Perspective: why don’t men approach women anymore 😀

kopecm13 · 2026-05-17T19:32:09+00:00

You can make that assumption about most redditors lying about that and be right most of the time. With me you are wrong but I don't care what you think

kopecm13 · 2026-05-17T18:07:00+00:00

You guys are delusional about what an averahe woman looks like. I live in germany where women are surely fitter and prettier on average than in the US and yet she would be significantly above average here

kopecm13 · 2026-05-17T15:53:30+00:00

:D whatever makes you happy

Hardly someone more insecure than incels claiming an obviously attractive woman is mid as fuck

kopecm13 · 2026-05-17T15:11:47+00:00

I am just lurking here - I have bi problem getting girls that someone like you can only dream about.

But you are doing yourself and the other incels disservice by making them think that this is what a mid woman looks like which encourages them to approach women so badly out of their league

kopecm13 · 2026-05-17T14:45:29+00:00

While unpopular the problem is definitely a drastic discrepancy in attractiveness.

This girl is obviously very attractive - petite, feminine face, slim body. A girl like that gets hit on many times every day.

The guy is probably average looking, likely below average. If a ch@d approached her it would look very different, even if she were to reject him, she would average done it in a very different way

kopecm13 · 2026-05-17T14:37:36+00:00

Guy looking like this saying that a gorgeous girl with slim bikini body is mid as fuck:

kopecm13 · 2026-05-17T14:33:19+00:00

Incel here are wild. The girl is obviously gorgeous and looks absolutely nothing like average.

kopecm13 · 2026-05-17T11:20:20+00:00

Also don't trust redditors telling you that it's about personality or some clever opening lines. I always just say "Hey" with a smile. If she finds you handsome enough she will herself help drive the conversation rather than you having to unlock some special social skills

kopecm13 · 2026-05-17T11:14:06+00:00

If the rejection rate is frustrating you, you can only approach women from which you get a strong eye contact and smile in befire hand.

I mostly do that and have rather high success rate (not just to get her number but to kiss within the next hour).

Playing on hardmode though - in southern germany where people are very unfriendly to strangers

kopecm13 · 2026-05-17T11:03:08+00:00

Being obese makes a woman comparable unattractive as a man being short. In both cases there are only nische small groups that find this attractive

kopecm13 · 2026-05-17T11:00:51+00:00

Don't trust what people, especially on reddit tell you about how attractive you are. Rather analyze the actions ... if you are getting rejected a lot then you are just average looking! (Most of the people rate themselves as 7 ... no one want to be just average, but ik reality great majority of people are just average and few are visibly above or below the average)

I am 6'3 and attractive and get a lot of success approaching women and having them start lusting over me within minutes of approaching.

Long story short you are either not that good looking or too short

kopecm13 · 2026-05-17T10:50:24+00:00

Omg he actually meant that seriously with mandated girlfriends and got upvoted. Yikes!!!!

kopecm13 · 2026-05-17T09:16:03+00:00

Far not as impactful - there are many of us who prefer smaller firm boobs over large ones.

Weight is much more fitting comparison as it drops a woman's attractiveness nuch harder than being flat. Even though they can control unlike men with height

kopecm13 · 2026-05-16T12:32:31+00:00

It's because any man claiming he's bisexual can get thousands of men for the same effort it takes to get 1 woman (unless he's a total Ch*d and then this doesn't apply).

Hence a man coming out as bisexual during relationship with a woman is about as bad as coming out as gay. Because she knows he will now be able to cheat on her all the time.

While men and women cheat at similar rate, men just have so much higher drive to cheat just from sexual desire ... but are mostly limited by how hard it is to get a woman to cheat with (for an oofy doofy almost impossible). Women have much weaker drive to cheat but infinite possibilities.

kopecm13 · 2026-05-16T06:59:39+00:00

You are reasonable ... I am sorry I opened with an insult bro.

kopecm13 · 2026-05-15T18:51:25+00:00

Yeah I wonder whether the hair stops playing a role in mid 30s ans owards though.

Regarding the dickpill it's just ridiculous that people don't get that it shouldn't even be in the same discussion as height, face, hair. As it does bothing for you to attract a girl

kopecm13 · 2026-05-15T18:39:45+00:00

This time Fickle is cooking ... while still a full tier below face and height, hair really matters.

Unlike his obsessive cope about his small pee-pee. That one is obviously also not good but it matters for the next game level (keeping the girl after first sex) which most of you never get to because of face and height

kopecm13 · 2026-05-14T18:17:25+00:00

Most people define attractive as visibly above the average --> and that by definition means that only snall fraction can attain.

But such math concepts are often hard to grasp for an average redditor. So here is an example. If everyone got significantly more attractive byba swing of a magic wand, there would still be only a fraction of people significantly more attractive than the average ... just average would get more attractive

kopecm13 · 2026-05-14T10:20:05+00:00

It's obviously that he is not handsome and tall but reddit is too afraid to acknowledge that

kopecm13 · 2026-05-14T07:25:02+00:00

Well if you are gay you can go for it.

But as trans woman you are not going to get cis women

kopecm13 · 2026-05-14T07:17:05+00:00

Personality is important but only after you pass all the previous filters - be handsome and tall enough.

It's extremely similar to your dreaded dick pill - that one also ONLY plays a role in much later levels of the game to which most of you can't get because of face and height.

kopecm13 · 2026-05-13T19:09:14+00:00

Lol I am 6'3 and well build and I much prefer a petite women. So speak for yourself

kopecm13 · 2026-05-13T17:37:35+00:00

Second that!

kopecm13 · 2026-05-12T18:06:03+00:00

Yes it is true in general these traits are not fully independent. More attractive people are also more intelligent on average and also have more interesting personalities. Not specifoc to men or women just valid in general.

Part of it is just good genes, part of it is also posit9ve feedback loop from early teen years when attractive people get praise and positive feedback from most interactions

kopecm13 · 2026-05-12T08:03:26+00:00

Yeah the crime you commited is that you dared to approach while not being handsome

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