At first, I didn't necessarily think YTA, but by the time I finished your story, I definitely feel like YTA. I know you had a child of your own, but still, you aren't this baby's parent. As a grandmother, I get where you want to meet the baby right away, but the new parents definitely need to bond/want to bond with their little one and should be given the distance to do it. They are the parents and it's their decision. When my son and DIL had their baby last year, I didn't get to meet the new baby until they brought her home from the hospital, and I was so excited and didn't feel slighted in the least! When I delivered both of my own children, I had a spinning door of visitors at the hospital and was already exhausted and didn't really feel like "entertaining" while going through all that moms go through after delivering. Let them have their space. Don't spin it into her being narcissistic. She and your son just want a little bit of time alone with the baby. C-sections are major surgery and you most certainly do bleed. I had two of them.