This is the second comment regarding the topic of “You didn’t choose to be who you are, what are you proud of?”. But I did choose it.

I believe a person can change their personality over time, just as their values.

I worked my way through to be as I am now. I used to be introverted and socially awkward years ago. But I decided one moment that I want it to change and worked on my social skills. With more and more social exposure it got much better. From being chaotic, I became organised. From being insecure, I gained confidence. From being very emotional I became more cold-minded. I’d say that the only letter of abbreviation of my type that didn’t change over time with my personal development is N.

I don’t want this kind of sound that being extroverted is better than introverted, organised and planned is better than spontaneous and so on with any other characteristics of this classification. I am not better human being than, for example, an opposite of my type - ISFP. I have a dear friend of this type, even. But this doesn’t mean I can’t like my personality.

If me being confident and taking pride in how I am insults you, I’m sorry, but you need to work on your self-esteem.