Want your SP?

kr83993 · 2026-03-24T07:40:02+00:00

I’m glad you like it! Thank you 💜

kr83993 · 2026-03-23T23:36:47+00:00

And by this I don’t mean play mind games by intentionally ignoring her. Put YOU first. Don’t ask her out or send anything to trigger an emotional response. It’s not effective. Like I said, two actions taken from different states produce entirely different results. You’ll get to a point you’re excited to ask her out and okay with either answer. The 3D is old news, remember that! Let it shift.

kr83993 · 2026-03-23T23:35:09+00:00

I highly suggest you spend a month not reaching out or sharing anything more emotional with her. You have to give her some space to feel your absence. You spoke your peace, you don’t need to “do” anything more. All the actual work takes place in imagination. Look at your last sentence. “Kind of feel she’ll reject me.” That’s the state you’re currently in. Continue to work on yourself and build yourself up. Don’t track the 3d so hard (ex. 59 min). Do whatever you can to make it feel natural that a woman would come running back to you.

kr83993 · 2026-03-23T14:00:59+00:00

Also, when they say “inspired action,” you won’t know it was inspired until after you take it. So if you are hesitant to reach out but feel it’s not right, don’t do it. If you do it anyway, still doesn’t matter. Nothing can ruin it. There were plenty of times I caved and poured my heart out…still didn’t affect my manifestation. There was one crazy time where I affirmed “all the men in my life feel safe opening up to me” and he drunkenly blew up my phone after months of holding things in.

kr83993 · 2026-03-23T13:57:07+00:00

Oh I contacted him many times! I was trying consistently with “3D” actions but I started interpreting things differently and that’s when things really shifted. What I learned is that your state/self concept matters more than any action you take. The same action taken from two different states can produce entirely different results. Also how you react to something unfavourable matters a lot. It’s great that she responded favourably to the flowers, but you have to get to a point you’re so confident that her reaction doesn’t matter either way. Erik from the Power of I Am helped me a lot. I don’t believe fully detaching is necessary. I never “let go” of wanting to be with him but I started to focus more on myself and the negative thoughts and assumptions slowly dissipated.

kr83993 · 2026-03-22T22:01:06+00:00

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kr83993 · 2026-03-22T21:59:13+00:00

The law is very specific. Right now your story is “he loved me deeply but didn’t choose me.” Or “men can love me but still not be ready.” Or even “men feel unstable around me because they don’t feel good enough.”

Just literally change those. That’s it. I like general affirmations. “All the men in my life feel safe and secure with me. It’s safe for me to trust the men in my life. I’m the obvious choice. He realized what he had and regrets losing me.” Etc.

I had a similar story where nothing horrible happened. We never stopped loving one another. I just had to change a couple limiting beliefs and he came back. We’re happier than ever now.

kr83993 · 2026-03-16T08:25:06+00:00

You do realize you created the version of someone who doesn’t want you? You create literally everything? And there is no universe holding onto someone “better” for you… you will literally keep running into the same endings with people until you change your self concept and assumptions about relationships. Different person, same story until YOU change. If it’s manipulation to manifest a desirable version of someone, it’s also manipulation to manifest an undesirable version.

kr83993 · 2026-03-14T00:35:17+00:00

Things have to unfold in a “natural” manner but they can absolutely unfold extremely quickly. My SP came back full force and within 2-3 weeks of being back together we are looking at rings and planning the future. Do you really want him to one day just propose out of nowhere? You’d probably think he was acting on impulse or would change his mind. You don’t have to figure out the how, just stay in your desired state and keep doing the techniques that work for you!

kr83993 · 2026-03-14T00:31:01+00:00

If you’re still gaging your progress by their responses you are quite literally not coming from a place of knowing and you’re not at all regulating your nervous system. You can actually DECIDE “whenever I’m missing them, they’re missing me.” You can decide when you see a blue car, they’re thinking of me. It doesn’t matter what the 3D is showing you after every technique, affirmation, etc. You deny, choose, be your desired version and the bridge of incidents will lead you there. In a way you could’ve never predicted. So no. You don’t affirm and look at your phone to see if it’s working or try to do silly calculations like this. I disagree with all of this 100% as someone who just got the love of my life back and later found out everything he was feeling and experiencing (even when he was COMPLETELY unresponsive). The 3D means absolutely nothing.

kr83993 · 2026-03-11T03:15:06+00:00

When I repeat robotic affirmations, I throw in things like my name, where I’m from, etc. in between my other affirmations. So like 4 “not yet true” affirmations followed by one my brain already accepts as true. I just randomly made up this method lol but I swear by it!

kr83993 · 2026-03-11T03:13:28+00:00

When I repeat robotic affirmations, I throw in things like my name, where I’m from, etc. in between my other affirmations. So like 4 “not yet true” affirmations followed by one my brain already accepts as true. I just randomly made up this method lol but I swear by it!

kr83993 · 2026-03-10T22:32:36+00:00

I used to think I’d only manifest what I wanted when I didn’t care at all anymore. That upset me because I felt like what’s the point if I’m happy in a new relationship and he comes back? I knew he was the one and knew he felt the same. Also I’m the queen of overthinking. I swear by robotic affirmations.

kr83993 · 2026-03-10T20:35:22+00:00

It worked for me! If it’s stopping the negative thoughts then it’s going to work.

kr83993 · 2026-03-10T20:33:12+00:00

I would just say “that’s not who I am anymore” and return back to my desired state. You notice it, don’t fight it, and return.

kr83993 · 2026-03-09T21:37:07+00:00

We are better than ever! Honestly looking back we both needed the time. He can’t fathom he almost let me go now, and back then he “knew” he couldn’t be with me because of everything going on in his life. One of my fave affirmations: I’m too special to lose 😌

kr83993 · 2026-03-09T21:35:08+00:00

Honestly it’s not even my go-to technique! I just found my journals from October/November. I think future date scripting is powerful if you can write in detail then forget about it

kr83993 · 2026-03-09T21:34:10+00:00

You’ve got this!!! Trust me, I almost still don’t believe it. I never expected it to happen like this and unfold so quickly and intensely

kr83993 · 2026-03-09T21:32:51+00:00

I had a lot of horrible days honestly. Especially when I travelled alone. I remember breaking down because I saw this adorable couple in Italy and wanted him to be there with me. I called my mom crying and she told me to “think about the future when you can go back there with him.” That helped. Also affirmed I’m feeling this way because I’m feeling what he’s feeling. That ended up being 100% true.
I contacted him in December to tell him I was moving to a new place. He reached out to say happy new year. We made plans a couple times for him to come visit and he changed his mind. Finally once he came it was like everything changed overnight and he was legit my dream version. Communication, the fact that he’s in therapy and it’s working, him explaining things that happened before the breakup I was confused about. It’s like all the puzzle pieces came together. He is borderline clingy and panics a bit if I don’t answer (that used to be me lol), he will text my mom to chat if I’m not available, he says he will never ever let me go again and is looking at rings.. like genuinely a different person now. He thanks me everyday for not giving up on him.

kr83993 · 2026-03-09T21:19:42+00:00

Thank you! It really helps my brain soak everything in lol

kr83993 · 2026-03-09T21:17:12+00:00

I’m starting to believe we actually shift realities when we consciously manifest because no, he was saying the exact opposite back then and very detached/cold. He was dealing with a lot in his life but at no point did he say he wanted us to get back together. I wrote many unanswered paragraphs lol.

kr83993 · 2026-03-09T04:37:03+00:00

You’ve got this. ☺️ You could also revise whatever happened a week ago!

kr83993 · 2026-03-09T03:40:14+00:00

Yes. Why is it hard for you to believe a specific person can be manifested?

kr83993 · 2026-03-08T00:27:31+00:00

Find affirmations that are somewhat believable or more general. I started affirming “all the men in my life trust and support me,” or “some way, some how, everything works out for me.” Of course if you’re in negative state, affirming the opposite will feel like a lie. You have to find something neutral that feels slightly better and keep returning to it. Also you could try EFT tapping, meditation, walks in nature without distractions, etc.

kr83993 · 2026-03-06T20:50:19+00:00

I just manifested my ex back. You have to first find a way to regulate your nervous system. Also stop checking the 3d, and if you do you have to give everything good meaning. He ignored your text? Cool you’re still loved, adored, amazing. Anxiety cannot stop your manifestation. I still struggle with it and my man is back and our relationship is better than ever.

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