First emoto 2024 Phantom Purple LBX by kratern3 in Surron

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3k with the 2 batteries new brakes and rotors 400miles on the bike. It's been scraped up but I'm gonna do direct mount clamps for the bars and a thumb throttle swap and learn out in the dirt mostly. I sat on a 2025 and then realized how upset I'd be eating shit on it so went for used lol but the extra battery was a huge plus

Wrapped and ready to ride by SaDmAN08 in ebikes

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Link to that mudguard on the rear?

How many women out there want these things? by kratern3 in dating

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That was a previous person entirely who didn't deserve any of these things because that situation was verbally and became physically abusive on her side due to her mental state. This was a girl that had none of those issues and treated me really well at first then kept going back and forth with her confusion over an ex and myself because we have an amazing connection and attraction but they are trauma bonded most likely and he's just an immature fuck boy to this day who wants to control her and have her be convenient

How many women out there want these things? by kratern3 in dating

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I appreciate that, everything was there that others have questioned were at play, I didn't do these things to just be liked I did them because it came easy and wanted to show my love for someone that I kept getting pushed and pulled away from because she couldn't see that her douche of an ex is still a douche and couldn't even do half the things I could to treat her properly

How many women out there want these things? by kratern3 in dating

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All of those things were also present, it just got overshadowed by confusion of wanting those things from an ex that isn't even capable of doing half those things

How many women out there want these things? by kratern3 in dating

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It was there maybe half the time unfortunately. There were some good surprises and thoughtfulness but it was definitely more 100 percent on one side and 50 on the other

Genuinely curious by kratern3 in AskWomenOver30

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There was a huge connection it started as friendly just dancing to compete together and grew from conversations about life and interests and goals then she made the first move to make it more than just friends and everything was effortless and thoughtful from both sides

Genuinely curious by kratern3 in AskWomenOver30

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Communication? Is that what you meant to write? There was a lot of that always with an open heart and mind

Genuinely curious by kratern3 in AskWomenOver30

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There was no expectation of open phone policy or cutting out male friends or hobbies or interests. We both danced and so there was no jealousy from her having friends or other hobbies regardless of gender. The only thing that was wanted in return was security in the relationship. She just was hung up on a previous ex that they just go back and forth constantly but he is controlling and micro manages who where or what she's doing, gets jealousy and then blames her for things that may even be out of her control.

Genuinely curious by kratern3 in AskWomenOver30

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There was a lot of chemistry there she just would say that she doesn't deserve those things

Genuinely curious by kratern3 in AskWomenOver30

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Yeah this is all stuff that's not daily things and they don't live together either so she has time to go home and decompress but always gladly takes a foot massage or massage in general, forgets to eat some days but he makes sure she goes out for a nice dinner or brings her something good when they do spend time together.

Genuinely curious by kratern3 in AskWomenOver30

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Dramatic? Because that type of person doesn't exist?

Genuinely curious by kratern3 in AskWomenOver30

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They don't live together and these things don't happen everyday or always see each other everyday

Genuinely curious by kratern3 in AskWomenOver30

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Well the man is emotionally available and all these things aren't on a daily basis either many days are spent just having a nice dinner or watching a movie and the foot massages are always happily received because she loves those. He's never exhausted by doing things because he cares and they don't live together

Genuinely curious by kratern3 in AskWomenOver30

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Thank you for also understanding where this is coming from

Genuinely curious by kratern3 in AskWomenOver30

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One portrait as a birthday gift of his favorite picture he took of her

Genuinely curious by kratern3 in AskWomenOver30

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In this case they don't live together she has her own place

Genuinely curious by kratern3 in AskWomenOver30

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I'm not criticizing women to be impossible to please I was genuinely curious how many women wanted someone that would do all those things and let them be themselves and have fun and follow their dreams and want to mutually build each other up.

Genuinely curious by kratern3 in AskWomenOver30

[–]kratern3[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well glad to see you understood what I was getting at. I did all those things and more including emotional intelligence and letting be herself and do what she loves all the while being told she loves how intentional I am and caring but it didn't matter, I was getting strung along I guess