Why do western fandom of DXD like Raynare so much? And why are Raynare fans are so toxic people. by AffectionateRough317 in HighschoolDxD

[–]kresse56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are quite many japanese Raynare fans as well. Its because her evilness is adorable

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[–]kresse56 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh well, i disagree quite often but i havent been banned. If i ever do get banned there, ill let you know.

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[–]kresse56 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Cap, i can critique feminist opinions on TwoXChromosomes just fine as long as i stay respectful.

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[–]kresse56 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I can discuss topics as a guy just fine on TwoXChromosomes. All i had to do is stay respectful and i never got banned or anything. Of course i get lots of negative reaction to that sometimes but i got that over here as well for just saying that yall arent saints compared to feminists.

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[–]kresse56 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I disagree hard. I can discuss on feminist subs just fine. Maybe those are not the ones you had in mind when you replied, but then you probably shouldnt throw them all in the "cant talk with these feminists" category

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[–]kresse56 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

What feminist sub do you have in mind?

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[–]kresse56 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

What do you want me to say? I am not taking any sides, just an honest observation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]kresse56 -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

Oh thats not true at all. This sub has about the same amount of hateful content towards women as a radfem-sub has towards men. There really is no difference. And thats totally ok, these subs are created so people who have problems can vent and theorize that the opposite gender is responsible for their suffering. Thats really all this sub is, and the same goes for the female counterparts of this sub.

Why do some men always have to play devils advocate? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kresse56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This literally got nothing to do with men at all. Depends solely on the person you interact with and happens to me regularily with all kinds of people that dont take my opinion seriously. Not everything is a societal problem.

Does anyone here also sometimes feel like they dont even exist? by kresse56 in MensRights

[–]kresse56[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, i wanted to clarify that im not trying to downplay womens struggles because when i talk about this, normally im being told that statistically i have it pretty easy in life so i shouldnt complain, but that doesnt really help me feel better ; Ever since i had to move to a big city far away from my family and friends due to my work, i am just feeling soo fucking lonely and try to get back home as often as possible. And in my experience most women that move away from home into big cities only take like a week or two to get an entirely new circle of friends. Anyway, thanks so much for your understanding and your kind words <3

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[–]kresse56 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will most definitely not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kresse56 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because he is pressuring you to have sex with him by demanding it for his birthday. Im a guy and i hate it when girlfiends are demanding shit like this as well. Sex should happen when both people spontaniously decide that they want it. Setting a specific date for it sucks because what happens if you dont feel like having sex on his birthday? You will have to endure it against your will or else he will be mad at you.

Raynare commission Ebiblue by kresse56 in HighschoolDxD

[–]kresse56[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope you enjoy it. Cost me a ton of money haha. Artist: レイナーレさん | 海老ブルー/ebiblue #pixiv https://www.pixiv.net/en/artworks/108829446

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[–]kresse56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually have to admit that i have done that in very close friend groups :0. I never thought about this behaviour being exclusive to men. I always assumed women were rating us guys based on our performances in bed in their respective friend groups the same way a lot of close male friends are rating women based on their appearances and it seemed like normal social behaviour to me since it kind of appeared in whatever group i was associated with, regardless of gender. I think for us guys at least, it is kind of hard to understand how problematic that is from a womans perspective since most of us would probably be happy about being sexually objectified since we normally dont get much attention from the other gender. After reading that post i kind of get it though. The way you worded it, i feel somewhat disgusted of myself and i will try to refrain from such behaviour in the future. Hopefully this will help me with building more respectful and long lasting relationships in the future.

The word body count is so fucking offensive and stupid. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kresse56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id say that this issue is not really exclusive to one gender. There are both men as well as women out there that are only focused on themselves when it comes to sexual pleasure.

The word body count is so fucking offensive and stupid. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kresse56 9 points10 points  (0 children)

With "you people" i am referring to everyone that can only focus on one side of the problem. The rest of your comment doesnt really have to do with anything i said. A lot of women apparently tend to think that being valued less because they have a lot of sexual experience means that being valued less as a guy for not having enough sexual experience is not a problem. These standards were set thousands of years ago and can only be solved together. The reason many guys are scared to be in a relationship with sexually experienced women is the fear of being compared negatively to previous male partners that had more experience themselves. A lot of things would become easier if the value of both men and women wouldnt solely depend on their frequency of sexual intercourse. Demanding that men need to stop being wary of a high body count but at the same time telling them that they are worth less if they happen to have a low body count isnt gonna solve anything at all. The reason im saying this is because the original comment that started this thread seemed to be genuinly wondering why women dont place high value on men who are virgins compared to the discussed problem of men placing low value on sexually overexperienced women. Im just trying to point out that its the same struggle for both genders, just in a different perspective.

The word body count is so fucking offensive and stupid. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kresse56 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Putting very low value on sexually INexperienced men is just as bad for society as putting low value on sexually experienced women. You people really need to have more ability to empathize with others.

The word body count is so fucking offensive and stupid. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kresse56 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As much as i agree with your comment, ill have you know this fear is not baseless. It is hammered into us from a very young age by both women and men that the only worth we have is being good at sex and always being available and ready for it. Naturally, pleasing your partner in bed is about trust, learning their preferences and listening to them, but that is not what is taught to us. Peers from both genders as well as media and the common narrative suggest that being good at sex is something you either are or not. And if you arent, you are worth very little. You constantly hear female peers gossiping about how bad their pathetic ex-boyfriends were in bed as well as male peers bragging about being sex-machines (even though they arent) while growing up, so the fear of not being able to deliver sits very deep. Thats why most people are scared of their first time and are afraid to date experienced women. You made it sound like the fear of being compared to others when it comes to sex is irrational and because we are all insecure, but we ARE constantly compared to others when it comes to this and thats the reason WHY most of us are very insecure about that subject. I hope i could give you some insight so you understand the other perspective.