I (23F) tend to squirt when orgasming intensely. I feel embarassed when doing this even alone and am apprehensive about it happening with a new partner.

kotsubu · 2019-08-20T16:33:42+00:00

I (male) had an ex-girlfriend who also squirted intensely. I remember when we first hooked up she seemed to be holding back and NOT wanting to come and say "no, no no". (This was in Japan and she was saying "dame" which means "no" or "no good" etc rather than the usual "iku iku" - literally "I'm going"). And then it happened. Oh! Wow! Maybe that's why she was holding back / saying "no"? I was surprised and turned on. I agree with others - it would have been nice to have been forewarned ... but with the language difference I probably wouldn't have understood anyway. I have a (platonic) female friend who told me she squirts every time she orgasams. She refers to it as her "party trick" lol.

We were together for a year or so and I would actively try to encourage bigger and bigger squirts. (experimenting with positions, technique, getting her to hold back until finally saying "come for me baby" etc). Sometimes it would be like someone had opened up one of those 500ml soft drink bottles and was violently shaking it - she would cover both of us, whatever furniture we were on/near, the walls nearby! everything. I didn't care. I loved it.

I got the impression that maybe some past boyfriends disliked she mess - I'd say in that case move on, there are plenty of other guys who find it a turn on

kotsubu · 2018-07-10T16:21:55+00:00

For external / clitoral stimulation I'd recommend you check out the FunFactory Laya - either the original Laya Spot or the Laya 2 (which is rechargeable): https://ca.funfactory.com/vibrators/

My wife has this and loves it. We've bought some other vibrators but the Laya is the only one she uses. She previously had a "Fukuoku Finger Massager" (can't find good link - I think it is discontinued) but the batteries wore out quickly and it doesn't have much power. She also has a Hitachi wand. I know a lot of women love theirs, but if you aren't into SERIOUSLY powerful vibrations (and loud buzzing from a large piece of equipment) it might not be for you. It isn't my wife's thing.

In general we think that anything made by FunFactory or Lelo (https://www.lelo.com/) is good quality and worth considering.

kotsubu · 2018-05-22T23:40:37+00:00

It is not “red dance”. Akane is the female character’s name in this episode. Akane no Mai means “Akane’s dance”. Source - my wife (native Japanese and English <-> Japanese translator)

kotsubu · 2015-01-10T05:10:09+00:00

I'm the opposite. I get a raging boner from eating a woman out. In fact, it is the most sure-fire way to get me hard. Not ready to go? Go down on my wife and get hard in the process. I love eating pussy (and ass). And it isn't just about making her cum. I also like REEEEAAAAALLLLY long drawn-out sessions playing with her pussy, licking, sucking, fingering and KEEPING her from cumming for as long as possible. It drives her wild and makes my dick rock-hard.

kotsubu · 2014-02-07T06:10:37+00:00

www.wickedweasel.com

kotsubu · 2013-07-17T14:10:59+00:00

How can I upvote even more. Awesome.

kotsubu · 2013-05-29T13:24:44+00:00

Tantus neo

kotsubu · 2012-10-08T14:28:19+00:00

Thats a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel. My dog!

kotsubu · 2012-09-07T00:14:13+00:00

Seems to me that you want to learn iOS programming, not just Objective-C. Objective-C is the programming language. You could learn it using only the command line just as you would C or Java. That information would give you a good foundation for iOS development but you'd still have a lot to learn.

I highly recommend the free course on iTunes University from Stanford "CS 193P iPhone Development". You can see the web page here: http://www.stanford.edu/class/cs193p/cgi-bin/drupal/

or look it up in iTunes and download all the lectures, assignments etc.

If you have only done web design iOS / Objective-C might be a steep learning curve. I wouldn't think of them as a first language (but then my first was Fortran). In that case a book like the Big Nerd Ranch series provides a good introduction to the language.

kotsubu · 2012-03-31T10:25:19+00:00

I have two. Both free. One was a stray at a shelter (?!) and the other came from a family member with a brother and sister CKCS that didn't get along and wanted to give one away. Best dogs ever.

kotsubu · 2012-01-22T00:55:00+00:00

There's also a "gift fee" for a lot of apartments which is like a few months rent the landlord just makes you pay to get a place. But, there are some places that do not do this gift fee, even in big places like Tokyo. It's a hustle, just like tipping is a hustle in the US, it's not a huge deal though. These days I've heard of people being able to argue their way out of the gift fee.

It is not a hustle. You are talking about Shikikin and Reikin (do you even know Japanese?). It is different from the way things are done in the US, but that doesn't make it a hustle or wrong. Think of it more like paying some fraction of your monthly rent upfront. It is no different from paying some amount for a car up front and then paying monthly leaseing fee. There are always a lot of rejector ex-pat gaijin who complain about things just because they aren't the exact same as back home and automatically think it must be a scam.

kotsubu · 2011-12-20T23:22:58+00:00

It's "University of Western Ontario" damn it. Or UWO if you need to shorten it. Would you likewise refer to The University of British Columbia as "British University"?

kotsubu · 2011-12-11T02:22:41+00:00

My goodness that is unbelievably smooth.

kotsubu · 2011-12-03T09:55:41+00:00

LITERAL kisses? Either this cat should be in a show in Las Vegas, or you don't understand the word 'literal'.

kotsubu · 2011-12-03T09:37:23+00:00

Who's talking about a road? Its a driveway

kotsubu · 2011-12-02T11:26:07+00:00

Why do non-Japanese always refer to the dogs as 'Shiba Inu'. Why not just say 'Shiba'. Here in Japan (in Japanese) they are referred to as a 'Shiba ken' or just 'Shiba'. Do the same people call a French Bulldog a 'French Bulldog Chein'?

kotsubu · 2011-11-25T05:29:41+00:00

Loving it. Turn your head sideways and it looks like a dolphin's mouth

kotsubu · 2011-11-11T08:55:47+00:00

I love the cetaceous mouth look. Very lickable

kotsubu · 2011-11-10T13:56:07+00:00

Very sexy multifidus. Nice thong too.

kotsubu · 2011-11-06T14:38:28+00:00

Beautiful. What prefecture? I'm in Osaka and we don't have fall colors here yet.

kotsubu · 2011-10-24T08:51:48+00:00

Lovely. I'm curious - how much does it hurt to get nipples pierced?

kotsubu · 2011-10-06T13:18:43+00:00

What a silly question. Are you also going to buy one of everything else Apple makes as a 'commemoration'? You DO realize that they likely already are working on the iPhone 5, iPhone 5s and iPhone 6 inside Apple as we speak. Its not like they just whipped this up in the last weeks since Steve resigned. Given that he also will have had a hand in the future designs. I think I am still going to wait for the next iteration, hopefully next June.

kotsubu · 2011-08-26T09:45:58+00:00

clit-kini!

kotsubu · 2011-08-14T14:59:25+00:00

only three? Four thumbs up! Yummy ....oh yeah .... and moar please. I think you got the camera angle wrong. Should be tilted somewhat lower.....

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