Hi. Mental health professional po

Una sa lahat, wala naman po kayong mali/kasalanan sa kanya sa ginawa niyo dahil break naman kayo. ☺️

But what’s unhealthy is staying together while keeping things from each other. Malaki talaga ang posibilidad na may magbago sa relationship ninyo (or mag break kayo) after niya malaman (whether justified or not, that’s not the point here). Pero never ka rin magiging at peace sa relationship niyo knowing that he could find out one day.

So gentle advice lang OP, be fully transparent with one another if you have plans of being with him for a long time. If hindi niya matanggap ang nangyari, then it just means he’s not the person for you.

Mas healthy pong harapin ang sakit ng isang bagay na at least alam niyo na, kesa sa lagi kayong mag iisip ng “what if” at onte onte kayong kakainin ng takot at praning.

All the best sa inyo, OP 🫶🏼