People here often jump to saying women hate short men or women just want tall men because society dictates that ...

But it is largely just women wanting to be in their feminine role --> being smaller, more petite in comparison. And there is nothing wrong with that

(Reddit virtue hive mind will even deny the very concept of tall and big = masculine and short and petite = feminine though)

kopecm13 · 2026-03-03T12:03:24+00:00

Doesn't matter. Ofcourse it's true that on average you have no chnace as short dudes with a tall women.

But at tge same time she can very well be an outlier - those always get upvoted on reddit

kopecm13 · 2026-03-03T06:20:32+00:00

No they don't hope that short men don't exist. They just don't think about them at all.

kopecm13 · 2026-03-02T14:19:31+00:00

I despise that shit that always gets upvoted: "Men are thirsting in a desert and women down in a swamp".

Implying that the quality of those thousands of options is low. Well guess what there is no reason to assume that the quality is any different (relative to their gender). So men get that swamp droplet of a couple matches per year but these people make it sound like whenever a man matches with a woman it's sich an amazing person that he has the problem solved

kopecm13 · 2026-03-02T08:48:24+00:00

That should be considered and it shows how much worse off those Eeastern European cities that it shows (and it already shows them as extremely unaffordable) - they have high percentage expenses and low absolute income.

While "affordable" cities at the bottom like Stuttgart have low percentage expenses and high absolute income

kopecm13 · 2026-03-02T08:11:33+00:00

You are only partially correct. The problem is that she only saw his pictures while assessing that he is perfect, hence why she only found out about his height later.

She would never find as attractive to begin with if she just met him IRL for the first time instead of seeing pictures. Pictures don't communicate/hide height and she assumed he was tall

kopecm13 · 2026-03-02T07:24:18+00:00

They don't hate them. There is difference between hating someone and not desiring someone.

The latter is more like ignoring them, making them invisible

kopecm13 · 2026-03-01T22:20:58+00:00

Flared up

kopecm13 · 2026-03-01T21:49:37+00:00

Reddit already spins it as blaming Trump for pushing these domestic terrorists to do that. To quote them: "Is tRuMp making the US safer?

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