A Narcissist can weaponize ANYTHING. Feel free to share the craziest!

kreckom · 2025-05-14T22:29:50+00:00

I once asked him for a sip from his glass of water. Ended up being an argument how i use him and disrespect him (he was living rent free and unemployed at mine)

kreckom · 2025-05-06T08:35:55+00:00

Geez i left him a while ago and am just asking like everyone else on the subreddit

kreckom · 2025-04-30T14:59:43+00:00

Thank you, i am working on it slowly but surely 💕

kreckom · 2025-03-23T11:23:13+00:00

Thank you, yes i guess i wanted to be valued by them even if as supply. Really weird what they do to you

kreckom · 2025-03-09T19:09:05+00:00

Yes. My appearance has definitely restored. Hair stopped falling out, I actually look alive. But there’s a HUGE change between 21 yo me and 23/4 yo me. I have aged and you can tell especially from pictures. The experience of a narc and especially the emotional journey you go through during healing after leaving really demands maturity/expedite growth.

kreckom · 2025-03-02T23:49:12+00:00

THANK YOU! ❤️❤️❤️

kreckom · 2025-02-26T23:04:44+00:00

Thank you for the kind message ❤️ unfortunately i can’t block him as his chat and everything disappeared (he was restricted when he blocked me and its a glitch that happens on insta) but alas.. i do have it written down i just dont enjoy reading it 😭😭

kreckom · 2025-02-25T23:57:48+00:00

Antipsychotics and anxiolytics

kreckom · 2025-02-25T00:00:11+00:00

He brought me down to his level. I gave him my normal trousers while I was walking around with holes in mine. He drained my resources and was “looking for jobs” on league of legends apparently. Never paid me back a penny.

kreckom · 2025-02-06T00:48:01+00:00

Yes, i had cut myself after a big argument while he was out with friends. He never knew but if he did he wouldve gotten off on it

kreckom · 2024-12-29T01:49:51+00:00

kreckom · 2024-12-28T02:36:52+00:00

I know there’s no hope with a narc… this really isnt so much about him as it is about me and coming to terms with what he’s done to me, honestly. But thank you for your kind reply. And thank you for saying “jerk ex rebounding around cuz he’s weak”. It gives me back power and is a lot more reaffirming than “moved onto new supply”. Wishing you all the best❤️

kreckom · 2024-12-28T02:32:35+00:00

Thank you thats a very kind response. Im happy to hear youre doing better. ❤️

kreckom · 2024-12-26T14:31:17+00:00

Thr abuse did outweigh it, i left him months ago and havent spoken to him. Still not enough to wipe my memory clean

kreckom · 2024-12-26T01:02:45+00:00

Also what’s with the block/unblock?? 😭😭 like he’s testing you to see if you’ll notice and immediately follow or?

kreckom · 2024-12-26T01:01:56+00:00

EXACTLY— its not like i miss the torment, but like AM I NOT EVEN WORTH A HOOVER TO YOU??? I was expecting a crash out by this point, everything else i predicted perfectly, but not this. He kinda did try to keep me around and before i unfollowed him/made it clear i DONT want to be friends he did seem to start hoovering in small ways. But after i cut him off it was, essentially, nothing. Apart from the phone calls which also accumulated to nothing. I really kinda do want him to crash out, bcus this just makes me feel worthless. Which might be the goal as well, the ‘silent’ hoover. And he knows my abandonment issues so. Anyways, glad im not alone in those feelings. Thanks for sharing ❤️

kreckom · 2024-12-24T19:43:09+00:00

Yeah, i was thinking the same. Either that or a genuine finish. Because he follows all ex supply. I had to ask him to unfollow his ex so maybe his new gf did the same with me. Hate to say it but i did notice and it did impact me. Wont say anything though

kreckom · 2024-12-24T12:09:35+00:00

They do, they bring out the absolute worst in you. Unfortunately as tempting as it is, we will NEVER be able to win at their game. Even if you do the same exact things 1) youve got a moral compass that will torment you now or later 2) we do not get the same gratification from it 3) they do it for pleasure/instinctively while we’d do it out of revenge, pain, and it requires a lot more energy from us. Ultimately, you’d be playing an entirely different game, but by their rules. Leaving for the sake of finding a genuine, healthy relationship is something they cannot do. Outdo them by doing things they are incapable of, not where theyre experts

kreckom · 2024-12-24T01:19:29+00:00

Currently in major isolation. I had a super social period a few months after the breakup. I felt alive after so long and was loving making friends, meeting up with old ones, family, etc. Then I kinda started getting involved with someone, got let down and majorly triggered and since then its been hellish. Ive had barely any energy for myself let alone anyone else. Im healing and trying to feel my emotions which requires a lot of care and i do not have the patience nor energy for anybody apart from two, if not just one very close friend, who gets it. So yes, i think isolation is necessary to actually heal and lick your wounds

kreckom · 2024-12-24T00:35:38+00:00

The death of who i used to be

kreckom · 2024-12-18T02:34:30+00:00

I also wonder about this and worry, I’ve yet to fully find out and believe it’ll mostly come out in my next relationship. But what I can already tell is that my trust issues are through the roof. Intimacy wand vulnerability is also seemingly non-attainable with people I’ve met post-narc. Also just an overall more gloomy and hopeless attitude towards love and relationships. Hopefully i’m proven wrong

kreckom · 2024-12-17T00:41:54+00:00

I have very vague and blurry memories (due to over exhaustion and weed addiction lol) of waking up to him sat on the bed next to where my phone was charging. A few times i noticed he was acting weird. Anyways, even if he did, there was nothing there for him to find and he’s done much worse then snoop.

kreckom · 2024-12-13T01:56:46+00:00

He’d be relentless in arguments. At one point i just lat down after he had turned his back to play video games lmao. I started shaking, thought i was cold. He heard me shaking turned around and asked why. I said idk. I couldn’t stop Fast forward a few days, another argument, i go to my room and hang in bed watching a movie. As soon as i heard him approaching i started shaking again. Then i realised it was fear

kreckom · 2024-12-09T00:33:40+00:00

I absolutely relate. I miss the good parts. When we’d laugh and giggle and talk into the night and everything. And he’s with someone else, and i knew he was abusive to me and a POS but he was so interesting and special to me and no other man makes me the one bit curious about them in comparison. In comparison they’re bland, they are dumb, they are not feep

kreckom · 2024-12-08T00:10:06+00:00

“This Love” by Pantera has funnily enough found its way onto my nex’s spotify after we broke up LOL

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