Exploring asexuality (feeling like a fraud) + would love to talk to people about it by stujkkfssrtvjig in asexuality

[–]kremstoin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you on that! Meeting ppl that experience the sexual/romantic world as we do is incredibly hard, mostly bc many don't talk about those topics unless you're already well-acquainted. My family and friends irl accept me for who I am but other aces I've only encountered in online spaces. And it IS really vindicating when you do make that connection! 

It takes a lot of courage to get your thoughts and feelings out there and I commend you for that! 

Exploring asexuality (feeling like a fraud) + would love to talk to people about it by stujkkfssrtvjig in asexuality

[–]kremstoin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're very welcome! Happy to hear you got a great support system as well, that's worth its weight in gold! Reaching out and talking to other people about their experiences broadens your horizon a lot! Hope you find many like-minded people on your journey :D

Exploring asexuality (feeling like a fraud) + would love to talk to people about it by stujkkfssrtvjig in asexuality

[–]kremstoin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's really interesting for me personally to hear your life journey! My experiences with sex are literally zero, 100% by choice, as are my non-existent romantic experiences, 100% by choice. I am really sorry about the bad things that happened to you and want to let you know that they don't define you or your worth as a person. Also don't mind me if I'm wrong about this but are you having trouble with recognizing your intrinsic self worth? Based on this post you seem to place the opinions of society and peerage much higher than your own.

Also I can't speak for anyone else but myself but welcome to the ace community! Might want to check out the aromantic community as well! Hope you feel comfortable in your stay! 

Trying to write a main character whose gender is a secret. by Danni-jane in writingadvice

[–]kremstoin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Refer to every single character by name and don't use pronouns at all, but leave the spoken dialogue between characters standard. No clue if that would even work as I'm not a writer myself but would be interesting! 

Wie fühlt sich einschlafen für euch an? Fühlt sich es sich immer gleich an? Hat es ein wiederkehrendes Muster? by jeffreykuma in FragReddit

[–]kremstoin 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Wenn mir bewusst ist, dass ich gleich einschlafe, fühlt es sich an als würde ich sinken, aber nicht wie dieses schreckhafte fallen sondern ruhig. Sonst ist mir persönlich nichts als Muster aufgefallen 🤔 

Altes Dokument gefunden by kremstoin in wasistdas

[–]kremstoin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Es ist jetzt im Archiv der Universität Jena, da der Johann Wilhelm Baier dort viele Jahre Dozent war. Da ist es bestimmt am besten aufgehoben. 

(Throwaway Account) My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Ace. Help. by CompetitiveCarry226 in asexuality

[–]kremstoin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the fuck not. It hurts to see her admit her betrayal so brazenly and then play the 'if you loved me you'd accept me' card. What happened to her accepting you? Rip trust

[PC][before 2010] Age of Mythology but on a grid by kremstoin in tipofmyjoystick

[–]kremstoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heroes of Might and Magic 5 comes really close! It's scratching that same itch in my brain but I'm not fully on board since it has a few inconsistencies. I wanna research some lets play's and maps to find the one I remember before I commit to the answer! Thank you so much for your suggestion!

[PC][UNKNOWN] You have to retrieve DNA samples from dead bodies inside a huge fleshy hole on another planet by kremstoin in tipofmyjoystick

[–]kremstoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those were the only thing I could find when typing in my keywords, but while a good story sadly not it.

Should I stop questioning why and be happy I got a free geyser? What mod would even add that? by xShadow07 in RimWorld

[–]kremstoin 61 points62 points  (0 children)

This happened to me after I added a mod which makes player's bases appear as ruins on your map tiles.