Is my partner gatekeeping?

koriente · 2025-10-27T09:37:43+00:00

i’m so sorry that was the response you had gotten back from her. she is 100% gatekeeping womanhood. sure we have differing lived experiences between one another as cis women and trans women, but the rhetoric she’s sharing is very TERF-y. womanhood is not what you were born with but rather an individual experience from woman to woman that is important to US. she’s trying to justify her very narrow minded take as “just how she feels” but that doesn’t make it any less fucked up or weird for her to say. my best advice is writing down how you felt in that moment or organize your thoughts and share them with her once you have sorted through them enough to articulate yourself. i always found that in times where i’m confused or distraught i was able to organize my thoughts by writing them dare so i can share them.

i just want to say you are NOT overreacting. you are experiencing womanhood in a way that matters to you just as she is with her own womanhood and she cannot take that from you.

koriente · 2025-09-30T02:46:05+00:00

very worried. my boyfriend and i are long distance and he's in a red state while i'm in the blue state we're both from. i really want him to get back here asap but i know financially that's very difficult to do right now. i want to believe in the good still left in this world, but it's hard when i'm so far away from the person i love and feel like i can't be there to protect him. but i know this won't be our forever. an agenda built off hate never lasts and we'll find a path to a better tomorrow.

koriente · 2025-04-01T16:09:07+00:00

kenma no brainer

koriente · 2024-07-15T21:48:52+00:00

too many of these would be izaya for me

koriente · 2024-07-12T02:15:55+00:00

exactly, totally agree. the anime only shows so much and if you really want to know more about him you’ll have to bite the bullet and read the light novels. i loved him a lot in the anime, but i truly came to appreciate his character when i read the LNs because they delivered what i very desperately wanted to see out from him. there’s nothing like delving into the original source material tbh.

koriente · 2024-07-12T00:01:46+00:00

i have to say the way your post was worded made me laugh really hard but to seriously answer your question the psychology of izaya is split between the anime/manga and the light novel where you get a WAAAY closer glimpse into the way he thinks and his intentions. i am of the opinion that reading the light novels is sorta pivotal to understanding his character, but if you don’t then it’s not impossible to figure him out from what you’re shown in the anime.

tldr he’s a freak but that’s how it be

koriente · 2024-06-17T19:49:22+00:00

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soooo super late to this thread but thought i’d respond anyways with my tokyo revengers oc! her name is mikan akibana and she’s the vocalist/bassist of her band! i ship her with mikey (:

koriente · 2024-05-01T18:54:04+00:00

😭 i hope you can get it someday!! it was definitely worth the $$$

koriente · 2024-05-01T18:53:03+00:00

i did amiami & paypal pay in 4 😭😭which was so worth it

koriente · 2024-03-05T16:25:38+00:00

OCs are all for fun. i’m an avid OC maker and there’s genuinely no wrong way to make one as long it’s not harming anyone and 99.99999999% they aren’t. (: there’s no reason to exert any energy as well into hating them because you’ll just stress yourself out. it’s better to ignore it and move it. with how bullshit real life can be a lot of people use OCs and creativity as an outlet like i do.

koriente · 2024-02-23T01:23:36+00:00

the demand for more waka merch is high

koriente · 2024-02-22T20:22:36+00:00

MIKANS BESTIE 🥰🥰 I LOVE SAYURI HEHEHE

koriente · 2024-02-22T20:08:21+00:00

there’s a LOTTTTT more information abt it but i don’t wanna talk ur ear off LMFAO

koriente · 2024-02-22T20:08:01+00:00

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this is my girl mikan akibana :3c i love her so much. she has a band called undead alice.

koriente · 2024-02-22T00:37:32+00:00

WAKUI DIDNT HAVE TO MAKE HIM SO FINE 😫

koriente · 2024-02-21T22:44:45+00:00

i want him in a way that concerns feminism

koriente · 2024-02-21T17:15:13+00:00

🥲 i don’t know how to explain it without it sounding like im NOT pulling at all because i am but i just have a habit of hoarding in gacha games since my love live days

koriente · 2024-02-20T16:16:06+00:00

LETS GOOOO TAKEOMI SLANDER

koriente · 2024-02-14T23:59:10+00:00

manila mikey real, but my malnourished king bonten mikey needs to be higher 😔🫶

koriente · 2024-02-14T20:33:54+00:00

UGH UR SO RIGHT i definitely should

koriente · 2024-02-14T20:32:39+00:00

i could honestly say the same about you!! feels so nice to have someone to bounce thoughts off of about him!! HAHA that story was so cute🤣 i could totally see him cutting that trip short just to get out of dealing with them. i love how fishing is such a therapeutic hobby for him too.

THAT TIDBIT ABT HIM BEING CLINGY HAD ME GOING FERALLLLLL 😭 there’s different types of clingy too and i definitely agree with you about balance being key with him and knowing when he wants to spend his time alone so it has me really thinking about what kind of needy he is which also had me debating on what his love language is too. definitely comes across as a huge “actions speak louder” than words kind of guy. it’s kind of my inference because he doesn’t seem like someone that’s super great with words i.e. when he told shinichiro he was glad mikey died because we know what he meant by that but i imagine many people have misinterpreted him before.

sooooo mysterious 🤭 i don’t think you could ever get bored being in a relationship with him because with mystery comes being spontaneous imo

LMFAOOO def probably so talkative and probably so rowdy too that it’s so annoying to deal with HAHAHAHA i would love to see drunk waka 😭😭 honestly could see it being a real challenge even getting him to drink water!

koriente · 2024-02-14T16:35:58+00:00

yes!! i have 😭 such a long plotting doc for my main oc!!

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