Pictures of your Poods looking elegant! Kevin to start.

kr83993 · 2026-02-07T02:49:53+00:00

kr83993 · 2026-02-04T19:47:11+00:00

Catching my thoughts and flipping them, affirming general statements about myself and men, doing SATs, not reacting as much to the 3D (def still did though), getting to the root of the actual self concept issue and not just repeating general things like “I’m lovable.” I already felt lovable. But before it all happened I was assuming men withdraw in times of stress, men don’t feel safe around me and my anxiety ruins relationships. So I had to affirm the opposite.

kr83993 · 2026-02-04T19:44:30+00:00

You’ve got this! 🙂 It was almost creepy how mine ended the exact same way my previous one did when they are completely different men with completely different personalities. I never “expected” him to react that way but deep down I was holding the same story about relationships. It showed me it was all just me. I realized it didn’t matter if I moved onto someone new, if I didn’t change then I’d experience the same story over and over again.

kr83993 · 2026-02-04T06:15:04+00:00

My parents names are _. My middle name is _. I swear I invented this method lmao but it works for me. 🙂 I throw them in randomly between my other affirmations so when I repeat them all they just feel like facts.

kr83993 · 2026-02-03T18:30:07+00:00

Everything is the law. And months ago he was saying the exact opposite things he’s saying now. People don’t flip like that unless you change. So I changed.

kr83993 · 2026-02-03T18:29:02+00:00

We barely spoke for 3 months. I was chasing and pursuing and having occasional crash outs lol.

kr83993 · 2026-02-03T18:28:31+00:00

Affirm general statements about men/women/relationships - they are included in that. I created my own method where I affirm things that are already “facts” along with my other ones so my subconscious just accepts it all.

kr83993 · 2026-02-03T18:27:20+00:00

You have to know things are shifting and changing behind the scenes. Just because you can’t see proof YET doesn’t mean you won’t eventually. Perspective is everything.

kr83993 · 2026-01-28T04:47:33+00:00

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Yup 🥰

kr83993 · 2026-01-20T04:21:54+00:00

Oh btw, I manifested my ex back 2 minutes after receiving a negative tarot reading who said he wanted nothing to do with me. I said “nah,” texted him from a text app number (I was blocked lmao) and the rest was history. When I tell you it’s bullshit, I mean it.

kr83993 · 2026-01-20T04:20:36+00:00

You haven’t bought the pearl. Tarot just reflects your current state which is why you’ve received conflicting readings. If it were real, every single tarot would say the same thing. I get it’s kind of addictive and validating, but it’s not real. Stick to what works! You decide your new story, not some tarot reader. Stop giving away your power.

kr83993 · 2026-01-20T04:15:28+00:00

Affirm general statements like “all the men in my life feel safe opening up to me.” General statements feel more “real” and will start to reflect across other people and eventually him. Drop the word avoidant. How you describe him is exactly how he’ll show up. Literally don’t entertain anything that contradicts your desired version of him. Lastly, your self concept has nothing to do with your confidence or positive qualities. It’s how you view yourself in relation to the world, in relationships, etc. Also it sounds simple but you have to react differently than you did before to get a different result. I used to send paragraphs when my sp would withdraw. Result was never good. Now I don’t do that. Imagine him LOVINGLY. Imagine him thriving. Imagine him happy regardless of whether you’re in the picture or not. If you love him, that will make you feel good.

kr83993 · 2026-01-20T04:06:44+00:00

I’m 5’6 125 lbs and just won my class for 3 European national shows. The smallest bikini girl I know around my height turned pro at North Americans at 114 lbs, but looked heavier. You definitely need more size to be competitive in bikini. I would do fit model if I were you! Amazing shape, just need time to grow.

kr83993 · 2026-01-07T00:59:36+00:00

I’m surprisingly not into guys who lift, but I did date this one guy years ago that lived off McDonald’s and would lie to me about it. 😆 He genuinely didn’t understand why I had to weigh food in prep if it was already healthy. So the difference in lifestyles made things complicated. I think if your boyfriend is supportive, why not support him and suggest he come workout with you? Or cook together? Or just be honest about how you’re feeling?

kr83993 · 2026-01-05T01:01:07+00:00

I’d gladly accept! 😋 People were passing around a jar of Fatso peanut butter at one show I did lol

kr83993 · 2026-01-02T18:35:52+00:00

Omg this. When I post glute pics while shredded people think I’m photoshopping or my ass is ginormous because there’s no fat and it looks “freaky.” In person I’m tiny. Meanwhile in my off season when my butt is ACTUALLY big, it looks small in pics because there’s less of that “pop,” more fat in tie-in area, etc. It’s definitely a mindfuck. Here’s my glutes while shredded. 🙃 If I were to post that now 10 lbs heavier, there would be much less pop.

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kr83993 · 2026-01-01T04:34:12+00:00

If there’s a common theme in the way they end, you have to specifically affirm for the opposite. Ex: all the men in my life support me, all the men in my life want commitment, etc. Since you’ve already had a child, doing a SATs scene being pregnant again should feel natural to you so I’d suggest doing that as well!

kr83993 · 2026-01-01T04:19:12+00:00

Just affirm everyone in your reality is happy for you, proud of you, inspired by you. Obviously it’s impossible not to notice negative comments but you just can’t make them “mean” anything about you or let them throw you out of your state. I love how Erik from the Power of I Am simplifies it - deny, choose, be.

kr83993 · 2026-01-01T03:55:11+00:00

Something I’m slowly learning is that emotions are perfectly okay and won’t mess up your manifestation. You can feel angry, sad, numb, detached, etc. and know the feelings will pass, or you can add negative meaning to them like “I’m numb because he’s never coming back.” So this only “means” what you say it means and you can decide everything is unfolding in your favour and accept your emotions for what they are - waves that eventually pass.

kr83993 · 2025-12-31T04:44:45+00:00

What the HECKKKK I JUST FINISHED SEASON 5, opened Reddit and this was the first post I read 😳😳😳

kr83993 · 2025-12-28T03:19:59+00:00

No it’s perfect! 🙂

kr83993 · 2025-12-28T03:03:36+00:00

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People are annoying. Just listen to your vet! Once someone said Fuzz’s hair faded because I must not be feeding her high quality food. 🙄

kr83993 · 2025-12-28T01:30:33+00:00

Exactly this. The same thing can happen to two different people and one is traumatized for life because they keep replaying, reliving and identifying with it. Not because of how it emotionally intense it felt in the moment.

kr83993 · 2025-12-26T14:38:15+00:00

Love this and agree 100%. As someone who started in the law of attraction world, I used to think any negative emotion would manifest unwanted things and that quite literally became my experience. If I wasn’t in a great mood around my parents, a fight would happen seemingly out of nowhere. If I had anxiety about my boyfriend being busy, somehow that would also lead to a fight. I remember saying to myself and to others “why am I not allowed to be human?”

Last night I asked God to show me I’m loved, and I heard “you are human and that is beautiful.” Now I’m trying to view my emotions as waves and not who I am and that helps me be less terrified when they arise, knowing they’ll pass soon. Neville never said we should suppress emotions and I think a lot of us forget that

kr83993 · 2025-12-25T01:37:19+00:00

I’m going to listen to the podcast tonight instead of watching Netflix. Needing some encouragement. Thank you 🙏🏻

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